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Jewish Quote of the Week



“The optimist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds. The pessimist fears it is true. ”

― J. Robert Oppenheimer

Light a Yellow Candle on Tisha B'Av Wednesday, July 26, 2023


“Everyone around the world

who has a Yellow Candle at home

should light it.”

FJMC and ADL participate in the

60th Anniversary of the March on Washington Saturday, August 26, 2023

וְיִגַּ֥ל כַּמַּ֖יִם מִשְׁפָּ֑ט וּצְדָקָ֖ה כְּנַ֥חַל אֵיתָֽן


Let justice well up like water,

Righteousness like an unfailing stream.

(Amos 5:24)

Shalom Haverim (Brothers),


We are informing you of the Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs (FJMC) participation in a momentous occasion. FJMC has accepted the Anti-Defamation League's (ADL) invitation to participate in the 60th Anniversary of Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s March on Washington on Saturday, August 26, 2023. You can find information and registration details by clicking here.


The FJMC has a strong and friendly connection with the ADL, and we stand firm in taking action based on our shared Jewish values. Our Inclusion Initiative is how we honor God's creation and command. Walking in this commemorative march is one way to demonstrate those values, practice anti-racism, and stand up to antisemitism. 


A close study of Jewish-American history would remind us of our people's extensive relationship with Dr. King and the civil rights movement. Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, a Theologian, and Professor at the Jewish Theological Seminary, was another friend of Dr. King. Heschel joined King in numerous speeches and protests. At one point, he called King "the voice of God in our time." After walking with King and other religious leaders in the 1965 Selma to Montgomery March for voting rights, Heschel described the trek as spiritually moving, like he was "praying with his legs."


Our history as people who were freed from slavery in Egypt obligates us to stand with those who still find themselves oppressed by racism and bigotry. When God created humanity, we were made as everyone's neighbor with a collective responsibility to preserve each person's dignity and integrity. 


What you can do:

We ask you to consider attending because, as Jews, we believe everyone is entitled to respect and dignity. We realize the event is on Shabbat and do not suggest anyone violate their usual ritual practices. However, If you can attend, please inform your Club President, who should notify your Regional President. If there is enough participation, the club or region might be able to arrange a bus or otherwise organize the participants. FJMC can assist with this.


While attending, please wear an FJMC shirt. If you don't have one, please ask your Club President to contact your Regional President, who will see that you get one. Since this will be such a large gathering, we know it will be impossible to have a central meeting point, but if you see other FJMC brethren, please march with them. The sight of many FJMC members together will be a strong statement of our values and commitment to protecting the rights of everyone.


Whether or not you can attend, please ask your congregation to commemorate this historical event with a Shabbat service and prayers. A Hearing Men’s Voices/Inclusion program with speakers from traditionally marginalized groups can also be a way to continue the work of the March on Washington. Men's Clubs can help to coordinate these events in their synagogues.


In his "I Have a Dream Speech," Dr. King preached that one of the main goals of his movement was to "transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood." I look forward to standing with you as individuals, clubs, and a community in this sacred endeavor. 


In Brotherhood

Alan Budman

FJMC International President, 2023 - 2025

ADL New York/New Jersey Walk Against Hate Sunday, August 20, 2023

TAKE A STEP FOR GOOD


This August, we're on the move to fight hate in our community!


Join us back at the Parade Ground in Van Cortlandt Park to move as a community toward a future without antisemitism, racism and hate.  


Let's get moving, New York/New Jersey! 


Rain or shine, we will come together at

the Parade Ground in Van Cortlandt Park

5770 Broadway, Bronx, New York


Click here to register! There is no fee to register!

 

9am registration and check-in options

9:00 AM - 1:00 PM: Enjoy Community Expo

10:00 AM: Opening Remarks & Kickoff 

10:30 AM: Walk Against Hate 

1:00 PM: Event Concludes

NY Metro Leadership

Meets the New Rabbi at Forest Hills JC

Rabbi Daniel Graber is an enthusiastic educator, learner, and community builder with a passion for making Jewish tradition and texts accessible and meaningful to modern readers. He completed his rabbinical studies at the Jewish Theological Seminary (‘19), having previously completed a Masters in Jewish Education at JTS’s William Davidson School (‘14). He is a native New Yorker, growing up in Queens, and holds a BA in political science from Stony Brook University, as well as a minor in theatre.


Click here to read Rabbi Graber's full bio!

Forest Hills Jewish Center, New York -

NY Metro Region Leadership and Forest Hills JC Rabbi Graber gathered together for a barbecue, scotch, friendship and camaraderie!


Visit the FHJC website to learn more about this wonderful synagogue community located in a pleasant niche just off Queens Boulevard! Chazak, Chazak, V'nitchazek! From Strength to Strength May We Be Strengthened!

