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May 4, 2018
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In This Issue
 
Greetings From The Head Of School


I read this short inspirational anecdote from Rabbi Yecheil Spero  that I would like to share with you:

"One time there was a Stoliner chasid who was frustrated because he had tried to go and visit his Rebbe, the Stoliner Rebbe. And every time he went down one road, it was blocked. He had to take all the detours, which was both frustrating and took much time. He shared the frustration with the Rebbe and the Rebbe shared with him a fantastic mashal.

One time, there was a rich man traveling from town to town, taking care of business. He carried his money along with him, but he was very concerned that maybe a thief would see it and steal it. And so he left it in a suitcase covered in straw, hoping that no thief would try and steal it. But there was one thief who was very careful, and followed him. He opened the rich mans suitcase and wasn't fooled by the straw. He took the money out. But in order to make it look like nothing was stolen, he filled the rest of the suitcase with straw and left it where it was. The rich fellow came out of the inn at night. He checked, and was happy to see that the suitcase was still in the carriage. He was happy no one took it. But the next day, when he pulled out the suitcase, he felt it was very light. He didn't have to open it to realize that the money had been stolen. The gold was gone.

The Stoliner told his chasid, there are many times when we are frustrated because we are lugging around heavy suitcases on our journey. We have a lot on our shoulders and a lot to carry around. The journey is frustrating. But we should just know, if the journey is frustrating and upsetting because it's hard, it's because we are carrying around gold. we are carrying around something very valuable with us. But if we discover the journey is light and everything is going smoothly, then we must realize that we are just carrying around straw.

This mashal gives a little bit of encouragement to all of us. Sometimes we feel like we are carrying around too heaven of a burden. But we need to realize that the heavy burdens that  we carry, are burdens of gold because the challenges we face when serving Hashem, are worth gold and more.  



Shabbat Shalom
Dr. Rochelle Brand
Head of School


Calendar News

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Save The Dates:

May7 - 11 - IOWA achievement exams grades 6-10 Times TBA
May 7 - AP Psych
May 9 - AP English
May 11 - AP History
May 13 - Annual Dinner Honoring Mr. and Mrs. Reich, Mrs. Wolf and Avital Mizrachi (Alumna)
May 14 - AP Bio
May 16 - Parent Council Bake Sale and Boutique
May 17Premiere Screening of Names Not Numbers © Holocaust Memorial Documentary produced by the 8th grade.
May 18 - No Sessions - Erev Shavuot
May 21 - No sessions - Shavuot
May 28 - Memorial Day - No Sessions
June 11 - 8th Grade promotional ceremony
June 12 - 12th grade graduation
June 13 - Last Day of School - Noon Dismissal

 
D'var Torah Parashat Emor



According to the opinion that the 24,000 students of Rabbi Akiva who died between Pesach and Shavuos had a brief respite on Lag Baomer, we can appreciate the relevance of a number of Torah thoughts regarding Lag Ba'omer.

The Gemara tells us that the students of Rabbi Akiva died because they didn't show proper respect to one another.

Each week of Sefirah corresponds to a d ifferent Midah (attribute) epitomized by one of the Ushpizin. This week is the Midah of Hod, epitomized by Aharon. The specific Midah for Lag Baomer is 'hod shebi'hod', i.e. completely Aharon's midah. We know that Aharon was the quintessential 'Oheiv Shalom Vi'rodeif Shalom,' the lover and pursuer of peace.

There is a custom to learn and work on one of the 48 ways to acquire Torah each day of Sefirah, and on the last day to review and incorporate all of them. The thirty-third kinyan-acquisition is Ahavas Habriyos-loving people. Additionally, the thirty-third travel spot of Klal Yisroel in the Midbar was Hor Hahor, the place where Aharon was buried!

So perhaps the reason that none of the Talmidim died on Lag Baomer was because they were able to overcome their issue of not showing proper respect to each other by tapping into the midah of the day; the midah of loving and respecting people and pursuing peace like Aharon!

This week's Parsha discusses the Halachos of the Kohanim. On the one hand, the Kohanim are all descendants of Aharon, the Ohev Shalom and Rodeif Shalom; yet simultaneously, the Kohanim [and all the Bnei Levi] are the ones who killed the sinners of the Golden Calf.

Is that a contradiction? Absolutely not. When it comes to wicked sinners and heretics, we have no tolerance and acceptance. However, when it comes to our fellow Jews who try to follow Hashem's will, we must learn to appreciate each other for each person's contributions to Klal Yisroel.

We are twelve Shvatim with twelve different personalities and approaches to Yiddishkeit. Each Shevet walked through the Yam Suf on its own path, but the water was transparent! The lesson is clear: we have different paths and approaches, but we must be able to 'see' and respect each other.




