November 29, 2017
Strive to be more
Dear Parents,
Traditionally, the STM middle school students participate in Service Day to provide support for others in our community.  Yesterday marked the 14th annual STM Service Day in which 6th, 7th, and 8th grade students and parent volunteers contributed their time and energy to various groups and tasks. Some of the services they provided were sandwich making, sorting and boxing coats from the Coat Drive, visiting with residents of Culpeper Garden, making baby blankets, reading to younger students, and wrapping presents at the Hope Center. Mrs. Meehan, 6th grade teacher, organizes this annual event, and as she so beautifully stated during the Commissioning yesterday morning, this important event would not be possible without the parental support provided.  Thank you parents, for being such strong examples of service and outreach to others.  We are grateful for you.

At this time, I would like to inform you that Ms. Laura Winstanley,
STM Technology Instructor for Grades 4 through 8, has stepped down from her position due to health concerns.  Computer classes will continue with subs until a permanent instructor is hired.

Tomorrow morning, our 8th grade students will complete the High School Placement Test (HSPT) as part of the Diocesan high school admissions process.  Please keep them in your prayers during this special time.

God Bless,

Eleanor McCormack

Students Making Blankets
                                                        
Students Making Blankets

Students Making Sandwiches

Students and Teachers Sorting Coats
CONGRATULATIONS TO THE YEARBOOK COVER WINNERS

The Yearbook Committee received over 75 entries for this year's STM Yearbook cover.  They were all well done.  In the next few weeks, a bulletin board will be setup in the middle school hallway to display all entries.  Winners for the front and back covers and individual grades were announced this morning.

Grade Winners:
Kindergarten:  Juliette Fattman
1st Grade:  Tied--Efrata Tewolde; Becca Schaller
2nd Grade:  Tied--Lizzie McIntyre; Noelle Sims
3rd Grade:  Madison Trice
4th Grade:  Olivia Stoumbos
5th Grade:  Maria Cleary
6th Grade:  Tied--Annike Caldwell; Lia Stoumbos
7th Grade:  Tied--Caroline Fletcher, Juliette Guazzao
8th Grade:  Hailey Carter

Back Cover Winners:
Alexa Sifakis, Juliette Guazzo, Caroline Fletcher, Annike Caldwell

Front Cover Winner:  Hailey Carter

Thank you to all who participated! We look forward to seeing your artwork in the hallway and in the yearbook.
PIZZA THIS FRIDAY, DEC 1, FOR ALL STUDENTS WHO SUBSCRIBED
 
This Friday Pizza Lunch supports 3rd Grade!

Pizza and Market Table volunteers are needed in the school cafeteria from 10:45am-1:15pm.  You must be VIRTUS-compliant to volunteer.  Come for the entire time or just for an hour.
 
Market Table
Appropriate items and some favorites are individually bagged popcorn, fruit snacks, chips, pretzels, cheese puffs or Jell-O and small items like bubbles, novelty pens, stickers, and mini-notepads. Please do not send in cookies or nut productsDo not send in latex items such as balloons or any item made with latex. 
 
For every $15 spent you earn 1 volunteer hour.  If you have any pizza questions, contact Mike or Cecelia Gilliam at  [email protected] .
HAVE YOU REGISTERED FOR NEXT YEAR? logo

We have enjoyed two successful Open Houses and classes are rapidly filling.   STM school wants to be sure to secure your child's spot in next year's classes.  Please click here to complete the needed paperwork for the  2018-19 school year.  
DECEMBER HOMEWORK HOUR

It is time to sign up for December Homework Hour.  Hour-long homework assistance sessions are offered Mondays through Thursdays in Room 13 from 3:20 to 4:20pm.  The cost for this service is $15.00 per daily session per student that is charged to your FACTS account.  Students not picked up from Room 13 by 4:20pm will be checked into the Extended Day program.
 
Please complete the attached form and return to the school office.  Confirmation of registration will be sent via email.  
WINTER QUARTER &  MONTHLY HOT LUNCH ORDERS
       ARE DUE
It is time to place your orders for January or Winter quarter hot lunches
  • Quarterly subscriptions begin the week of Wednesday January 3, 2018, and will run through Wednesday March 28, 2018. This lunch rotation consists of 44 lunches at a price of $6.25 per child.  Total cost for the Winter quarter is $275.00 per child.
  • January subscriptions will begin on Wednesday, January 3, 2018, and will run through Wednesday, January 31, 2018. A total of 15 lunches will be served for a cost of $93.75 per child.  
Please complete this form to submit an order. Completed order forms must be returned to the school office no later than December 15, 2017.
***** Breakfast with Santa is just around the corner and we need YOUR help in making it a success!  The holiday raffle baskets are always a huge hit with the kids so please consider donating a new toy to be included in a basket. We would also welcome themed baskets as well. Donations can be dropped off in the front office no later than Thursday, November 30th. Thank you in advance!****

The holidays are fast approaching so please mark your calendar now for one of the most anticipated PTO events of the year --  the STM Pancake Breakfast with Santa
 
When : Saturday, December 2nd from 9:00 am - Noon
 
Where : The STM School Cafeteria and Gym
 
What : Please join us for a wonderful breakfast featuring fluffy buttermilk pancakes, hot sausage, and warm beverages including hot chocolate and marshmallows!  The kids will have a chance to visit with Santa, participate in an assortment of holiday crafts, win amazing raffle baskets, and shop at "The Little Elves' Christmas Shop" to pick out that perfect present to put under the tree for their Mom, Dad, or other loved ones.  There will also be a photographer on-site to capture the magical moments with Santa!  
 