Tallit Presentation of Newly Installed

NY Metro Region President, Shea Lerner

Newly installed New York Metro Region President Shea Lerner (Plainview Jewish Center), flanked by Past Regional Presidents, Shelly Handel, Glenn Pollack, Michael Harrison, Robert Cohen, Jay Steinmetz and Aaron Altman.

New York Metro Region Past President Shelly Handel presents incoming President Shea Lerner with his tallit.

Mazal Tov, Shea Lerner!

Incoming NY Metro Region President 2023-2025

 

Chazak, Chazak, V'nitchazek! From Strength to Strength May We Be Strengthened!

Men's Health & Sports

Paternal postpartum depression isn't a joke. It's an epidemic.

The Unrelenting Agony of Being a Depressed New Dad


(Men's Health) — Shortly before his daughter was born last year, Mo Greene, 35, then working in apparel sales, asked his boss if he could take paternity leave. The boss told him that if he did, he’d be fired. Then Greene’s daughter Aurora was born in July, and they fired him anyway, while restructuring the company. His wife had a complicated delivery, so Greene suddenly found himself having to support her and the baby while also trying to find a new job. “It really messed up my head a lot,” he says. A month in, he started having problems. He began drinking more at home. He and his wife started arguing more frequently, and he became so lonely that he’d look for excuses to go to the corner store just to talk to someone. “It was like I was like a completely different person,” he says...


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

At just 20, Jewish player Daniel Edelman is a rising star for the New York Red Bulls. (Courtesy New York Red Bulls)

Jewish Red Bulls star Daniel Edelman could be the next face of US men’s soccer


(New York Jewish Week) New York Red Bulls midfielder Daniel Edelman is something of a hero to American soccer fans — and Jewish soccer fans, in particular. The 20-year-old rising star, who is Jewish, won his Major League Soccer team’s Newcomer of the Year award last year, and, as captain of the under-20 U.S. Men’s National Team, he helped lead the team to the quarterfinals at the U-20 World Cup in Argentina in May.


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Around the Jewish World

The first flock of day-old chicks settles into the brooder’s room.

How to hatch a Jewish chicken farm in Uganda


(Jewish Journal) — For over 100 years, the Abayudaya (“People of Judah”) community has been devoutly practicing Judaism in their villages near the city of Mbale, in eastern Uganda. Their five synagogues cooperatively share an organization called the Abayudaya Men’s Club...


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Left to right: Yehor, Artem and Olena are all Ukrainian refugees aided by the Jewish Community House of Bensonhurst. (Julia Gergely/Design by Mollie Suss)

A Jewish social service agency helped resettle young Ukrainians. Now the beneficiaries are giving back


(New York Jewish Week) — On a sweltering July afternoon, 15 Ukrainian young adults gathered in a meeting room at the Jewish Community House in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn. They toss a small ball to each other as an ice breaker — a way to indicate who should introduce themselves next...

 

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A view of Rabat, Morocco's capital city. (Getty Images)

In a first, Israel’s prime minister will visit Morocco


(JTA) — Moroccan King Mohammed VI invited Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu to visit Morocco days after Israel recognized the country’s claim to the disputed Western Sahara. “The invitation was sent in a warm, personal letter in which His Majesty thanked the State of Israel for its recognition of Moroccan sovereignty over the Western Sahara,” Netanyahu’s office said in a statement it released Wednesday. “King Mohammed VI wrote Prime Minister Netanyahu that the visit would open up new possibilities for strengthening relations between their two countries.”


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Ask The Rabbis

Different commentary and perspective from the Rabbis: Independent, Humanist, Renewal, Reconstructionist, Reform, Conservative and Modern Orthodox.

Ask the Rabbis | What Does Israel Reaching 75 Mean in the Context of 3,000 Years of Jewish History?


(moment) For one thing, 75 years is how old our ancestor Abraham was when God called him to journey to the land that would one day be called Israel (Genesis 12:4). Thus began not our 3,000- but our 4,000-year history. In that context, 75 years demonstrates beyond question the miraculous nature of the Jew and the authenticity of our sacred writ. Not once did we relinquish our sense of self-value, neither as individuals nor as a people, even though year after year, decade after decade, century after century, there appeared no sign of the ancient promise heralded by our prophets...


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Individual Membership

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Individual Membership

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...less than 10 cents a day!

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Affinity Groups & Webinars

FJMC Affinity Groups & Webinars are open to all.

Join us for Yiddish Lite!

Beginner's Yiddish Group

Alternate Tuesday Evenings

Tuesday, August 1, 2023

at 8pm ET

Hosted by Al Davis


Click here to register!

Join us for Yiddish Alive!

