Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island E-Letter

May 28, 2020
5 Sivan 5780

Celebrating Shavuot
Erev Shavuot 5/28
Shavuot I 5/29
Shavuot II 5/30

See links to services below

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

Look on the Horizon!!!!! It is Mount Sinai, from which the Ten Commandments and the Torah were given To the Israelites. Shavuot, which begins Thursday evening, commemorates our receipt of the Torah from God. It comes at the end of a 49-day countdown which started at the second Seder of Passover. 

Our Biblical ancestors began this counting ritual. On the Second Day of Passover, an offering was made of an Omer (of barley). From that point forward, our ancestors counted every day for 49 days. After the completion of this ritual, by which the Israelites showed their gratitude for the grain, the people were allowed to enjoy eating the produce of the new harvest.

When the Temple was destroyed and the Jewish people became less agricultural, this ritual might have quietly faded. However, through the brilliance of the Rabbis, the Counting of the Omer was maintained as a spiritual practice. The 49 days from Passover to Shavuot became known as the transition from being enslaved in Egypt to freely encountering God at Mt Sinai. For each of these 49 days we acknowledge one more step in our journey toward spiritual and emotional freedom.

But counting the Omer serves another purpose. Through it we can, not only keep track of time, but we can mark changes in our selves as well. Each evening after sundown (which is the beginning of the next day on the Jewish calendar) we put aside what we are doing and say the ritual words “Today is the XX day of the counting of the Omer.”

It is not by accident that the Omer is counted “up”, from 1 to 49, and not “down”.
The journey from freedom to the receipt of the Torah is a march of elevation toward holiness. Each day we rise higher and higher in our desire to be closer to God and to the Divine that exists within each of us.

Another way to look at this is that when we count down, we have a finite end point. Once we reach zero, the count is over. In theory, if we count up, we can count forever, or until we are ready to stop. The notion of limitlessness can either be exhilarating or it can be exhausting. But it provides one more beautiful piece to our tradition. We are counting until we are ready to receive Torah. The count up can be can be limitless, but we choose to stop at 49 days, every year, because we are calling out to the world that we are ready to receive the Torah. We always have the choice to keep going and, yet, we always choose to receive God’s holy gift. That is beautiful and empowering.

This year counting, and marking our days, takes on a new significance. How many days have we been in isolation? How many days have we been in limbo? How many days will it continue? 

I think that we should ask ourselves an additional question. When our ancestors left slavery and became free, they received, and carried with them, the Torah, a book of just, righteous, and compassionate laws. They received and nurtured a treasure that would guide them on how to live better lives. 

What is the Torah that we will receive at the end of our quarantine? What will we bring with us as we emerge from our shelters and re-enter the world?

One thing that I have learned is that our JCC Community is full of kind, caring, and innovative people. You feel a connection to the JCC, and to our Jewish traditions, and you are willing to try new things. You don’t just try new things, you engage in them and you do so vibrantly. You are making the world a better place. For me, you have been a blessing.

Please email, phone, text me, or join one of our Zoom services or programs and tell me what you have learned from this experience. 

One more thing!!! In much of the non-orthodox world, the Omer is not a tradition that is followed with any regularity. One of the silver linings of our current situation is that, because of our Zoom Services, there were several people who, for the first time in their lives, counted each of the 49 days!!!!! Each one is now eligible to become members of the “Cal Ripken Omer Counting Hall of Fame” (Formerly known as the Lou Gehrig Omer Counting Hall of Fame).

Count, make an accounting, receive, and give. The Torah, our Torah, is waiting for each of us.

Chag Shavuot Sameach – Rabbi Michael S. Jay  

KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM  KOL HAKAVOD
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
With all the uncertainties facing us in these times, it is important for our JCC community to retain and strengthen our traditions. One of our most cherished traditions as a New Year begins is honey... a taste of honey. The Women's Auxillary of the JCC of LBI is sponsoring 
"Honey  from the Heart"  
a program where you can send your loved ones - family, friends and colleagues - near and far, a jar of honey with a personalized New Year's greeting. Treat yourself and your family this New Year. Look for details soon.
THE WEEK THAT WAS...