 
Brunch And Learn With Our Principal
Mrs. Tobi Wolf

Parshat Emor presents all the Jewish holidays, and, within that context, it introduces the mitzvah of the Omer.  וַֽהֲבֵאתֶ֥ם אֶת־עֹ֛מֶר רֵאשִׁ֥ית קְצִֽירְכֶ֖ם אֶל־הַכֹּהֵֽן (ויקרא: כג: י - And you will bring an omer, the beginning of your reaping, to the Cohen. The Rambam, explains that this mitzvah is a הלכה למשה מסיני.  It was communicated to Moshe orally and its details were not written in the תורה שבכתב.

On the day before the festival of Pesach, the agents of the court would go out [to the field] and tie [the barley] into bundles while it was still attached to the ground so that it would be easy to reap. [On the evening after Pesach,] all [of the inhabitants] of all the neighboring villages would gather so that it would be reaped with much flourish. They would have three men reap three se'ah of barley in three baskets with three sickles.When it became dark, the reapers would ask those standing [in attendance]: " Has the sun set ?" They would answer: " Yes ." " Has the sun set? " They would answer: " Yes ." " Has the sun set ?" They would answer: " Yes ." " Is this a sickle ?" They would answer: " Yes ." "Is this a sickle ?" They would answer: " Yes ." " Is this a sickle ?" They would answer: " Yes ." " Is this a basket ?" They would answer: " Yes ." " Is this a basket ?" They would answer: " Yes ." " Is this a basket ?" They would answer: " Yes ." If it was the Sabbath, they would ask: " Is it the Sabbath ?" They would answer: " Yes .""I s it the Sabbath ?" They would answer: " Yes ." " Is it the Sabbath ?" They would answer: " Yes. "  Afterwards, they would ask: " Should I reap ?" They would answer: " Yes ."" Should I reap ?" They would answer: " Yes ." Should I reap ?" They would answer: " Yes ."
                                                                             (משנה תורה להרמבם: הלכות תמידים ומוספים: פרק ז: יא)

What was the reason for all this "pomp and circumstance"?  The Torah states that the mitzvah of the Omer takes place , מִמָּֽחֳרַת֙ הַשַּׁבָּת , the day after the rest day. The Oral Law teaches us that מִמָּֽחֳרַת֙ הַשַּׁבָּת refers to the day after the first day of Pesach, when there is the normal yom tov prohibition against work.  

But there was a prominent sect of people who rejected the Oral Law and interpreted every mitzvah in the Torah literally.  They maintained that the mitzvah of the Omer takes place on the first "Sunday" after the onset of Pesach. Once the Omer was presented to the Cohen and he waved it over sacrifices in the Mikdash, the nation was permitted to eat the "new" wheat, what we know as "חדש"; so the date was critical.  Additionally, since the mitzvah of counting the 49 days of the Omer begins on that day, these people would celebrate Shavuot, the 50th day on a different calendar day. To combat this, and to show that the entire philosophy of rejecting the Oral Law was flawed, the Rabbis mandated this very public demonstration. The Rabbis considered this to be so critical, that, if the 16th of Nissan fell on a Shabbat, they mandated that the obligation to go out and cut the barley superseded the prohibitions of Shabbat. The true מִמָּֽחֳרַת֙ הַשַּׁבָּת had to be championed at all costs.

This is significant because we recognize Sefirat Haomer as the mitzvah that bridges the "journey" from the philosophical ideas of leaving Egypt on Pesach to the acceptance of the Torah on Sinai. Unlike the holidays of Succot and Pesach, the date of Shavuot is not mentioned explicitly in the text.  זמן מתן תורתנו is a celebration of the acceptance of both the Written and Oral Torah.  Without the Oral Law, we would not even know the true date of Chag HaShavuot.



 
College Guidance
From The Desk Of Noa Bejar

We were thrilled to host an Admissions Representative from Yeshiva University on Monday. She spoke to our students about the wonderful opportunities at Stern College for Women, from academics to internships, campus life, clubs, and advising. Our students asked fantastic questions about YU, professional opportunities and life on campus. We look forward to hosting her again in the fall!



 
Names Not Numbers
On May 17th, the eighth grade students will be presenting an original documentary film based on their interviews with four survivors.  The students, under the coordination of Rabbi Berkson, worked throughout the year on creating a filmed memorial to the victims and heroes of the Holocaust.  The community is invited to the showing which will take place in our MPR at 7:30 PM.  



 
Rabbi Mashiach Kelaty addresses the students

Last Friday on the 12th of Iyar, our students were inspired by the words of Rabbi Kelaty. Rabbi Mashiach Kelaty was born and raised in London, England. He attended the Kollel Boston and Ohr Somayach in Israel, where he attained his semicha in 2002. Rabbi Kelaty is a very well known inspirational speaker with myriad lectures on Torah Anytime. He spoke to the girls about sefirat ha'omer and showing kavod for each other. Rabbi Kelaty spoke about the talmidim of Rabbi Akiva and gave a number of reasons why 24,000 unfortunately perished. How could it be that such exemplary scholars died? Ask your daughters to find out why the plague stopped on the  ל"ב, the thirty second day of the omer.