Advanced Yiddish Group

Monday, August 7, 2023

at 8pm ET

Hosted by Jeffrey Newton, Joe Rotstein, Esther Scheer and Barry Wagner


Click here to register!

Join us for Pride & Prejudice!

Wednesday, August 16, 2023

8-9pm ET | 7-8pm CT | 5-6pm PT

Affinity Group Leader: Stephe Sturman


Accommodating Our Marginalized Communities with Jonathan Brody,

Johnny Parker & Michael Pucci.


Click here to register!

Join us for Torah Talks!

Thursday, August 17, 2023

7:30pm ET | 6:30pm CT | 4:30pm PT

With Norm Kurtz and Benny Sommerfeld


Click here to register!

Special Events &

Tisha B'Av Services

Around the Region

Dix Hills Jewish Center

555 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills, NY 11746

www.dhjc.org

631.499.6644


Shabbat on the Shore

July 28, 2023

5:30pm - 6:30pm

Temple Israel of Great Neck

108 Old Mill Road, Great Neck, NY 11023

www.tign.org

(516) 482-7800

Welcome Shabbat BBQ & Bar’khu

August 4, 2023

6:30PM


Join us for an outdoor service at 6:30 p.m. followed by a BBQ Shabbat Dinner at 7:30 p.m. Vegetarian options are available. $20 per adult (13 and older) and $15 per child (4 – 12 years old) and 3 years and under are free.


Weather permitting, services will be held outside.


Click here to RSVP by Tuesday, August 1, 2023.

Park Avenue Synagogue

50 E 87th Street, New York, NY 10128

Phone: 212-369-2600

www.pasyn.org


Tisha B'Av Service



We mark the solemn day of the 9th of Av, the anniversary of the destruction of both the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem and other catastrophes in Jewish history, with study, fasting, and prayer. Join us for the evening service and reading of the book of Eicha- Lamentations.


Wednesday, July 26, 2023

At 8:15 PM

87th Street and online

Plainview Jewish Center

95 Floral Drive West, Plainview, NY 11803

Phone: 516-938-8610

pjcli@optonline.net

www.plainviewjewishcenter.org


Tisha B'av Service

Wednesday, July 26, 2023

8PM - 9:30 PM

Forest Hills JC

49-10 Little Neck Pkwy, Little Neck, NY 11362

Phone: 718-224-0404

www.olnjc.org


Party Like It's 1923

Monday, August 14, 2023 at 6PM

at the West Side Tennis Club

located at 1 Tennis Place, Forest Hills, NY


Cost $95 per person.

Click here to register.

Midway JC

330 South Oyster Bay Road, Syosset NY 11791

Phone: 718-224-0404

www.mjc.org

Midway Jewish Center Men's Club

2023 Annual Golf Outing


Monday, August 14, 2023

12:00 PM - Registration and Lunch from Regal Deli

1:15 PM - Shot Gun Start

6:30 PM - Kosher BBQ Dinner


Located at

Glen Cove Golf Club

109 Lattingtown Road

Glen Cove, NY 11542


RSVP by August 4, 2023


Click here to register and for further information.


For sponsorship options and pricing, please contact: midwayjcmensclub@gmail.com

Congregation L'Dor V'Dor

49-10 Little Neck Pkwy, Little Neck, NY 11362

Phone: 718-224-0404

www.olnjc.org

Rummage Sale!

August 6 - August 8, 2023


Sunday, August 6

10am to 4pm


Monday, August 7

10am to 4pm

6pm to 9pm


Tuesday, August 8 (Bag Day!)

10am to 4pm

Dix Hills Jewish Center

555 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills, NY 11746

www.dhjc.org

631.499.6644


Forthcoming Summer Studies


Thursday, August 3 & 10, 2023 at 9am

Myths, Monsters & Bubba Mysas

in Jewish Folklore


Monday, August 7, 2023 at 10am

Jewish Currents Roundtable Conversations

Historical New York

Rose Feiss Boulevard is a 10- block stretch in the Port Morris neighborhood of the Bronx. Insert: Rose Feiss' great-grandchildren holding a copy of the sign in her honor, sometime in the late 1980s. From left, Stacy Greene Van Gunten, Jennifer Hersh Goldman, Allison Hersh London and Adam Greene. (Courtesy June Hersh, Design by Grace Yagel)

Rose Feiss Boulevard honors a ‘small but mighty’ maven of the South Bronx


(JTA) — In the industrial Port Morris neighborhood in the Bronx, a 10-block stretch of Walnut Avenue bears the name Rose Feiss Boulevard, honoring the Jewish immigrant woman who lived, worked and touched the lives of many in the borough...


