ISSUE 31                                                                                                                                                                              JANUARY 2019
Firefighting as Spiritual Practice

I do not meditate. (Yet.) I zone out on my phone too often. I love attending church on Sunday, but need a way to weave religion and spirituality into my day-to-day. I need a spiritual practice. So I welcome JUC's focus on identifying and cultivating spiritual practices this church year.  

Happily, I found a spiritual practice. And it did not even require changing my schedule, just changing my perspective.  

I have been a firefighter with Golden since 2009. I run night shifts almost every week, and I am often awakened in the night to run calls. It is tough to hear that alarm go off, after just an hour or two of sleep, knowing that you might be gone for hours.  And that when you do return, your adrenaline-injected or anxious mind may not allow you to go back to sleep. It is especially hard to wake up, run to the truck, drive towards the scene, then be cancelled before even arriving.   

But over the last few years, something clicked for me. One of my favorite writers, Kurt Vonnegut, spent time as a volunteer with the Alplaus, NY fire department in the 1950's and peppered his writing with his thoughts on the profession. "[W]hen the alarm goes off," Vonnegut writes in his 1965 novel God Bless You, Mr. Rosewater , firefighters are "almost the only examples of enthusiastic unselfishness to be seen in this land. They rush to the rescue of any human being, and count not the cost. The most contemptible man in town, should his contemptible house catch fire, will see his enemies put the fire out. There we have people treasuring people as people."  

It took me years to begin internalizing this lesson. Years of waking up in the night, and - instead of thinking about myself - picturing the people whose night had unfolded in a way that they felt they had to dial 911 and call for help. I am now thankful for an opportunity to help people without questions or judgment. Helping them, however I can, just because they asked. Being able to practice that is a gift. The mornings after those sleepless nights are tough, trying to get the kids ready for school and myself ready for work. I've determined that hot coffee and a hotter shower are the best remedy. But my perspective shift has breathed new meaning into my volunteer work.

May you find a spiritual practice that nourishes your soul, even if it only requires changing your perspective.  
Welcome Our New Members
Jim and Carol Reed are long time UUs who enjoy reading, walking, and hiking. 

Amy Stasch works for the National Park Service, and she enjoys hiking, camping, and reading. 

Carmen Stagg works at Regis University, and her hobbies include hiking, reading, and nature.

Justin Blumenthal is a life-long UU whose interests include organic agriculture and outdoor recreation. 

Deb Kirk works as a school nurse, and she has a variety of hobbies that include hiking and rock climbing. 

Roz Farnam is retired and dabbles in gardening and watercolor painting.

Jon and Debra Kitner are long time UUs who enjoy arts and outdoor recreation.

Jenna Bannon grew up UU and enjoys travel, cooking, and politics.

Krista Day-Gloe is a clinical social worker who loves the outdoors.

Cathie Harris works from home, and her hobbies include reading, writing, and cross stitch.

Lauralee Arnold is a literacy paraprofessional who enjoys science.

Paul and Susan Walker are both retired, and they love DIY projects, cooking and exercise.

Cheryl Ierna and Michael Kelley are interested in health care reform, sports, and music.

Roger Hill likes meditation, literature, music and hiking.
Auction Fans - 
SAVE THE DATE!
Did the pop-up sale whet your appetite for bidding? Did it give you ideas for unique auction items like yummy treats? Wacky events to expand our connections? Baskets of related goods?  Start those creative engines to come up with some awesome sale items for the JUC Auction on Saturday, March 9, 2019

Keep an eye out for the big theme announcement and kickoff mid-January. 

Hint: expect to have groovy costume opportunities...
We Are Family
1st Wednesdays & 
3rd Fridays
5:30 p.m. Dinner
6:30 p.m. Worship

Join us twice per month for a fellowship dinner ($5 per person) followed by a lively and brief family-centered worship. We use ritual, song and story for a multi-age worship that fills the heart and grows the spirit. All ages are encouraged to attend. 

January Menu:
Wednesday, January 2:
Tamales
Friday, January 25 (NOTE DATE CHANGE):
Chicken Stroganoff
Mystery and Planned Giving
Mystery actually permeates our lives. To an infant everything is a puzzle. Maturation brings bits of knowing that lead to advancing degrees of understanding, wonder and hope that open to only more mystery. We grow in a cycle of lightness and darkness that yields gratitude. Still mystery of the unknown persists. Finally, calling to us is the mystery of death.

JUC and our UU faith have been there for us in this mysterious journey. By including this living institution in our estate plans, we can assure that it will be here to serve others in their times of need.

