Children start building relationships while they are still infants. A strong and positive relationship between a child, their parents and others they spend time with is a critical component to a child's social and emotional growth. Positive relationships help children feel secure, which in turn enhances their  ability to explore their environment and make new discoveries.

These five tips will help you build and strengthen those positive relationships .

Foster Supportive Relationships. The most important attachment for a child is a trusting relationship with their parent. Children who feel safe and supported at any age develop a positive self-esteem and have an easier time dealing with life situations, such as interacting with peers in the classroom when they start school .

Understand Challenging Behaviors. Children of every age react to their environment. If you see changes in behavior, ask yourself:  Has there been a major change in my child's life that may be making them upset? Are they bored or overstimulated? Taking a look at their environment and making appropriate changes may help reduce inappropriate behaviors .

Share Warmth and Love. Some children respond to a hug while others want to be alone. Keep in mind that the ways children receive and show warmth may change. An infant may want to be picked and cuddled when they cry where as a toddler may be soothed by a calm, pleasant voice or warm touch.
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Build Bonds Outside the Immediate Family. Building trusting relationships with care providers and others outside the immediate family circle is important for a child. You, as a parent, can have conversations with these other adults to discuss the important role they play in your child's life and share information about things that work and don't work for your child. 

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