Jewish Community Center of    JCC the Place to Be
 Long Beach Island  E-Letter

 June 7, 2019
 4 Sivan 5779



Contents
Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
The Week That Was...
June Activities
Mah jongg
Book Club
Cuba Trip
Giving Opportunities
Shoprite Scrip
TD Affinity Program
Next Week's Events
Service Schedule
Yahrzeits for Next Week
Happy Birthday
Congregation News
Sponsor an Oneg Shabbat
Sponsor a Kiddish
Celebrate a Milestone
Bulletin Ads
Name Badges
Documents & Links
A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

I love the Torah. I love studying it. I love discussing it. I love teaching it. And I love sharing it. This is why one of the first things I did when the JCC became my rabbinic home, was to start a Torah study class on Saturday mornings. Inasmuch as the day holiday Shavuot begins this Saturday evening, June 8th, it was fortuitous that, as I was preparing for the holiday, I came across this wonderful piece on Shavuot that was written by Rabbi Jack Friedman, my immediate predecessor at the JCC:
 
Shavuot celebrates the revelation of the Torah on Mount Sinai. One of the questions asked is: "Who wrote the Torah?" One of the editors of the Etz Hayim Bible answered the question saying, "People." If so, then what was the role of God?" To which the editor replied, "God enables genius. The Torah is a work of spiritual genius."
 
When I was a young student in the Yeshiva, I was taught that God wrote the Torah letter by letter and gave it to Moses. As I began to delve deeper into its teachings I felt a conflict with that teaching. I began to see that the Torah unfolded over time, reflecting historical settings, until it was finalized into a magnificent spiritual blueprint for a meaningful life.

Each day when I study the Torah, over and over again, from the
beginning to its end, I see in it the vessel of values. I see the details of its teachings expressing values that bring us closer to God and to our fellow human beings. When I read the words, "And God said," it indicates our understanding of God's will and values.
 
Human understanding is continually unfolding by the changing conditions in life and adding new insights. The study of Torah is a continuous discovery and when we read through it each year, from beginning to end, we find new meanings. The Torah is God's love letter to us. I believe that people wrote it, but the wisdom of Torah emerged intuitively from reaching beyond ourselves and hearing the still small voice of God lovingly guiding us to meaningful living. The genius of the Torah is that it is relevant in every generation - the past, the present and the future.
 
I see myself as an "evolutionary Jew."

I live with the tradition of the past and the change for the present.

I believe that people are the vessels of God, able to hear the will of
God, and be God's partner here on earth.

I believe that God in some wonderful way revealed the Torah, but is
not God's final word.

I believe that the Torah challenges us to honor the past, to live in the
present and to discover even greater wisdom in the future.

I believe that the Torah requires us to interpret its teachings and form
a system of values that strengthens the bonds to the world around us.

I believe that the study of Torah brings forth the best that we can be.
 
I believe that the Torah wants us to do the best we are capable of doing.

I believe that the Torah's teachings are continually evolving, calling to
us, "you shall be holy, for I the Eternal am holy."

I believe that Shavuot is the time when we need to pledge anew the
words of our ancestors at Mount Sinai, "We will do and we will
learn."

Rabbi Jacob Friedman
SHAVUOT 2012
 
It is a gift that Rabbi Jack shared his view of the Torah with the congregation before his health forced him to retired. It becomes a legacy to what he hoped to impart upon his congregants.
 
Each of us has a lesson to be learned, and that we can teach, from reading the Torah.
 
For my part, I would love to impart the joy of Torah study on as many people as possible.   For this reason I am looking for a home or location to teach a weekly Torah study class, during a weekday, on the northern side of the island. If you would like to host, or know someone who would like to host, please reach out to me and let me know.
 
As we ready ourselves to receive the Torah at Sinai, my we receive a Torah of truth, honesty, and wonder. May its teachings enable us to make ourselves, our families, our communities, better, and may we each work toward making the world a better place.
 
Shabbat Shalom and Chag Shavuot Sameach - Rabbi Michael S. Jay
 
 
KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

THE WEEK THAT WAS....


We are so excited about the response of 23 people to our Charter meeting of the JCC of LBI Chaverah group last Sunday evening.  What a wonderful start for this group.  

