Talk to your hosts early:
“A child who has behavior difficulties at school is going to have them at grandma’s house,” warns Dr. Dickstein, a child and adolescent psychiatrist. So make sure their expectations are realistic.
Plan ahead for some peace and quiet:
For our kids who are easily over stimulated, find a place where they can take a break and just be quiet.
Keep kids occupied: Long drives ahead? Getting out of the car to run around for a few minutes may be beneficial for kids who get restless or have impulsive behavior
Discuss Social Expectations: Communicate to extended family ahead of time and don't assume the same social expectation for every kid.
Think about the menu: Picky eaters and sensory diets? No problem. Communicate with your child that it is ok to explore new foods but that you can bring along things foods they like to eat as well.
Manage your expect
ations:
“Above all, give yourself a break,” says Dr. Dickenstein. “You can’t make everyone happy, and perfect holidays are nonexistent."
