Parenting without your village (YES IT IS HARD!):
An excerpt from Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids (by Dr. Laura Markham - the lady behind
www.ahaparenting.com):
"Your child needs you to witness her outpouring of emotion and let her know that she is still lovable, despite all these yucky feelings. Explanations, negotiations, remorse, recriminations, advice, analysis of why she’s so upset, or attempts to “comfort” her (“there, there, you don’t have to cry, that’s enough.”) will all shut down this natural emotive process. You don’t have to say much. Your calm, loving tone is what matters. Maybe:
-You are safe, I am right here.
-I hear you. Everybody needs to cry sometimes.
-You’re telling me to go away, so I will move back a little bit, but I won’t leave you alone with these scary feelings.
-When you’re ready, I’m right here to hug you.
This is hard work for parents, but a great gift to our children. The good news is that once we say yes to children's full range of feelings, they learn to manage them in healthy ways. In fact, you’ll see positive results immediately after every “tantrum” that you meet with love, because your child will feel so much better after emptying that full backpack of feelings. That’s unconditional love in action."
Other reso
urces:
More GOOD NEWS FOR CHILDREN: Although
children are certainly major spreaders of other respiratory viral infections, such as influenza and measles they may not be the spreaders of
SARS‐CoV‐2.