All agreed that they would like to plan activities but first want to socialize and get to know each other. The next meeting will be Monday morning, July 8 at 9:30 AM for a pancake breakfast and fun games.  All are welcome to join.  Contact event leader Diane Buskirk for further information. [email protected]

 

 
Join us in saying farewll to 
long-time JCC of LBI 
employee & friend

MARCIE DEUTSCH
Marcie will be moving down to South Carolina 
and we want to show her how much we appreciate her  and wish her well.

We will also be celebrating her birthday 
at a Luncheon in her honor
Wednesday, June 19, 2019 
 12:00 Noon 
at the JCC Social Hall.

$25 per person (includes a gift)
RSVP to the JCC Office
609-492-4090

JUNE ACTIVITIES




Book Review Club
Monday, June 17
10:30 AM


Farewell Luncheon for 
Marcie Deutsch 
 Wednesday, June 19
12:00 Noon

Shabbat on the Beach in Loveladies 
  Friday, June 21
6:00 PM

Bus Trip to the Jewish Museum in Philly 
Sunday, June 23

Welcome Back Brunch 
Sunday, June 30
 10:30 AM

MAH JONGG & CANASTA
Mah jongg

Mah jongg & Canasta
Wednesdays from 
12:30 to 4:00 PM

Learn how to play Samba (a fun form of Canasta) on June 12.

BOOK CLUB 

 

Monday, June 17th @ 10:30 AM

"The Women in the Castle" by Jessica Shattuck 
Three women, haunted by the past and the secrets they hold.



Set at the end of World War II, in a crumbling Bavarian castlethat once played host to all of German high society, a powerful and propulsive story of  three widows whose lives and fates become intertwined - an affecting, shocking, and ultimately redemptive novel from the author of the New York Times Notable Book The Hazards of Good Breeding. 

JCC OF LBI CUBA TRIP
  

See attached sign-up sheet: CUBA
GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTE

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
See form for your order:  PAVERS
 

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone 
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
It will be 
WRITTEN IN STONE
Please contact
Diane Hoffman 
with your order 
or with any questions: 

TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall.  See the order form here: 

Bronze Leaf $90 
Silver Leaf $126 
Gold :Leaf $180

ENDOWMENT FUND
Join Herb and Selma Shapiro z'l to help assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such name funds will be joined together to be part of the endowment fund portfolio.

Judith & Donald Pripstein have joined the Shapiros with a $50,000 donation and have established The Pripstein Family Endowment Fund.

All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this fund whether as a specific named fund, or as a general donation.

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. Here is the order form: PLAQUES

SHOPRITE & ACME SCRIP

Purchase Acme & Shoprite Scrip while still available in the JCC Office.
TD AFFINITY PROGRAM


Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

Think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.


 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
FOR HANDICAPPED ENTRANCE
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
 OFFICE HOURS:     
Monday - Friday 
from 9:00 - 1:30
  
 

 
Mary Beth, Tony and Leslie


Office Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 
Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Tony DeGregorio, Custodial Staff



Kitchen Manager
Susan Berube


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President


  VIEW THE MAY/APRIL BULLETIN
with this link
 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
 

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or click on this link  FACEBOOK
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NEXT WEEK'S EVENTS
6/7/19 - 6/14/19

Friday 6/7
6:30 PM
Shabbat Barbecue Dinner

Wednesday

12:30 AM - 4:00 PM
Mah jongg
Canasta



See JCC of LBI Calendar:

CALENDAR


SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat BBQ
Dinner
6:30 PM

Shabbat 
Candle Lighting Time

Friday 
June 7, 2019
8:04 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)

   JOIN US FOR SERVICES

Friday evening
June 7, 2019
8:00 PM

Rabbi's Talk:
God's desire To create a Holy community

Oneg Shabbat Sponsor
Arlene & Mitchell 
Frumkin


Saturday morning
June 8, 2019
9:00 AM Torah Study
10:00 AM Services

Torah Reading
Bamidbar
Numbers 1:1 - 19
Here is the Parshah:

Haftorah
Hosea 2:1 - 2:22
Here is the Haftorah:

Torah Readers:
Matan Katz
 Gary Katz
Harry Pell
Rena Rosen
Jason Rosen
 Aaron Lombardi




