JCC the Place to Be The Jewish Community Center of LBI 

E-Letter                        
October 4, 2017
14 Tishri 5778




Let us pray for the healing and recovery of the wounded.  Let us gather our prayers in memory of the deceased. Let us express our gratitude to the first responders who saved lives on that night in Las Vegas. May they remembered for blessing by their loved ones 
and our society.


  

MEN'S CLUB MEETING
Please join us on Sunday
October 15, 2017 
               9 am for services
              followed by breakfast 
           10 am, Richard Morgan's
          Poetry For Men - Collected Words  
      and Watercolors
         ALL ARE WELCOME

Contents
The Week That Was...
A Holiday Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
Ongoing Activities
Community Events
18 Mile Run
Federation Film Festival
Text Blast Sign Up
Bulletin Ads
TD Affinity Program
Name Badges
This Week's Events
Shabbat Information
Yahrzeits
Congregation News
Kiddishes
Sisterhood Stuff
Giving Opportunities
Documents & Links
YOM KIPPUR AT THE JCC

A beautiful Kol Nidre & Yom Kippur was experienced by so many this year. Most poignant was seeing multi-generation families  going up to the ark during Neilah with the partriachs embracing their families in their tallit.  

There are so many people who make this all possible:

  • Rabbi Michael Jay & Cantor Avi Green for leading us so beautifully in prayer
  • Our ushers Harold Farin, Stuart Pepose and Kem Spencer
  • Our Gabbaim: Stan Berman, Harold Farin, Harris Weisel
  • Our Torah Readers: Aaron Lombardi, Ira Morganthal
  • Our Haftorah Readers: Don Pripstein, The Women of the Congregation (Jonah)
  • All those who received honors 
  • The High Holiday Committee: Carole Nunberg, Kem Spencer, Paula Hait and Harold Farin 
  • Bonnie & Harold Farin for hosting Cantor Green 
  • Terri Robinovitz for leading the children's program
  • Kem Spencer for donating the flowers
  • The office staff for all their support: Jeri, Leslie and Marcie 
A special shout out to Carole Nunberg and Bonnie Farin for putting together a fantastic Break-the-Fast.




A  MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

With Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur behind us, the holiday of Sukkot is fast approaching.  Perhaps the most visible symbol of Sukkot is the Sukkah, the temporary structure that the JCC and most congregations build to commemorate the holiday, and that many of us also place in our yards.
 
There are many reasons for building, and dwelling in, a Sukkah. The Torah specifically tells us to "live in Sukkahs for 7 days...in order that future generations will know that [God] made the Israelite people live in Sukkahs when [God] brought them out of the land of Egypt..."
 
What is the purpose of dwelling in the Sukkah? Let's take a look at a few commentators. The first suggestion is from Isaac Aboab a 14th century Talmudic scholar living in Spain. He said:
 
The commandment to dwell in the Sukkah is intended to teach us that a person must not put his/her trust in the size or strength or salutary conveniences of his/her house, even though it is filled with the best of everything; nor should he/she rely on the help of any person, even if that person is the lord of the land. But let him/her put trust in God whose word called the universe into being, for God alone is mighty and faithful, and God does not retract what God promises. (Menorat Ha-Maor 3.6.1)
 
Rashbam (Samuel Ben Maier, 12th century France) taught that the Sukkah was about humility. He said in his commentary to Leviticus 23:43 the following:
 
Do not say in your heart, "My own power and the might of my own hand have won this wealth for me" (Deuteronomy 8:17); you should remember that it is the Lord your God who gives you strength to make progress. Therefore, the people leave [their] houses, which are full of everything good, at the season of the ingathering, and dwell in booths, as a reminder of those who had no possessions in the wilderness and no houses in which to live. For this reason, the Holy One established the Feast of the Tabernacles.....[so] that the people should not be (too) proud of their well-furnished houses.
 
Rashi (10th century France) said that the walls of each Sukkah are actually God's "cloud of glory", i.e. The cloud that led the Israelites through the desert.  Thus, even though the walls may seem fragile, they are capable of providing protection.
 
As a harvest holiday, residing in the Sukkah helps us to commune with the natural environment around us. I have also learned that the 7 days of dwelling in the Sukkah may help us to shift from our "near-death" experience on Yom Kippur to our reintroduction back into the world.
 
While the Sukkah experience is unique and fun, it is not always comfortable. In fact we find ourselves living outside and subject to the weather just as it is usually beginning to turn crisp and windy. Sitting in our temporary home at night, our senses are heightened to our surroundings.  We hear the wind, we hear the sounds of nature. We smell the musty scent of leaves that have fallen on the ground.
 
And while we are tuned in to the beauty of our surroundings, there is also a sense of how small we are when compared to the world of nature around us.  Sitting in the Sukkah we become aware of the beauty and wonder of the world that God has created, while at the same time being cognizant of the fragility of life.
 
Sit, sense, imagine, and be wrapped in the loving embrace of our sacred traditions.
 
Shabbat Shalom and Moadim L'Simcha - Rabbi Michael S. Jay
 
Rabbi Jay's High Holiday sermons included some "home-work" using the following handouts:

SOULFIE -  A selfie for you soul
Just as we need to understand and feed our bodies, so too, our souls need to be understood and nourished. Click here to see the 4 questions you can ask yourself: SOULFIE

Create your own written legacy with a "Forever Letter".  Here are some of the cue sentences you can use: 

Here's what I learned from my parents...

