Bits & Tips: Summer 2019 Edition
YUConnects offers unique social events, targeted matchmaking and educational programs to foster healthy relationships toward marriage. 
It is self-funded and open to the entire Jewish community.

367
engagements and counting!

Recent Engagements:

Zipporah Levine
of Valley Village, CA
Ariel Rafie
of Los Angeles, CA

Matched by  
Mrs. Miriam LaTova
     

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Rachelle Belne
of Toronto, Canada
Yaakov Katz
of Queens, NY

Matched by  
Mr. & Mrs. Alex & Judith Hecht
     

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Jackie Farber
of Fairfield, CT
Shmuel Hauss
of Los Angeles, CA

Matched by  
Mrs. Malky Galler
     

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Chaya Kamionski
of Tarzana, CA
Reuvie Goodwin
of San Diego, CA

Matched by  
Mrs. Ariel Siegel Mitrani
   

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Melissa Factor
of Toronto, Canada
Brian Fruchter
of Woodmere, NY

Matched by  
Mrs. Miriam Simpson
 

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Orly Gabay
of Philadelphia, PA
Binyamin Kohanbash
of Pittsburgh, PA

Matched by 
Mrs. Rachel Cohen

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Rebecca Wieser 
of Houston, TX 
Seth Greenberg
of Philadelphia, PA 

Matched by
Mrs. Sima Greenstein

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Dasi Korn 
Staten Island, NY 
Phil Blass
of Paramus, NJ 

Matched by
Mrs. Mindy Eisenman

Smile of the Day



 


by Dr. David Lieberman
YUConnects Pay It ForWed
Did you know that YUConnects has many resources for newly engaged couples? Check out our website to see what we offer. And, your donation to our non-profit will entitle you to unique tefilla cards for use at your chuppa. Should you be blessed with making a Simcha, your support of YUConnects can ensure others benefit as well. What a beautiful way to " Pay it ForWed!
Wedding Checklist  for the Wedding Day 
Beautiful Tefilla Cards  f or use at the Chuppah  Ceremony 
* A List of Kallah and Chosson Teachers  within your  community. Call our office for recommendations. 
Tribute Cards  to give in celebration of the big day

SUN - Singles Uniting Network 
New initiative to help singles in your community!

What: Periodic meetings of singles to network and act as matchmakers for each other. 
Where: Each Shul will appoint a facilitator who will run and host the meetings of singles at their home
For more information: read the article  here and contact David Katzoff at SinglesUnitingNetwork@gmail.com

  Check out our
  
Read about events, activities and great links for hot topics in dating! 
             
upcoming events
Lecture in Teaneck
When:   
Wednesday, July 24 @ 8 pm
Where: Congregation Bnai Yeshurun in Teaneck, NJ
Price: Free
What: Rabbi Ciment and Rebbetzin Sobolofsky will speak on "Best Practices in Dating." 

For more information email:   3weeks.AY@gmail.co m



Shabbos in Passaic
When: Shabbos July 26-27
Who: Ages 23-38 Modern Orthodox Machmir Young Professionals
Where: Passaic, NJ
Price: $135 includes housing and 3 meals
How to Apply: send resumes to Shidduchprojects@gmail.com or call
201-522-4776


Barbecue in Lawrence
When: Sunday, August 4
Who: Ages 25-35 Modern Orthodox, Yeshivis, Shomer Shabbat
Where: Lawrence, NY
Price: $36
How to Apply: send profile to dluxconnections@gmail.com or
call  917-669-8423



SAVE THE DATE:
Barbecue in Lawrence
When: Sunday, August 25
Who: Ages 24-38
Where: Lawrence, NY
What: Annual BBQ by Baila Sebrow
For more information email:
Bsebrow@aol.com or call 516-849-5863

OP-Ed

Wait to Date?

by Baila Sebrow

Reprinted from 
Five Towns Jewish Times

Question:
I am having a major disagreement with my husband and mother-in-law about my daughter. She is home from seminary for almost a year, and, so far, I have been holding her back from dating. I want her to be a little more mature and experience the world before she gets married. I want her to have a career. She is presently in college, and she is seeing that all her friends are dating; some of her classmates have already gotten married. So she also wants to get married.
My mother-in-law and husband are furious with me for holding her back. My mother-in-law says that girls and boys who are 30 and not married are not normal, and if I hold her back from getting married, she will turn 30 and not be normal. She says that in front of my daughter, and my husband agrees with her, too. She says that she can talk like that because her children got married young.
I got married young and never had the chance to live life, and I want so much more for my daughter than I had. I want her to be able to finish college and have a career. Plus, everywhere I go, I see young divorced people, and I don't want that to happen to my daughter. Am I wrong here?

Response:
I think that every person involved in your predicament might be wrong here.

Click  HERE to read more.

Shiur Spotlight 
of the Month

by Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz, Mrs. Elisheva Kaminetsky, and Mrs. Mindy Eisenman
CLICK HERE  to listen to the 
great panel featured on YUTorah!



Click Here to listen to more Shiurim on the YUTorah/YUConnects page
and other dating resources !

Help Us Make More Matches!
 

Have friends who are joining YUConnects?

Do YOU want help in maximizing your membership?

Check out these 
Refer to our  "Accepting A Match" tutorial for further help!
Special thanks to the 
YUConnects 
Advisory Board,
who offer  continuous guidance and support.
Click Here to view our Board.
YUConnects Staff

Dr. Efrat Sobolofsky, 
Director-  esobolof@yu.edu

Mindy Eisenman, Staff Connector-  meisenma@yu.edu

Marjorie Glatt, 
Special Projects Coordinator- mglatt@yu.edu

Rachel Novick,
Administrator- rachel.novick@yu.edu

Naomi Landsman, 
Bergen County Regional Connector-
mnlands@aol.com

Malky Galler, 
Long Island Regional Connector-  M alky.galler@yu.edu



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