SHAVUOT


C andle Lighting T ime
Erev Shavuot I
Saturday, June 8
9:34 PM

Erev Shavuot II
Sunday, June 9
9:35 PM 
   
SHAVUOT SERVICES

Saturday, June 8
Shavuot I  
Havdallah at 8:30 PM
followed by 
Tikun L'el Shavuot 
A Night of Study 
Cheesecake and Wine


Sunday, June 9 
 Services at 9:30 am
Blessing of the Children
10:45 am
Chuppah 2

Torah Reading
Exodus 19:1 - 20:23 & Numbers 28:26 - 28:31
Haftorah
Ezekiel 1:1 - 28; 3:12

Dr. Michael Lippmann
will be reading Torah and chanting the Haftorah
in honor of his 50th 
Wedding Anniversary
Mazel tov 
Michael & Julie


Traditional Dairy Kiddish 
to follow 
Kiddish sponsored by
Diane & Gary Katz


Monday, June 10
Services  at 9:30 am

Torah Reading
Deuteronomy 15:19 - 16:17 &
Numbers 28:26 - 28:31
Haftorah
Habakkuk 3:1 -19

Torah Readers:
Eliana Pell
 Ian Dumain
 Petra Zucker
Jeremy Zucker
Harry Pell

Yizkor will be recited at @ 11:00 am

Traditional Dairy Kiddish 
to follow


Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat 
 and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.

YAHRZEITS FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be  read at services on  June 7, 2019

Fay Baker*
Abe Bernstein
Ruth Brill*
Irving Fingerman
Esther Myers
Shirley Rosner*
Ethel Lenkowsky
Albert Rosenfeld*
Ike Schwaff*
Irene Epstein
Florence Koransky
Harry Kotler
Isaac Freeman
Jacob Shaer
Rose Shaer
Sidney Denbo
Anita Klaiman
Gloria Shapiro
Harry Sobelsky
Bertram Stern Lowe
Gertrude Miller
Eve Robinson
Terry Shapiro
Lena Sobelsky



  PLEASE LET THE OFFICE KNOW WHEN YOU WILL NEED A MINYAN TO SAY KADDISH.  

 
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovely enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.


HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Cake

This Week's
Birthdays:

Marjie Carnevale
June 10
Roberta Kaplan
June 11
Richard Dittrich
June 13
Steven Powitz
June 13
Linda Silverman
June 13
Nona Levin Abrams
June 14
 
 
 

If you have not given the office your birthday information and would like to receive birthday wishes, please notify the office of your date of birth.

And if you would like to have the Rabbi give you or a family member a special blessing on the Shabbat of your/their birthday, please let him know: RABBI

CONGREGATION
NEWS

CONDOLENCES

Mitchell & Arlene Frumkin
on the passing of
Mitchell's father
Albert David Frumkin



"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory." 




 Vera & Bernard Hershenberg
on the birth of their
grandson
Jacob Isaac
son of Julia & Michael
Christopher





Suzy Geier
having shoulder surgery

Harold Farin
having surgery this week

SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES

 
 
 
Caring 
CARING COMMITTEE
   
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 
 
   
SPONSOR AN ONEG SHABBAT


SPONSOR
an Oneg Shabbat 
on Friday night

with a $36.00 
minimum contribution

See this form for details
ONEG

Call the JCC Office to reserve a date.
609-492-4090
SPONSOR A KIDDUSH


We are proud to announce the establishment of the 
Zena Jay Kiddush Fund
in memory of Rabbi Jay's mother

Those who want to sponsor a kiddish or would like to donate to the fund, can contact the office at 609-492-4090

For information about 
sponsoring a Kiddush

SEE DONATION & MENU:

CELEBRATE A MILESTONE AT THE JCC

The JCC is a beautiful place to celebrate a milestone: wedding, anniversary, baby naming, birthday.

Contact the office for further information. 609-492-4090
 
BULLETIN ADS

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  BADGES

DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

 

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

 

LATEST BULLETIN:

BULLETIN 

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP  

 

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD

 

ONEG SHABBAT SPONSOR:

ONEG 

 

KIDDISH SPONSOR:

KIDDISH