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Women's League
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Networking to Engage, Enrich and Empower
Conservative Jewish Women 
November 30, 2017                                                            Volume 2, Issue 65
SAVE THE DATE FOR SPRING CONFERENCE 2018 save
 
WHAT: INR SPRING CONFERENCE--"PORTRAIT OF SISTERHOOD"
WHEN: April 29 and 30, 2018
WHERE: Temple Beth El, Rochester New York
WHO: All Sisterhood Members from Inr
WHY: Time to Meet and Learn from Each Other
 
THIS NOTICE COMES TO YOU FROM YOUR LOYAL CO-CHAIRS:
Marcia Nabut and Ruth Shapiro
 
Questions?
After Sukkot, contact Marcia Nabut at either 585-271-4189 or [email protected]
 
FROM THE REGION PRESIDENTprez

A couple of weeks ago our Sisterhood hosted a benefit concert in support of the Centre for the Arts in Human Development. The Centre is affiliated with a local university and its mission is to help people with various developmental disabilities achieve their potential through the creative arts therapies.
The performers, all members of the non-denominational Centre, put on a wonderful show. They sang and danced, played musical instruments and each participant enthusiastically entertained and touched an audience of close to 400 people. It was an evening that showcased the abilities rather than disabilities of the participants. Even though Shaare Zion Sisterhood has supported the Centre for four years (and raised close to $40,000!), the performers never cease to wow me. My motto in introducing the show has become, "it is an experience that warms your heart and lifts your spirits!"
Some members of our synagogue, however, expressed disapproval of raising funds that do not support Israel, our synagogue, or the Jewish community.
In response, I believe that hosting the benefit concerts is a wonderful example of reaching out to the wider community and performing one of the basic tenets of Judaism -- tikkun olam - "the idea that Jews bear responsibility not only for their own moral, spiritual, and material welfare, but also for the welfare of society at large."
It is also in keeping with the practice of many of our sisterhood members across the continent who volunteer in shelters, serve meals in soup kitchens, tutor special children, and visit the sick and elderly. I am proud that Women's League is at the forefront of those efforts.
SAVE THE DATE : April 29-30, 2018 - INR's Spring Conference in Rochester, NY
Shabbat Shalom,
Eleanor
514-458-6204  

FROM THE REGION EDUCATION VP, LOIS SILVERMANeducation 
 
TO BE OR NOT TO BE A MAJORITY OF ONE  
reprinted from the NY State Branch,
September, 1995 newsletter

 This August marked the 75th Anniversary of the 19th Amendment to the US Constitution which granted the right to vote to women.
 Certainly 75 years ago, the desire to vote wasn't a universal one among women. The culture and mores of the time taught women as well as men that women were created to be subservient helpmates for men; that women were not capable of making the decisions necessary in order to cast an intelligent vote due to frailty and lack of intelligence; that women's voting was against God's Laws.
 For those women who fought for suffrage during the 75-year fight for passage of the 19th Amendment, the struggle appeared to be a hopeless one. They fought for an unpopular cause against foes who weren't afraid to use insults, physical and emotional attacks, and just old-fashioned verbal abuse. Many gave up the struggle; some never gave up. But the cost for fighting was high.
 I remember reading John Kennedy's Profiles in Courage when I was about 13. I remember thinking how great it was to fight an unpopular battle, not for honor, not for glory, but rather just for principle.
 If you were fighting a battle for an unpopular cause, would you continue the struggle when the fighting got "low down and dirty?" I for one can say I would since I have.
 In the years I've been active in our synagogue, I have championed many unpopular causes. At the beginning of each cause, I was alone. Then as time went on more and more people joined me, and many times we were victorious. Of course, there was a price to pay for these victories.
 Each struggle becomes harder and harder to fight because one becomes tired. Each struggle becomes harder to fight because, over the years, fewer people want to become involved; they don't want to become involved because they don't want to lose friends or invitations to parties; they don't want to get too involved because with involvement come personal groundless, inappropriate attacks and insults. Being a majority of one is not for everyone.
 An article by Lawrence Hardy appeared in the August 20, issue of the Utica Observer-Dispatch about Harry Burns, a 24-year-old representative in the Tennessee Legislature, whose unpopular stand and changed the course of history.
In August, 1920, 35 states had ratified the 19th Amendment-one less than the number needed for passage-when the debate shifted to Tennessee. Activists from both sides descended on Nashville, "buttonholing" representatives and arguing points. The anti-suffragists held an edge because they opened a bar in a local hotel and plied the uncommitted with bourbon while Prohibition-era police looked the other way.
When ratification finally came to a vote, it was Burn's vote which gave the victory for ratification.
After the vote, Burn fled to the State Library and Archives to escape the crowds. Rumors flew. Some claimed he was kidnapped to keep him from ­changing his vote. Others said he was threatened.
Tennessee had three days to reconsider its vote. But another vote was not taken and the 19th Amendment became law.
The article does not state what became of Harry Burns. Most likely his political career was over at 24 because he stood up for what he believed no matter what the cost. And so should we. Doing what is right should not be a liability. Having a social and moral conscience should be a universal characteristic and not one reserved for the people branded as troublemakers, firebrands, odd balls, or the "L"-word [Liberal].
Certainly Harry Burns deserves a place in any new edition of Profiles of Courage--especially if it is written by a woman.

