October 2019
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Rev. Katie's Animas View


I officiated at my son's wedding last weekend. It was a joyous event. It was a source of pride that I was able to conduct this beloved ritual for my son and his new wife. In recent years, when many young people choose to use a friend rather than a professional to help craft and lead this important ceremony, I've been a bit irked. I've been trained, not only as to how to compose the wedding, but about the theology of the ritual, the details of how to lead the event, and how to counsel the couple. 
 
My Christian colleagues in Durango express less of a concern, feeling that if the couple is not "people of faith" then it makes sense for them to not have a religious ceremony. Given that our Unitarian Universalist tradition is much more open in its notion of what is religious and what it means to be a person of faith, I don't feel my perspective is understood by these clergy. I appreciated, however, one colleague's comment that she's fine with "whatever goes" because it's up to the couple to determine what is important for their special day. I simply hope they take time to consider not only the flowers and the venue, but the reason that they are gathering loved ones together in the first place. 
 
In our current, more secular age, the authority given to religious institutions, even liberal ones like our own, has waned. The authority given to the ineffable something larger than our human self is often forgotten. I want to lift up the importance of milestone ceremonies, especially those of birth, relationship commitments (marriage) and death, and I am grateful to be part of a liberal religious and spiritual community that shares in those values. 
 
Always in the love,
 
Rev. Katie



SundayServicesSeptember Services

Theme: Belonging
Spiritual PracticeFinding home and being home for others 
 
October 6
To Belong
-The Rev. Katie Kandarian-Morris
"To be human is to belong," the poet John O'Donahue tells us. On this day, we'll consider the meaning of that belonging, as we celebrate our newest members. The choir sings today. 
 
October 13
Native Appropriations
-Rev. Katie Kandarian-Morris and Kayla Shaggy
Native American imagery is all around us, with much of it created by non-natives. On this Indigenous Peoples Day, might we learn about how we can build relationship based on respect rather than cultural borrowing?
 
October 20
Coming Out
-Nancy Stoffer, pulpit guest
How is it still important today to offer a coming out story to friends, family and the world? Let's consider together how we might build awareness. 
 
October 27
The Only Thing That Loves You More
-The Rev. Katie Kandarian-Morris
Earlier in the month was St. Francis Day. We'll use this acknowledgment of his love for animals as a time to bless the creatures loved by those in our fellowship. Bring photos of your cat, bunny or snake. Well-behaved dogs can show up and have a one-day opportunity to receive a blessing. Let's celebrate! 


PresidentsMessagePresident's Message
Tom McCampbell

Love is the doctrine of this church,
The quest for truth is its sacrament,
And service it its prayer.
To dwell together in peace;
To seek knowledge in freedom;
To serve human need;
For these high purposes
Do we unite in worship.
 
When we rise each Sunday, in body or spirit, and speak together our UUFD Affirmation, I am deeply moved. 
 
For me, giving voice this solemn declaration returns my spirit to the heart and soul of our fellowship - our worship service. This affirmation, this covenant, this promise reminds me that we are entering a sacred time ... a time to lay down the concerns I've been carrying, a time to set aside differences, a time settle and quiet my busy mind, a time to rejoice in the light of generosity and loving kindness that fills our beautiful sanctuary every Sunday.
 
As fall unfolds its glory and we enter a season of longer nights, busy days and harvest festivals, I hope you will find time to reflect on the meaning of our Affirmation in your life. I hope you find it to be a promise of connection for you - for deeper ties to your spirit, to our spiritual community and our spiritual home.
 
See you on Sunday!
 
In covenant,
 
Tom



faithformShape the future of Faith Formation at UUFD
Join us Sat., Oct. 5, 9 am - noon

We need YOU to help us answer these questions...
  • What are your hopes for the children and grandchildren you love? What are your hopes for the life of our congregation? 
  • What is the future of faith formation at the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Durango? 
  • What do our children and youth need from their faith to live robustly, with compassion and charity in the world that they will inherit? 
Join us on Saturday, October 5 from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. hosted by Rev. Katie Kandarian-Morris and Annie Scott, UUA Faith Development Consultant.
 
Current members, friends, active visitors and all those that care deeply about the future of our congregation and our faith should plan to attend.
 
The results of our workshop will form the foundation for the faith formation interim work of Sara Sautter, Interim Director of Faith Formation.
 
We'll have coffee, tea, juice and a light breakfast to start our day. And there will be a bounce house and fun activities for children while their parents attend the workshop.  
 
Come for all, come for part, but please come.  To register, email Sara Sautter .


scamsBe aware of scams targeting church members

In recent months, many church members, including some of our own here at UUFD, have been targeted by a scam in which they received an email from a false email account appearing to be from a church official. 

If something feels strange or suspicious about an email you've received, look carefully at the sender's email address. It may look very similar to one used by the fellowship. Check personally with the purported sender. Rev. Katie and other church officials will not ask you for money, nor will they engage with you in a non-professional manner.

It is not uncommon for people to scam churches, since our people are trusting and covenanted. Please do not send money or engage. 

If you have received one of these emails, please mark it as spam and block the address. 


Social Responsibility and Justice special feature

Thank you to those who made it a priority to nominate a local organization to be a recipient of our 2019-20 Share the Plate collections.  Your concern and commitment to the organization you nominated was inspiring!  We received nine excellent nominations, all very worthy organizations doing important social justice work.  The SRJ Coordinating Team met and carefully reviewed each nomination, considering its relationship to our social justice priorities, its impact in our community, and perceived need for financial support.  It was challenging to select only four recipients out of the nine nominations.  We are pleased to announce the following organizations and the schedule for Share the Plate donations.
 