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Jewish Arts & Culture

The Nevele Country Club Stardust Room in Ellenville, New York. (Catskills Borscht Belt Museum)

The first-ever Borscht Belt Festival celebrates a bygone Jewish era


(New York Jewish Week) — After a dozen-plus years in the making, the Catskills Borscht Belt museum is set to open in 2025. But for those who can’t wait another two years, the museum is launching a festival to honor the history and culture of the “Jewish Alps” this summer. The first-ever Borscht Belt Fest will debut on July 29 in Ellenville, New York, about 90 miles from Manhattan. 


Click here to read the article in its entirety!

Cillian Murphy plays J. Robert Oppenheimer in Christopher Nolan's film "Oppenheimer." (Universal Pictures)

The Jewish story behind ‘Oppenheimer,’ explained


(JTA) — Moviegoers are planning to fill theaters across the United States to see Christopher Nolan’s “Oppenheimer” biopic. But to fully understand the physicist, biographers have looked for clues in his belief system — an ethical code grounded in science and rationality, a fiery sense of justice and a lifelong ambivalence toward his own Jewish heritage.


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Alan Palmer wrote and stars in "Chanteuse: A Survival Musical."

Chanteuse: A new musical spotlights the Nazi persecution of LGBTQ+ people


(New York Jewish Week) — Some 50,000 gay men and women were imprisoned by Nazis during the Holocaust. Of them, approximately 10,000 to 15,000 were held in concentration camps, and nearly all of those who were sent to the camps died there. And yet, many stories of LGBTQ+ people who died in Nazi prisons are left untold...


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Lyricist Sheldon Harnick poses for the animation movie "Aaron's Magic Village," circa 1995. (Michael Ochs Archives/Getty Images)

Sheldon Harnick, the lyricist who made Jewish longing universal in ‘Fiddler on the Roof,’ passed away at 99


(JTA) — The moment when Sheldon Harnick realized that his new musical might be something special came when he sang the lyrics he had just composed for a new song: “Sunrise, Sunset.” 


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

New York Nosh

Kosher restaurateur Naftali Abenaim at his newest establishment, Mocha Burger Lux in Midtown. (David Beyda)

A new kosher restaurant in Midtown will sell a $175 gold-plated burger


(New York Jewish Week) — Dining out in New York City is expensive — especially at a kosher restaurant. But Mocha Burger Lux, a forthcoming Midtown restaurant, is upping the ante with its “24K Gold Plated Golden-Burger,” which has an eye-popping price: $175.



Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Sommelier Dean Fuerth, a native of the Upper West Side, is known online as the "Grand Cru Jew." (Courtesy)

The ‘Grand Cru Jew’ pours fine wine at Michelin-starred Japanese restaurant in the West Village


(New York Jewish Week) — Imagine an Upper West Side seder like any other: adults praying, haggadahs dappled with brisket juice, matzah ball soup a little too salty. Only that’s not a Manischewitz bottle on the table. That’s a magnum of Cru Beaujolais...


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Abram, left, a cab driver from Uzbekistan, takes Kareem Rahma to 2nd Avenue Deli as part of the TikTok series "Keep the Meter Running."(@keepthemeterrunning/Screenshot, Design by Mollie Suss.)

Viral TikTok series ‘Keep the Meter Running’ makes a very Jewish visit to the 2nd Avenue Deli


(New York Jewish Week) — An Egyptian-American comedian and a Bukharian Jewish cab driver broke bread together at New York’s 2nd Avenue Deli last month, a meeting that’s been viewed more than 700,000 times on TikTok. As part of his online series “Keep the Meter Running,” comedian Kareem Rahma hails a yellow cab and tells the driver: “Take me to your favorite place and keep the meter running.”


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Jewish Roots

The herb was an essential part of Sephardic cooking for centuries.

Cilantro’s Jewish Roots


(Tablet) — On the cold afternoon of Jan. 7, 1486, in the main square of a town called Teruel in eastern Spain, the Court of the Holy Inquisition sentenced to death the converso Juan Sánchez de Exarch for his Judaizing activities. Among the heretical practices mentioned in the Inquisition records were his adherence to Judaism, his repudiation of Jesus in favor of Moses, and his Hebraic foodways—such as the preparation of a Sabbath pot by the name of adafina...


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Professor Jonathan Krasner explains the history and evolution of Tikkun Olam.

The phrase "repairing the world" lies at the heart of what Brandeis is all about


(Brandeis University) — The expression derives from the Hebrew — tikkun olam means "world repair" — and reflects Brandeis' Jewish roots, though its meaning today is secular and universal. Mostly, it signifies the university and its community members’ commitment to making the world a better place. It is often associated with political activism and a dedication to social justice, but others see it as an obligation to behave ethically and treat others with dignity and respect...


Click here to read the article in its entirety.

Did You Know?

Garlic has long been associated with Jewish life and cooking.

Garlic and Jews:

6 Little-Known Jewish Facts


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