The time between Thanksgiving and Christmas goes so fast, doesn't it? Much of it is good. The anticipation. Gift giving. Decorating. Baking. Traditions honored.

But sometimes it can be overwhelming. Draining. Exhausting. Especially if we are listening to voices outside of our own heart that absorb other's expectations. After a hectic Thanksgiving week-end I had to stop and think what was important this season? My prayer yielded three "P's," for me for Advent. I share them and hope they might be helpful for you.

People- Am I putting the people I love first? Or do the things I am rushing to accomplish get top focus in my mind, heart and time? Our children will never be the age they are this Advent. This season, surrounded by loved ones, is something we never want to take for granted.

Presence- Do I give my full attention to the person in front of me or is my mind half there as I think of the tasks I have given myself? Am I focused on presents for others or presence to others?

Priorities- Where is time with my God on my calendar? What is my ratio of busy commercial quests to spiritual preparation and prayer? When am I quiet and when do I listen to God?

Advent comes from a word that means "arrival" or "coming" especially of something of immense importance. God wanted to be so close to us he sent his Son, his only Son, into our world where he had the potential to be loved, befriended, but also hurt and betrayed. That is a big deal! God willingly became a helpless baby, in a family so in need, they camped in the simplest of spaces, for his birth. My question is how can I prepare my heart for that, for God almighty, willing to become little so being human becomes so big? It is a gift beyond what I can take in. It is worth pondering such a great love during this season. You and I are so loved! Each Advent we can prepare to take that in a little more deeply.

I wish you the best with the three "P's" and oh, one more, I wish you Peace!