May we all have the courage to be like Harry Burns and fight for what is just and honorable.

Shabbat Shalom
LOIS
FROM WOMEN'S LEAGUE FOR CONSERVATIVE JUDAISM WLCJ fromWL
 

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FROM THE PRESIDENT OF WOMEN'S LEAGUE
 
This week, Rabbi Neil Gillman, z"l passed away. Within minutes, notifications, tributes, and passionate remembrances swamped the internet. For generations of Rabbis, Rabbi Gillman was their Rabbi, friend, and mentor. His career at  the Jewish Theological Seminary of America,  spanned decades. His philosophical thought will continue to influence Jewish thinking for decades to come.  
A Wikipedia biography does little justice to the greatness of Neil Gillman. I remember many years ago, introducing Emet Ve'Emunah (Truth and Faith) to my congregation. He was one of the members of the Conservative movement's commission which created this first official statement of beliefs of Conservative Judaism.
Women's League proudly honored "our friend" Rabbi Gillman at our convention in 2014. He was obviously ill and frail, yet there he sat, in front of all our delegates, doing what he did best. He taught us, he made us think, he inspired us, and he graciously and humbly allowed us to thank him for the years of friendship and support he shared with WLCJ.
The summation of such a great man - the legacy he leaves - should inspire each of us. There's some cutesy thing that talks about life not being in the numbers, but the dash. Not the dates of when you are born and when you die, but the time in between. That little dash signifies a life. In this case, that little dash encompasses a quality of life that tributes like this and the many others, give his life little justice. Neil Gillman, z"l, May his memory be for a blessing.
Shabbat Shalom,
Margie Miller
  

Distance Workshops
The next 
free Women's League Distance Workshop, 
"Zoom Call with WLCJ President Margie Miller" is scheduled for 
Monday, November 27, at 8:30 p.m. Eastern Time. This workshop is open only  to sisterhoods with under 50 members and limited to the first 20 Sisterhoods to register. Call-in information will be sent to participants the week of the workshop. Register here.
 
Registration is now open for the next Distance Workshop on Thursday, December 7, at 8:30 p.m., also with President Margie Miller. Sisterhoods with under 100 members are invited to participate, and space is limited to the first 20 to register. Reserve your spot here.
 

Modern Jewish Family: 2017-2018
Study Materials Now Available!
 
For several years, Women's League has engaged in conversation about  
Mishpachah, the Modern Jewish Family. The goal of the first year,  
Mishpachah I, was to identify the diverse character of our Jewish families and to encourage our communities to be pluralistic, welcoming, inclusive and openhearted. Our second year,  
Misphachah II 
expanded this concept and concentrated on the diverse structures and identities of our families.
 
During this third year, Modern Jewish Family will focus on defining our families and communication within our families. The materials may be used as Divrei Hokhmah or as a D'var Torah before a meeting or as the topic for a full meeting or discussion study group. Find them on the Women's League website here.
  
FROM THE TORAH FUND VICE PRESIDENT
MARILYN COHEN

*** IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENTS***
DEADLINE for CHECK Donations by Mail is
MONDAY, DECEMBER 18, 2017
to get a 2017 tax receipt
 
DEADLINE for CREDIT CARD* Donations by Phone is
THURSDAY, DECEMBER 21, 2017
to get a 2017 tax receipt
*Only US donors may pay by credit card
Canadians cannot pay by credit card
 
Go to www.jtsa.edu/torahfund to give online
or call the Torah Fund office at
212.678.8027 or 212.678.8977
 
The Torah Fund Office
will be closed 
during the week of
DECEMBER 25  
and will re-open TUESDAY, JANUARY 2, 2018.
 
Contact me with any questions:
Marilyn Cohen
VP Torah Fund - International Northeast Region
416-5 18-1860  
 
Check out the New Torah Fund Guide and all the other materials to run a great campaign!
   
FROM ACROSS THE REGIONkvell
TORAH FUND PROGRAMS TO KVELL AND SHARE
The Best Torah Fund Programs in Our Region

This space is being reserved for Torah Fund programs that have worked for YOUR sisterhood.  Please send Lois Silverman at [email protected] a summary of what you have done to support Torah Fund.  It just might inspire other sisterhoods to do similar events.
 
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HELP IS AVAILABLE ON THE WLCJ WEBSITE.

Programs, membership ideas, education material, and more available at wlcj.org