Contact JUC's planned giving coordinators: Bud Meadows , Mike Kramer or Carol Wilsey .
23rd Annual Craft Faire
Thank you to all who helped make the 23rd annual craft faire a big success. Thanks to craftspeople who shared their creativity, to the volunteers who helped set up, take down, take money, pack items, greet guests, help children, prepare and serve food, and baked goodies. And thank you to JUC members who shopped and enjoyed our December event.   Shoppers bought over $29,000 worth of goods and food and the Faire is able to donate over $6,000 to the JUC general fund. 

Be sure and set aside December 6 and 7, 2019 for next year's 24th Annual Faire!
Sabbatical, Possibility, and Spiritual Practice
In the Ignite articles that I have been writing since my return from being away last February through July, I have been sharing stories from Sabbatical. Many of the reflections have revolved around my time in India and Nepal, but this one surrounds promoting the practice of Evensong across Unitarian Universalism, in conferences and in congregations.

Evensong services at JUC are hour-long services of music, chanting, silence, and readings. The music is drawn from UU sources and others, with songs like "Return again," "Meditation on Breathing," and "Ubi caritas" We even sing phrases from longer songs in order to sink in more deeply, such as in the hymn "Wake, now, my senses" repeating the phrase "giving, receiving, as love shows us how," to enter into the reciprocal flow that is connected to love. As a spiritual practice, meditative chanting is practiced in cultures around the world as mantras, songs, and kirtan. The impact of the practice is a quieting and energizing of the mind, an increase in feeling of well-being, and a sense of greater connection to others.

With all of this in mind, my partner David Burrows and I gave workshop presentations on Evensong at the UUA's Annual Denominational Convention called General Assembly (Kansas City) and at the Unitarian Universalist Musicians Network Annual Conference (Portland, OR) in which we led participants in the practice of Evensong, focusing on chants and songs that arise from UU traditions. In both of the cases, the Evensong sessions happened to be scheduled on the second to last day of the conference, when attendees were worn down and on information overload. Since the people who attended the workshops had been engaged mentally and intellectually for days, many were in sore need of a non-verbal based experience that only asked for them to be. What people told us after each session is how much they needed this atmosphere, how tired they had been from the grueling convention schedule and the heady and sometimes contentious debates in the larger Assembly and Conference. It was good to come into a place and simply fill up their cup, they said.

David and I also made congregational visits at the end of July, in our first ever "Evensong Tour." We traveled to Southern California and led Evensong services at UU churches in Studio City, Costa Mesa, Pasadena, and Santa Barbara, then to Grass Valley north of Sacramento, and finally to Astoria, OR where former JUC member Kit Ketcham is a UU minister. In some of these congregations, there had not been a regular singing practice, and a couple had dabbled every once in awhile with a "Singing Meditation" event. In each service, when introducing what the hour would be about and how folks could participate, I shared: "You are welcome to sing or to listen, to move your body or stay still, to leave and to come back as you need." And so with each new group we practiced the art and experience of singing, of silence, of listening, and of adding our voice to the common song.

In one California congregation, after the Evensong service when people were visiting with one another, a woman approached me to tell how much she enjoyed the service. She was maybe in her 60s, and had come to Unitarian Universalism from the Methodist church 20 years ago. She shared a bit regretfully that although she fully entered the singing, her body actually wanted to kneel while she was singing, but she hesitated because she didn't know if it would be accepted by her congregational friends nearby. This story made me consider what spoken or unspoken limits are shared in UU community, and I began sharing this story at the beginning of Evensong services in order to explicitly give permission to follow the inclination of body movement during meditative singing. I was delighted a couple of days later, when during an Evensong service a person arose and began walking slowly about the room while singing - their movement reminded me of walking of a labyrinth, another spiritual practice. 

Back at JUC, I have been receiving messages that as a result both of the Evensong workshop at General Assembly and the Southern California tour, two congregations have begun holding Evensong services on their own. We practice Evensong at JUC on third Tuesdays, from 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. in the Willis Chapel. It is ok to listen, to sing, to move, to be. Come to be restored, to be lifted up, and to feel more connected.
 
The Action Center: Invaluable to Jefferson County

Last Month, JUC Community Action Network (CAN) sponsored a forum to address concerns about financial difficulties experienced this year by the Action Center. Why did we care so much? Judy Miller started the forum with a history of JUC's connection to the formation of the Jeffco Action Center beginning with the direct involvement of our first minister, Rev. Leon Hopper, the establishment of the first Action Center office in donated JUC space (now the RE wing), and first volunteer program director, JUC member, Carol Drew.