Look out for registration forms coming home via backpack mail this week. Don't forget to reserve your space early to ensure your family gets a preferred time slot with Santa!  
 
Interested in volunteering at the event?  Please sign up in A to Z connect. We look forward to seeing you there!   

STM GIRL SCOUT TROOP 2102 TOY DRIVE

The scouts are collecting NEW and unwrapped toys for girls and boys ages 3-12.  Please send in your donation and place it in the boxes located near the office or in the cafeteria.  The collection will continue until December 11.
Parenting by Dr. Rene News
 
Parenting Workshop Schedule
2017 - 2018
 
Join Dr. Rene for an informative parenting workshop! These workshops are praised for being engaging, thorough and full of practical solutions. These workshops currently meet in McLean at Country Day School. For more information and to register, please click here

Kindergarten Readiness & Academic Motivation 
Wed. Nov. 29 7:00 - 9:00pm
Positive Discipline 1-Day 
Sat. Dec. 2 9:00am - 3:00pm
Managing Mealtimes & Picky Eaters 
Wed. Dec. 6 7:00 - 9:00pm
Teaching Money, Chores & Allowance 
Thurs. Dec. 7 9:20 - 10:20am
Tantrums, Whining & Backtalk 
Mon. Dec. 11 7:00 - 9:00pm
Tips for a Better Clean Up Time
Your kids have been playing all afternoon, moving from one activity to the next.  You realize dinner is 20 minutes away and the house is a mess.  There are toys EVERYWHERE.
  • Start young - I tend to think clean-up should be part of play from the beginning.  Even before children can help, you can talk to them about how "we are done playing now so I am going to put these toys away."  By eighteen months to two years old, give them small jobs as part of the clean up.  By two and a half they should really be participating and hopefully by four years old taking ownership.
  • Get organized - For kids to be able to put away toys, there should be clear places for toys to go.  This means having a preferably clear bin for each type of toy, a box for puzzle pieces, a cabinet or shelf for puzzle boxes, a big basket for balls or a cabinet for dress-up clothes.  It may take a few months to teach kids where and how things get put away and it is worth the effort.
  • Have a consistent plan - If you find your kids do better cleaning up after each activity, make that the expectation.  Better to clean up at the end of the day, that's good too.  Find your plan and then stick with it.
  • Everyone cleans - Everyone who gets to play, helps to clean.
  • Give warnings - Clean up time is a transition.  Many children benefit from having a warning before transitions. With my own kids, this is "We are done in five minutes, finish up," and "One more minute, do your last thing."  It works best if you say the same things for each warning and mean the same amount of time.  If sometimes when you say "five minutes" you mean two because you are in a hurry or you mean twenty because you get distracted, your warnings aren't very helpful.
  • Clean-up songs - Every preschool teacher and most of the parents I know sing "Clean up time. Time to clean. Everyone is helping."  That's a start. Google "clean up songs" or "clean up games," there are lots.
  • Divide and conquer - Several children working together can distract each other.  If this is the case, it may work best to assign each a specific job or area of the room to clean. This might also mean one cleans at a time.
  • Set small goals - If there really are toys absolutely everywhere, it can be an overwhelming task to clean it all up.  It may be helpful to start small and clean up the trains before snack and the legos after.
  • Positive choices - Giving children choices would be saying "do you want to start with the blocks or balls?" or "Would you like to throw those in or dump truck them in the basket?"  When a child makes a choices they are that much closer to doing the behavior.  Here is a full blog post on how choices work in discipline.
  • Challenges - Can child count all the blocks they put on the shelf?  Can child pick up more blocks than you?  Can child make neat stacks?  Can child put all the blocks away in two minutes?  Ready, go!
  • Jobs - Jobs around clean up time might be the block supervisor, the doll organizer, or the art supply sorter.  Give a title and a brief job description.
  • Read books about it - Children's story books include:
  1.  Pigsty by Teague
  2. Super, Completely and Totally the Messiest by Viorst
  3. The Messiest Room on the Planet by Kulling 
BLAST SUBMISSIONS
STM Blast items must be submitted to [email protected] by noon on Monday  in order to be included in that week's edition.   All submissions must be in print-ready form.  Items received after this deadline will be held until the following issue.  Thank you for your cooperation.
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Upcoming Events

Thurs, November 30
High School Placement Test for 8th grade

Saturday, December 2
Breakfast With Santa

Sunday, December 10
Lessons & Carols
STM Cathedral
7:30pm

Tuesday, December 12
11:30am Dismissal with Extended Day

Tuesday, December 12
STM School Play
STM Cathedral
Children meet in Burke Hall at 6pm

Wednesday, Dec 20
11:30 Dismissal
NO EXTENDED DAY

Wednesday, Dec 20
Christmas break begins at 11:30

Wednesday, Jan 3 2018
Classes Resume
"STM Will Turn the World"