1.     Give thanks!  It sounds odd, right? Isn't Thanksgiving about giving thanks? Yes, it is! But, I'm surprised at how many people are decidedly less than thankful in this season. Maybe it's the prospect of cooking for a huge group. Or, gathering the family is not your idea of a good time for one reason or another. Or, it's a difficult holiday because a beloved family member isn't going to be with you this year. There are lots of reasons we feel less than thankful on Thanksgiving. But don't limit your thanks to the grace before you cut the turkey. Practice making this a week of Thanksgiving, noting all the things you can recognize as blessing, even when they are mixed up with some elements that feel like less than blessing. Every day should start with a prayer of thanksgiving when we open our eyes; I hope we're grateful for another day to walk the earth. Remember to be thankful for everything you can recognize, and it will be a meaningful holiday.

2.     Talk about religion and politics. No, really. One of the things that is tearing this country apart is our inability to talk to one another about the really important things. If we can't have calm, loving conversations with those in our own families, then what hope do we have when it comes to strangers and neighbors? I know, I know, some families are the worst setting for such talk, but at the end of the day, we need to understand where others are coming from, to truly hear what they feel and think, and acknowledge it for what it is. You don't have to let others change your mind, but at least listen to them.  Likewise, you can share your thoughts without needing to change their minds. Understanding is the key, not winning. God will move in and through us when we can discuss and debate with open minds and loving hearts. And besides, there's plenty to talk about since last Thanksgiving. The conversation should be lively!