October-December: La Plata Family Centers Coalition
LPFCC serves the critical needs of families in rural communities in Southwest Colorado, including La Plata and Archuleta counties.  Multiple approaches are used to not only help families in the midst of crises and challenges, but also to support families in becoming more self-reliant and able to provide a safe, stable and nurturing home environment.  More than 65% of the families served live in poverty, with an income of less than $25,000 per year.  Demographically, 23% of families served are Latinx, 12% Native American, and 10% multi-racial.
 
January-March:  Grief Center of Southwest Colorado
The Grief Center of Southwest Colorado is dedicated to meeting the needs of bereaved members of the community regardless of cultural and/or religious beliefs, manner of death, relationship to the deceased, and ability to pay.  Examples of the Center's services include therapy and support for all ages, grief groups and education for schools and community, suicide prevention and survivors of suicide support, on-call intervention response for schools and organizations (such as the school shooting in Aztec), and memorial service assistance.
 
April-June: 4 Corners Office for Resource Efficiency (4CORE)
Climate change is the most critical and time sensitive challenge of our time.  Justice acknowledges that families who can least afford the effects of a warming planet are those most impacted by climate change. 4CORE promotes resource conservation, energy efficiency and renewable energy through education and programs that strengthen the local economy and foster a healthy, sustainable environment for everyone.  It particularly prioritizes collaborating with local utilities, governments, and citizen efforts to enable low income families to upgrade to more energy-efficient and cost-saving practices, such as solar and weatherization, at an affordable price. 
 
July-September: CompaƱeros - Four Corners Immigrant Resource Center
CompaƱeros serves immigrants in the rural Southwest through community organizing, education outreach, and bilingual direct assistance, striving to make our community a more inclusive and welcoming place where people from all different backgrounds can thrive and flourish.  They help immigrants with understanding their basic rights, referrals for legal services, paperwork, and navigating the complex immigration or justice system. They are the only organization in our region with a primary focus on serving immigrants.
 
Thank you not only to those who nominated an organization as a Share the Plate fund recipient, but also to all the members and friends who make it a priority to donate on our STP Sundays.  Your generosity makes STP an important source of needed funds for organizations to do their work.  On average, three months of STP donations result in just over $2000 going to a selected organization, a significant contribution.

 
Needham Elementary - Continued Partnership
Our partnership with Needham Elementary includes a mutual agreement to help each other with facility related needs.  They make their parking lot available to us on Sundays and we make our parking lot and buildings available in an emergency, should they need to evacuate students and staff from their premises.  Last year, in an effort to go beyond this basic partnership, we asked if we could help with other needs that are important to teaching, learning and student success.  
 
Needham was profoundly grateful for our outreach to them, and from September to June we collected about $2800.  These funds provided for needs not covered by their budget.  They included noise canceling headphones, composition notebooks, water bottles, a rocking chair, and school play expenses, all benefiting students in multiple grades.  In addition, we helped struggling low income families by paying off accumulated lunch program debts and provided a source of funds to meet varied student needs such as clothing, shoes and participation fees.  If you heard principal Jenny McKenna when she spoke at one of our Sunday services, you know the impact these funds had and how much they were appreciated.
 
This year we reached out to new principal, Laurie Rossbeck, to ask what would be most helpful to Needham. Laurie described a dynamic special staff team called the Social Emotional Learning team who are dedicated to doing whatever it takes to provide an environment where every student belongs and every student can learn.  They teach all students about brain science, mindfulness, peaceful conflict resolution, friendship skills, school readiness and restorative justice practices, to name a few.  They work with individual students and small groups to provide additional help to students who need more support.  They also help families with basic needs such as clothing, food/snacks, and scholarships for field trip costs.  The team has an unlimited view of possible actions to take to support student well-being and success, but a very limited budget.  Their hope is that our contributions will allow them to better accomplish their mission, especially to help with families' basic needs and to purchase materials to use with students.
 
Needham serves a very diverse student population, including homeless students and 'under-housed' students - think the local motel.  They have a significant poverty rate.  We celebrate their can-do mission to help all students succeed, no matter the challenges! If you would like to contribute to this partnership, you can put cash or checks (made out to UUFD) in the school-shaped box at the SRJ table.  We'll be collecting throughout the year and sending checks periodically to the school. You will be making a real difference in the lives of children. 


Performance features Drea Pressley and Andreas Tischhauser

The thirteenth season of the Recital Series will get off to a great start on Friday, Oct. 4, at 7:00 pm with Drea Pressley, mezzo-soprano, and her husband Andreas Tischhauser.  The program, altered since first advertised, includes Andreas performing as a professional flutist and tenor, with Marilyn Garst accompanying on the piano. The program will include one piece for voice, flute and piano by Ravel, one work for flute and piano by Chaminade and vocal works by Copland, Falla, Schumann, Bizet, Schubert and Brahms.  For more information about the series and to purchase tickets, see the UUFD website. Admission can also be purchased at the door.


spruceFall UUFD Spruce Up
Saturday, Oct. 12, 9 am - noon

The chamisa is blooming, hollyhocks have had it, and it's time to spruce up the grounds before the snow flies.

We will trim out some old foliage, take down the shade sails, and do some general cleaning up.
Come at 9 am, or whenever you can. Bring gloves, hat, sunscreen, hedge trimmers and pruning shears if you have them.  Questions? Contact Aline at 970-946-8877 or [email protected].