Have you ever found yourself in a disagreement with someone that you just could not get past? So frustrating ! I hate leaving anything on bad terms, but sometimes, with some people, we can’t force a happy ending despite an earnest effort. The good thing is, God is fully aware of this struggle, and provides plenty of references in the Bible to help guide and comfort us in these situations.

When tempers flare, it’s all too easy to get caught up in a whirlwind of raised voices, backhanded comments and snide remarks. Our job as followers of Christ is to remain true to our mission , and not engage in such power struggles . If you feel like the conversation is going nowhere fast, usually the best choice is to dissociate from it versus risk worsening the situation. Satan loves urging us to get the last word or try to come out on top in an argument whatever the cost, but that’s not the humility and grace God wants us to dwell in. So for this month’s edition, I’d like to share a few of my favorite verses to keep in your back pocket for when you feel that swell of frustration rise due to an altercation with another of God’s children. Remember, when we’re presented with an invitation to quarrel , we don’t have to accept!