Pastor Kevin's Letter

Change is hard. I think that this is a sentence that most of us can agree upon. Even for those who thrive in changing environments change can be hard. And yet the reality that doesn't change in an ever-changing world is change itself.
 
For the last few months, we have been faced with life in an ever-changing world. Everything seems to be changing. The way we do church has changed.  The way we see doctors has changed. The way we walk into a store has changed.  (Just imagine if we were to walk into a store with half of our face covered with a mask in February.) Sports have changed. The rhythms of our lives have been interrupted and changed. The world around us has changed.
 
Truth be told, each of us have probably changed as well. Some people have changed more than others. Some of the change has been for the good, maybe new habits or less craziness. Some the change may be for the bad as we are feeling the disconnect from other people or the loss of good habits, or a job.
 
The reality is we live in an every-changing world that is changing at a rate faster than any other time in history. The question is: how will we react to change?
 
This last week, I read an article by a blogger by the name of Tony Morgan who was talking about change within churches. Here is a snippet of what he wrote.
 
"It might be good to keep in mind that whether the change is big or small, people (that includes you and me) will go through a common cycle of emotions and behaviors. We should expect it, rather than be surprised by it, when people react as they do when change happens.
 
One good tool to use to help identify where people are in the change process is "The Change Cycle" developed by Ann Salerno and Lillie Brock. Their model acknowledges these six stages that are a part of change:
  • Stage 1: We experience loss. We have feelings of fear and can be initially paralyzed by the change.
  • Stage 2: We experience doubt. We have feelings of resentment and we try to resist the change. (That's where the Snapchat crowd is today.)
  • Stage 3: We experience discomfort. We have feelings of anxiety and we become unproductive because we're overwhelmed by the change.
  • Stage 4: We experience discovery. We have feelings of anticipation and we are energized because our perceptions of the change have shifted.
  • Stage 5: We experience understanding. We have feelings of confidence because our productivity increases as we implement what we've learned from the change.
  • Stage 6: We experience integration. We have feelings of satisfaction and become more generous in our behaviors because the change no longer seems new or different."
 
I think Tony Morgan's insights are spot on. We all experience this common cycle or emotions and walk through the six stages of change. My question for you is: where are you at in the six stages? Are you stuck in the loss of what was and may never return again? Are you trying to resist change as much as possible thinking that with enough will power you can hold off change? Are you in that place where nothing quite feels comfortable because there is enough different in your life? Are you in that exciting period of new discovery as you are leaning into the new in your life and trying to navigate new opportunities? Do you feel like you finally have solid ground beneath your feet again? Do you feel like you are in the midst of a new normal now?  Maybe you vacillate between these stages by the day or by the hour. I share this because every single one of us is walking through this right now. The feelings that we are all feeling are not new or out of the ordinary.
 
But I'm also reminded that in the midst of all of this change there is one constant: our God. I'm reminded of the words of Hebrews 13:8, "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever." Even though everything around us may change, our God remains the same. God's love for you remains the same. God's grace lavished on you daily remains the same. God's presence with you will never leave you. The way we do church may change (as it has had to over the last 3 months) but the God who meets us there in worship remains the same. The message of the Gospel remains the same. The hope that we have in the cross and empty tomb of Jesus remains the same. No matter where you are with the changes going on all around you, remember that even in a world where change seems to be the only constant, we have an unchanging God.