JUC member Elizabeth Collard is a member of the Action Center Board and explained that their family's involvement was an answer to her children's questions about "what are we doing to help the homeless?" Their family looked at the Action Center mission and wanted to be a part of it. They began with a sustaining, monthly donation.

Our main speaker, Pam Brier, is the newly appointed director of the Action Center. She reviewed what led to the hard decisions when finance became a core issue just as she was taking over leadership: there were three major vacant staff openings, funding delays from Jefferson County Government, and expected grants that didn't materialize. Closing the Homeless Shelter was the hardest of their many tough decisions as it was the only year-round shelter in Jefferson County. But weighing assisting 150 annual clients of the shelter versus helping about 25,000 other clients with in other programs, they decided it was the pragmatic thing to do.

 


Pam made it very clear that she and the board are committed to reopening the shelter in 2020 and will partner with another non-profit to run the shelter in the near future.

 


Since this time, they have raised $1 million to cover the shortfall and they are focusing on going forward with programs that emphasize self-sufficiency and are more impactful. More than half of the Action Center budget comes from individuals like the Collard family. Because of grass-roots support, the budget is more sustainable than one dependent totally on government funding.

The Action Center facts are pretty impressive:
  • 25,000 clients annually
  • 5628 volunteers and 30 staff members.
  • Food bank and clothing bank.
  • School supply drives, food drives, and holiday drives and backpack programs.
  • The Self-Sufficiency Pathways Program: a continuum of wrap-around and case management services for those who are committed to building stability. Through Pathways, case managers assist participants in reaching across a continuum of services and resources, and setting and working towards goals that move them towards self-sufficiency.
Pam made it clear the challenges are ongoing, especially with the growing number of people homeless, at risk of being homeless, or in severe poverty. She is committed to growing partnership with faith groups like JUC and expressed genuine appreciation for JUC's support through the past 50 years. They continue to work with City Governments for support and funding, Jefferson County Schools and other non-profits.

Want to get involved? JUC member, Jim Miller, has been an Action Center volunteer for several years and is often at the door handing out welcoming hugs. There are many ways to volunteer and to give. A good first step is to take a tour of the center.

Where Action Matters Tours
One hour tours are held on the first Monday of each month at noon and the second and fourth Thursdays at 4:30 p.m. (subject to holiday changes). They ask that RSVPs be made to Janay Wright at 303-237-7704 Ext. 203. The noon tour includes a light lunch. Janay sends out instructions for parking and tour start when she receives the RSVP. 

Elizabeth Collard, JUC Member and Action Center Board Member, is happy to facilitate a tour and attend with you. 
 
Keeping the Promise

JUC uses a year round pledge system in which each household is asked annually during their pledging month to consider their pledge for the following twelve months.

I could tell you that the Saffer family pledges generously because we believe in the mission of the church, and we want it to continue to exist to do its good works in the world, and that would be true. But, the real reason is much more personal. About six or seven years ago, Sue Parilla called me and asked me if I'd like to be a Coming of Age mentor. Since I had previously worked as a middle school English teacher, I thought this would be a good role for me in the church, but for reasons I won't go into, it was failure for me. Still, I was honored that Sue had even thought of me in this capacity. I feel like I'm the sort of person who, for whatever reason, just doesn't get recognized much. I'm the type of person who can hang out in the commons without a single person coming over to talk to me. But Sue saw me and was actively trying to find a spot for me in the church-something rare in my life.

After the COA failure, I assumed that I had disappointed Sue and that she would give up on me. To my surprise, she called me, just as my son was entering kindergarten, to see if I wanted to be a volunteer office assistant two mornings a week. She was still working to give me a real role in the church. And this time it turned out NOT to be failure. Five years later, I'm still working in the church office. And even though it's a volunteer position, I call it "going to work," and it's given me meaning and purpose in my life.

Working at the front desk, I often get calls from people who've lost a loved one, and they don't have a church home in which to have a memorial service. They didn't realize how much they needed a church until they did. And that's made me realize that I don't keep pledging because of what the church does for me now. I keep pledging for what I hope it will provide me in the future when I experience the inevitable losses life offers. My church membership gives me the hope that I won't have to go though the losses on my own - that I'll have people I consider friends to help me though it. Moreover, I keep supporting the church for what it will offer people I haven't met yet. Through my pledge, I'm supporting an institution that will be there for others in the future when they need it. It's awe-inspiring that I'm helping people I don't even know find the hope they need to navigate this uncertain life.

I hope that when it is your turn to pledge that you will think about what JUC means in your life  and consider making an increase.