Mazel tov to the Braun/VanNaarden family on the bar mitzvah of Sam Braun. The Rosh Chodesh service last Sunday was led by Rabbi Jay through Zoom. Over 100 participants signed into Zoom - family, friends, congregation members - or 250 people joined in to see Sam beautifully conduct the service, read Torah and Haftorah from his home. Included in the viewers were folks from various parts of the US, Israel and Amsterdam. We were able to see what can be done to celebrate a milestone electonically and feel the joy of the moment together.
ZOOM CLASSES NEXT THIS WEEK

Family Dynamics in Chumash Class (The Joseph Story) 
Monday, 6/1 @ 10:00 AM Click on
Click on CHUMASH

"Psalm Day - Psalm Where - Some How" 
Tuesday, 5/26 @ 1:00 PM Click on  PSALM


Ask the Rabbi 
Wednesday, 6/3 @ 3:00 PM
Have a cup of tea or a cocktail with the Rabbi Wed. afternoon. Click on  ASK THE RABBI

Weekly Torah Study - Pirkei Avot
Thursday, 6/4 @ 11:00 AM Click on   TORAH STUDY

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here:  TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here:  TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180

ENDOWMENT FUND
Join Herb and Selma Shapiro z'l to help assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such name funds will be joined together to be part of the endowment fund portfolio.

Judith z"l & Donald Pripstein have joined the Shapiros with a $50,000 donation and have established The Pripstein Family Endowment Fund.

All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this fund whether as a specific named fund, or as a general donation.

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  
Here is the order form: 

JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site:  www.jccoflbi.org   
  

THE OFFICE IS TEMPORARILY CLOSED.
PLEASE USE THE PHONE OR EMAIL WITH REQUESTS.
OUR OFFICE STAFF WILL BE CHECKING IN REGULARLY.

    
Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Tony DeGregorio, Custodial Staff
Kitchen Manager: Susan Berube


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President

 VIEW THE May/June
with this link

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen 1963@aol.com
 


SHABBAT SHALOM
&
CHAG
SOMEACH

Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)

Friday evening,
May 29, 2020
7:58 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)

JOIN US FOR INTERNET
SERVICES

Friday evening,
May 29, 2020
 6:00 PM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:


Saturday Morning
Service
Saturday, 
May 30, 2020
10:00 AM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:



Saturday,
May 30, 2020
8:45 PM
HAVDALLAH
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:

Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:


LOOK FOR INFORMATION ABOUT A VIRTUAL SHABBAT DINNER
Friday, June 5th


Candlelightiing
Erev Shavuot
Thursday
May 28, 2020
7:58

SHAVUOT SERVICES
Erev Shavuot
Thursday, May 28
7:30 PM
Service & Study

It is the custom to study on Erev Shavuot.
Following the service Rabbi will lead us in study and discussion

Topics:

Torah Study
In Jewish tradition, studying is not something we do just to become more knowledgeable, or to know how to behave later on in life.   See more....

Humility
We learn important messages from the Torah. One such message is the example of humility. Moses' authority was challenged by disgruntled members of the Jewish nation.   See more....

Thinking About the Food We Eat
In the Torah, we are told very specifically that we cannot eat whatever we want whenever we want. Discipline, in Judaism, is an important part of eating.   See more..

Rules
Our mitzvot are rules and Jews have all sorts of rules in our lives. Throughout the Torah and Talmud, we learn about rules and consequences.   See more....


First Day Shavuot
Friday, May 29
10:00 AM

Second Day Shavuot
Saturday, May 30
10:00 AM
YISKOR WILL BE RECITED
AT 11:00 AM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
Join Zoom Services:

YAHRZEITS FOR NEXT WEEK
Ethel Lenkowsky
Albert Rosenfeld*
Ike Schwaff*
Irene Epstein
Florence Koransky
Harry Kotler
Isaac Freedman
Jacob Shaer
Rose Shaer
Josh Braun
Sidney Denbo
Anita D. Klaiman
Gloria Shaprio
Harry Sobelsky
Lena Sobelsky
Bertram Stern Lowe
Gertrude Miller
Eve Robinson
Terry Shapiro
Anna Gubar*
Edward Oertell
Jeanne Paris
Beverly Rosenstein
Jennie Schlanger*
Leo Baron
Morris Brounstein
Sadie Chalek
Bernard Diamond
Jenny Kessler
Diane Korn
Avram Shatz

PLEASE LET THE OFFICE KNOW WHEN YOU WILL NEED A MINYAN TO SAY KADDISH.  
 
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovely enshrined on our synagogue 
memorial boards.
CONGREGATION NEWS

Mazel Tov

Noralynn & David
Carroll
on the marriage
of their daughter
Jillian Leah Carroll
to
Aristoteli Dorizas
(both health care workers on the fron line)

Suzanne & Jon Geier
on the graduation of their daughter
Page
from NYU Law School




SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES

CONTACT: 

 
 
CARING COMMITTEE
  
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 
   
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Sylvain Nakkab
May 30
Arleen Moffitt
May 31
Bernard Rothman
May 31
Lawrence Lerner
June 2
Louis Celebre
June 4
Michael Nissenblatt
June 4
Andrew Ross
June 5

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DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

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 PAVERS:
 
TREE OF LIFE
TREE  
 
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:
 
KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM
 

TRIBUTES: