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St. Stephen's in-the-Field Episcopal Church

FRIDAY JOURNAL January 18th, 2019

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Sunday Services: January 20th, Christmas
             
 
                                       
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           10 am   Holy Eucharist          
                        Sunday School 
                        Nursery Care
                        
              PLEASE JOIN US !!

 
 
 
January 27 , 2019


Message From Rev. Karen


 
The bill marking the 3 rd Monday of every January as Martin Luther King, Jr. day was signed by President Ronald Reagan on Nov. 2 nd , 1983. It is the first federal holiday honoring an African American. It took 15 years for the bill to pass and another 17 years to be recognized by all fifty states as a government holiday.  In 1994, MLK, Jr. Day was designated as a national day of service.
In honor of Dr. King, I thought I'd share an excerpt from his famous "I Have a Dream. . ." speech at the "March on Washington"(copyright 1963, Martin Luther King, Jr.)

"I have a dream today. . .I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low. The rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight. And the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.  That is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.
    This will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with new meaning. "My country 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim's pride, from every mountain side, let freedom ring." And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true. . .When we allow freedom to ring - when we let it ring from every city, and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men, and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, "Free at last, Free at last, Great God a-mighty, We are free at last." (Copyright 1963, Martin Luther

It wasn't all that long ago - 1963. African Americans were prevented from exercising their legal right to vote in many states, could not sit down at the same counter as white people, were victims of police brutality, slept in cars when traveling because they couldn't stay at hotels.  

It's good to remember . . .and necessary to continue the work that is not yet finished. This is the work we are called to in the name of Jesus.

Peace
Karen +

Annual Meeting!


Our 2019 Annual Parish Meeting will be held on Sunday,  
January 20th, after the 10:00 service.  In addition to hearing about the 'State of the Parish' from Sr. Warden, Edy Unthank, our Treasurer, Gregg Hall, Dcn. Robin and Rev. Karen, we will be electing three new vestry members.








Vestry meeting update

Your vestry held our monthly meeting on January 10th. We had a
wonderful surprise. Maria joined us to see what the vestry does. It's
no secret. We do the work of running our beloved St. Stephen's. All
are welcome to sit in during the meeting.
The most important item this month is to invite everyone to attend the
Annual meeting after the 10am service. We need a quorum so be sure
and be counted. After coffee and donuts of course.
Want to make a difference? Consider being a vestry member!! Many
hands make for a light load. Please consider sharing your gifts with
everyone.  See you there.

 
Serving on the Vestry

Every year, after finishing a three year term, two or three vestry members rotate off the Vestry. Our Annual Meeting is coming up this month and we will hold elections for the open vestry seats. The Vestry is the board that oversees every aspect of our life as a parish. Being on the Vestry is an opportunity to grow spiritually, participate in the visioning of our church, develop new and strengthen old relationships, and learn more about St. Stephen's.  You might be tapped on the shoulder by a vestry member to see if you're interested in being on the vestry. Before saying no, please consider your gifts and your call. Pray on it! If you're interested and want to know more, see Rev. Karen, Edy Unthank or any of our current vestry members (Janet Thorsrud, Tony Pecora, Rowena Dizon-Burger, Renee Brown, Anthony Francis,or Dottie Chin, Susan Zaballos, Gregg Hall) .
 





 
EPIPHANY STAR WORDS! 
 
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St. Stephen's star word for '19 is . . . TRUTH!
 
This is our word to ponder together - share your experiences with one another. If you didn't get a star word for yourself, you can pick one out this Sunday. I look forward to hearing from you about your word and how it is speaking to you this year!
 





   
 
Rev. Karen's Kudos to:
 
- Deacon Robin for leading the Hearts and Hands planning meeting and all who attended.
 
- Dottie Chin for bringing donuts to coffee hour.

-The Communications Guild - more about that at the Annual Meeting

- Edy Unthank for her 'Warbles from Your Sr. Warden' contributions to our Friday Journal.  

-Dot Remson for serving as our new coordinator for the South Sudanese Youth Opportunity (SSYO) ministry.
 
-Janet, Ann, and Susan for getting fabric for blanket making.

-Maria Eswine for attending the December Vestry meeting. 
   
 


Join us as we paint the world!
 
We will be pushing a paintbrush around on Friday mornings from 10:30  
till around 12 with our fearless leader Dana as we explore our world with a  
different view.  There are very few items needed for this class. You can learn  
what you need to bring by joining us. All are welcome. Come and give it a try.  
No experience needed. We will post some of our paintings in the newsletter as we start our quest to see the world through water....color.    
 
 Some of the class at the first session last Friday. 

 

Santa Maria Urban Ministry
 
Our next trip to Santa Maria Urban Ministries will be   
on Saturday January 19th,    
led by Janet Thorsrud & Ann Little.  
   
Can we count on you to help?
Just three hours: 8:45 to 11:45.
 
 
Please call Janet at (408) 281-0628,
or Ann at (408) 226-9763, if you can help.  
Also, give a call, if you'd like a ride.  
 
Address: 778 Almaden Avenue, San Jose, CA 95110  
 

Volunteering at Village House - Two Perspectives

I'm not sure what I expected when I said I'd go with Dcn. Robin to ECA to help with the Village House Warming Shelter last Sunday - I only knew I'd spend 2 hours with some medically fragile homeless women.  What a pleasant surprise it turned out to be! We arrived and found a room with 5 women, two of them from ECA and three others. There is always one person from the host church to act as leader and answer questions about the facility and make sure supplies are available.  The room was fully supplied.

There was a variety of food and drink, a place to rest, books to read, and supplies to keep the women as busy as they wanted to be. The ladies could come and go as they wished as they went about the business of everyday living. They could make a sandwich if they wanted.  During the week they meet with their dedicated social worker for help and guidance as they go out to look for a job and a place to live. There was a place to rest or sleep if they were feeling ill.

We sat around a round table; two ECA ladies (one was the host lady) one of the homeless ladies, Dcn. Robin and me.  We were surrounded by tables with books, jig-saw puzzles, yarn and knitting needles, and crochet hooks. One lady picked up some red yarn and knitting needles, pulled up a chair beside me and begin working. She was learning to knit! God must have put me there because it was something I could help her with! Dcn. Robin talked to a lady who could not read.  Since she was a grandmother and had been in the USA since she was 8, we were surprised. As we left we began trying to think of ways that reading classes could be added to the program.

I have sometimes wondered how there can be so many people with so many needs in a place where so much help is available.  Were they just lazy, did they like being part of the "problem" instead of being part of the solution? I think I got a small taste of who these people are and they are not who I thought they were.  I thank Dcn. Robin for giving me the gift of a more realistic understanding.
by Frances Steitz
 
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As Frances said, she and I were surprised that someone had been in the USA since she was 8 and was unable to read and write.  What happened in her childhood that stunted her education, that caused her to fall between the cracks? We don't know. However, statistics and studies show that having an education, and more importantly, being "kindergarten ready" upon entering kindergarten, are key components to minimize and eliminate joblessness and homelessness.  Is this a need in St Stephen's neighborhood that we could help with?

And as Frances learned, these women are not homeless due to their own laziness.  Some people want to link homelessness and laziness together, but studies show that laziness is not a (major) cause of homelessness.  Consider if you had little education. You likely will only have minimum wage jobs, living paycheck to paycheck. One "blip" in life can mean you need to choose between paying for the "blip" (like an illness, or a major car repair) vs. a home and food.  There you are, missing rent payments and out on the street. Generally, it's a life "catastrophe" which puts many people on the streets. No one is immune from life's catastrophes.

Village House makes a difference.  One of the volunteers Frances and I met was a Village House client last year.  Now she has a job in the QA dept. testing video games, a job she enjoys. She is also a member of ECA now, and was recently received into the Episcopal Church.  I can see the difference in her countenance from last year - her eyes light up and there is joy in her face.

Village House will be at ECA through February 4.  I encourage all of you to sign up for a 2 hr shift.  This is a great program in which we can be the heart, hands, and feet of Jesus out in our world.  See below to sign up!
by Dcn. Robin

 


Village House Day Center
at the Episcopal Church in Almaden
(ECA) 
Jan 4 thru Feb 6, 2019: Please sign up

It's time to sign up for Village House's January, 2019, day center for medically fragile, homeless women to be held at the Episcopal Church in Almaden (ECA). This is a ministry of presence, which St Stephen's people are so good at! Two hour shifts. Bring a friend!!

Please click on the link below to sign up
 
Then please watch this training video at   
 
 
Revs Karen and Robin will each take a shift and would like someone to go with them.  Robin is going with Francis S. on Sun, Jan 13, from 3:15 to 5:15pm. Karen will go on January 23rd, 9:15 to 11:15am. She welcomes others to join her. 

Thanks so much for being a part of this worthwhile service.
ECA address:   6581 Camden Ave, San Jose, CA 95120.

If you have questions, please contact Leslie from ECA at Lprousseau@aol.com.



Diversity Sensitivity Training
(for all congregation leaders)

The diocese is hosting a Diversity Sensitivity Training event at St. Timothy's in  
Mountain View on Feb 23, from 10:00am to 4:00pm.  This one day training will  
meet the requirements for "anti-racism" training for all lay licenses and for local  
parish leaders (vestry, etc. . .). Pre-registration is required by Feb 15th.  Email  
Joanna Shreve at jrshreve@aol.com
with "Diversity Training" in the subject  
line; include your full name and church affiliation in the email. A $20 donation  
will graciously be received on the day of the event to cover cost of materials and  
lunch.