 
Junior Achievement Business Workshop


This week, the high school participated in a financial workshop presented by JABiztown. Thank you JABiztown for spending the morning with us! Learning about managing our finances was so insightful and helpful.

 
Better Together Program
Mrs. Bodkins Mrs. Sprung



 




This past week, the Sha'arei Bina girls and the Better Together Program held the Gala End of the Year party. The residents, the students, and the school administrators delivered speeches. Gifts were given to the residents, a video was shown, and lunch was served. It was a bittersweet event, knowing that it was the last event of a two-year program. Each speech had a common denominator. Each speaker expressed their gratitude towards the Better Together Program, the school, and the Torah Outreach Program for facilitating these beautiful bi-monthly programs. The bonds that developed over the past two years between the students and the residents  are heartwarming. Mrs.Sprung mentioned that when it comes to true friendship, there are no age gaps. This was truly seen at this last program! The residents of the Peninsula assisted living facility and the Torah Outreach Program would like to thank the Better Together Program and Sha'arei Bina Torah Academy For Girls, for their friendship!

 
Lag Ba'omer






Lag Ba'Omer is famous for traveling to Meron to visit the Kever of Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai. It is also famous for BBQ's! This year, our girls enjoyed a super BBQ for Lag B'omer. We would like to thank our special Z TEAM - Zalmy Cohen and Shalom Zeines for grilling the delicious hot dogs and hamburgers. It was so nice to hear music playing throughout the school building once again and to end off our wonderful lunch, we had an awesome dance party.


Focus On The Classrooms



7th grade Chumash
Mrs. Sprung

The 7th graders made a siyum on Prakim כה/כד. The girls were fascinated by Bilaam and his insistence on defying the wishes of HaShem. They learned with the passion and delved into many interesting mefarshim and truly mastered the the knowledge in this Parsha.  Onward to continued learning!!!!



STEM FAIR:
Mrs. Englard











Congratulations to our courageous 9th grade students for beautifully representing our school with their innovative projects at the 2018 Young Engineers Conference sponsored by the Center for Initiatives in Jewish Education. Each group conceived, designed, built, coded, tested, and debugged their projects, and then assembled creative boards to describe their processes. Projects included a device to de-fog mirrors, a sensor-driven water detector that sends a message when a desired water level is reached, a fingerprint recognition system to open a bag and prevent theft of personal information or materials, and wearable tech in the form of pajamas with an LED display to prevent falls in the dark. Congratulations to Chana J., Shira S., and Batsheva L. for their award from the judges. We are proud of all our students who spent the year learning science, math, and engineering principles and then applying them with perseverance and resilience in creating new products.



Bravery or Perfection?
Mrs. Englard

In 2016, Reshma Saujani, founder of the organization Girls Who Code, presented a compelling TED talk in which she offered evidence of how we raise our girls to be perfect while raising our boys to be brave. Girls are taught to avoid risk and failure, to smile pretty, to play it safe and get all As, while boys are taught to play rough, swing high, climb to the top of the monkey bars, and jump off. Boys are habituated to take risks and are continually rewarded for it. As a result, as psychologist Carol Dweck found when offering difficult material to bright 5th grade students, girls gave up quickly while boys found the challenge energizing and were more likely to redouble their efforts. This was true despite the fact that the girls outperformed the boys in all subjects, including math and science.

Saujani describes how instructors in Girls Who Code classes immediately see girls' fear of not getting it right. Girls will spend time writing code, not get it exactly right, and then delete it, preferring to show nothing at all rather then imperfect progress. She argues that by encouraging girls to be overly cautious and to take less risks, our economy is losing out on all the innovation and all the problems women could solve if they were socialized to be brave instead of socialized to be perfect. "When we teach our girls to be brave and they have a supportive network cheering them on", says Saujani,  "they will build incredible things...and a better world for themselves and for us all."

Shaarei Bina is home to girls with enormous potential to innovate and play their part in making a better world. As parents and educators, we need to catch ourselves when we encourage our girls to be perfect, to stick with what is easy, rather than to be brave, to challenge themselves, to struggle with difficult material and situations and to persevere. We need to help our girls and young women shift from "tell me what I have to do" to creating, designing, investigating, critiquing, reasoning, becoming comfortable with not-knowing, exploring, testing ideas, showing resilience in the face of setbacks, and learning from mistakes. We need to resist the urge to be too helpful, allow them to solve problems on their own and offer questions and discussions instead of ready answers. We need to help them see that they are capable, that their ideas have merit, that their thinking has value.

As we support our girls in climbing to the top of the monkey bars, may our reward be courageous young women with the confidence and skills to create a better world for us all.




   
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