What's happening at St. Stephen's

This week be sure and look down as some of the history we share with others here at St. Stephen's.  The Calero students help make the brick path really shine. They were on their hands and knees removing the old wax and then adding the fresh coats of wax you see below your feet.  We are so blessed!

Janet Thorsrud



Gift Card Orders
 
We raised $184 for St. Stephen's this month by ordering gift cards.  
The next gift card order will be Sunday, February 3rd.  In time for...  
... See's candy and Valentine's Day!!.  
   
Janet Thorsrud



NEEDING PRAYER SUPPORT?

Prayer is one of those things we often think about, might feel inadequate about, believe in but might be unsure how to proceed.  How we pray is sometimes unique to each of us.  The Church provides help in many ways.  If you find yourself in need, of any kind (emotional, physical, spiritual, guidance, etc) consider how St. Stephen's can support you:

  
*    there is a Biddings book at the back of the sanctuary where you can write in things before the service starts
        
*    there is a prayer chain of committed pray-ers (who maintain confidentiality).  Contact Robin, our Deacon, who will initiate that for you

*    there is prayer at the altar every Sunday, where we all join you in the privacy of your need with the Priest
       
*    there is a kneeling prayer station at the side of the church with candles, prayer book, all available anytime, not just Sundays
 
*    turn to your neighbors and friends in church to share what's on your heart, ask for support in speaking to God about your needs (and tell them the updates next week!)
 
*    tell people about your answers to prayer!  and the miracles you witness, or how prayer changes YOU.
 

 

Hearts & Hands
from Dcn Robin
 
SAVE THE DATE! Our next Hearts & Hands day at St Stephen's!
  • Sunday, March, 24, 2019, Hearts & Hands Sunday (one service).
 
Impressions of a Field Trip
It's been a while since we have been on a field trip.  On February 20th (Wed) we will journey to San Francisco's de Young Museum to see the Monet and Gauguin exhibit and then on to the Legion of Honor to see the Jewels of the Maharajas.  We will have lunch at the de Young and decide to have dinner out or just return back to San Jose as we get closer to the day.
 
Monet, well known for painting water lilies from his garden at

Giverny in France produced more than 50 painting mainly from
1913 through 1926.  These are called his "late years" where you
can see his style change due to failing eye sight.

 
     Gauguin: a spiritual journey.
This exhibition at the Fine Arts Museum displays his paintings,
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wood carvings and ceramics from this self-trained former stock-
broker on his quest to discover his own spirituality and that of
other cultures he encountered.

 
East meets West: Jewels of the Maharajas include      showstoppers such as the 17.21-carat Arcot ll diamond.  This collection has exquisite jewelry and precious objects from the seventeenth century to the present including pieces of historical importance.

For more information check the websites:
+ deyoungmuseum.org
+ legionofhonor.org



Influencer Training - The Power of Influence
 
Have you ever struggled to get others to adopt something new - even when it was good for them? Why are people so resistant to change? How can they be so stubborn?
 
What if you could help anyone change in a way that would improve their lives and yours! Think of all the people whose behavior you wish you could change.. 
  • Your neighbor keeps parking his motor home in front of your house
  • Your team members show up to meetings late
  • Your son has spent the past 2 years since graduating high school in your basement
  • Your sister is not managing her diabetes well and you're worried about her health
Influencer training provides a systematic way to address our influence problems. Using the best of social science, it provides principles and strategies to help you think about your influence challenges.  
 
Influencer Training is fun! It uses a combination of live training, compelling videos, and a written toolkit to aid learners. You will engage in extensive in-class practice, group discussions, and personal planning. 
Would you like to attend this training course? The training lasts two days. It's scheduled for Saturday, March 23 from 9 - 3 and Sunday, March 31 from 12 - 6. The class is limited to the first 20 people to Email or call me. Sign up today!
 
eMail: Hall.christineb@gmail.com
Ph#: 831-236-0008 
Chris Hall
   

Food for thought. . .
 
"I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant."

            - Martin Luther King, Jr., from 1964 Nobel Peace Prize Acceptance Speech
 



Contact information for Rev. Karen:  
 
Personal phone for emergencies or urgent matters: 408-781-1826




Contact information for Deacon Robin:  
 
Email her at Dcn. Robin, deacon@ssitf.org; Phone: 650-450-0656.


 

Editor's Note  
Please send any announcements or articles you want to have included, to: jhnltl50@gmail .com, by Thursday, 10am each week. Thanks, John

St. Stephen's in-the-Field Episcopal Church
7269 Santa Teresa Blvd; San Jose, CA 95139

 

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