Here's what I wish I had learned from my parents... 
To see more click on this:  LEGACY




RABBI'S HOURS
Rabbi Jay will now be at his office at the JCC on TUESDAYS and will have office hours from 10:00 AM - Noon.  Drop in to chat (call the office to make sure he is in and not out on an emergency 609-492-4090) or make an appointment with him (973-865-9534).
Rabbi Jay can always be reached on his cell phone ((973-865-9534) or at his email address ([email protected]).  
He is also available by appointment.

KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

THE WEEK THAT WAS....


 
Our Sukkah is up thanks to our wonderful volunteers

Ron Marr
Kem Spencer
Rudy Valentine
Mike Babst
Cliff Farin
Mike Piscerelli
Malenie Piscerelli
Ira Morganthal
Arnie Galer
Harold Farin

Decorators
Emilie Krill
Stephanie Krill

ONGOING ACTIVITIES 
Mah jongg

MAH JONGG - 
EVERY
WEDNESDAY FROM 12:30 PM - 4:00 PM

LAST DAY OF MAH JONGG OCTOBER 25.

COMMUNITY EVENTS

 
The Jewish Cultural Group at Mirage Presents......
 
DIVAS DAMES & DELI
A fabulous evening of entertainment & dinner
 
Saturday, October 7, 2017
Doors Open at 6:15 PM Sharp

FOR FURTHER INFORMATION OPEN THIS LINK TO THE FLYER

18 MILE RUN

 

45th Annual LBI Commemorative 18 Mile Run
Sunday, October 8
Start Time: 10:30 AM
Holgate

The race is dedicated to the 11 Israeli athletes slain by terrorists at the 1972 Munich Olympics and the thousands who lost their lives on September 11, 2001.

The JCC will volunteer at a water station in front of our building. Please let the office know if you want to volunteer on Oct.8 morning. 


FEDERATION FILM FESTIVAL 
Sunday, October 15
thru
Sunday, October 29








 
FOR MORE INFORMATION CLICK ON:   FILMS


TEXT BLAST SIGN UP

If you would like to receive JCC of LBI reminders and alerts via text message on your cell phone, please contact the office by email ([email protected]) or phone (609-492-4090) We would be alerting you for example that "Services are cancelled" or "Last opportunity to sign up for Community Seder".

 This information will not be shared and will only be used for JCC purposes. 

ADS FOR JCC BULLETIN

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
 
TD AFFINITY PROGRAM

Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

We just received a check for $456.00 from TD Bank. So think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.
NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  TAGS

 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
OFFICE HOURS:     
 
MONDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
TUESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
WEDNESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
THURSDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
FRIDAY - 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM

Office Staff:
Jeri Riffle, Executive Director
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 Marcie Deutsch, Computer Admin.

Leslie, Marcie and Jeri

 
CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Rose Valentine, JCC President


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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS
10/4 - 10/13  

Wednesday
Mah jongg
12:30 - 4:00 PM

See JCC Calendar: 

HAG SOMEACH
&
SHABBAT SHALOM



Sukkah

You will dwell in booths for seven days; all natives of Israel shall dwell in booths. -Leviticus 23:42

SUKKOT

JOIN US FOR SERVICES

Wednesday 
October 4
Erev Sukkot
Candle lighting: 6:16
7:30 PM
Oneg in the Sukkah

Thursday 
October 5
First Day of Sukkot
9:30 AM
Torah Portion
Leviticus 22:26 - 23:44; 
Numbers 29:12 - 29:16
Here is the reading:
Haftorah
 Zechariah 14:1 - 21
Here is the Haftorah:

Kiddish in the Sukkah 
following services

Candle lighting 7:22 PM

Friday,
October 6
Second Day of Sukkot
9:30 AM
Torah portion
Leviticus 22:26 - 23:44; 
Numbers 29:12 - 29:16
Here is the reading
READING
Haftorah
IKings 8:2 - 8:21
Here is the Haftorah: 


Kiddish in the Sukkah 



Your family is welcome to have a meal in the Sukkah.  Please notify the office  if you plan to do so.  
Kosher food only.

SHABBAT

Shabbat

Candle Lighting Time
Friday
October 6, 2017
 6:13 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)

HERE IS A CALENDAR OF ALL CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES
ON LBI FOR 5778

Friday,
 October 6, 2017
8:00 PM

Saturday
 October 7, 2017
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 9:00 AM
Torah Study
10:00 AM
Services

Torah Portion
Exodus 33:12 - 34:26
Numbers 29:12 - 29:16
Here is the reading:
Ezekiel 38:18 - 39:16
Here is the Haftorah
 
Kiddish in the Sukkah

 
 
 

 SHEMINI ATZERET
Thursday, October 12 
9:30 AM Service
Yiskor will be recited

SIMCHAT TORAH
Thursday, October 12 
6:00 PM Service

Friday. October 13
9:30 AM Service

Simchat Torah

 
Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat  
and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.


YAHRZEITS
FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be read at services on October 6, 2017

Elaine Hirsch*
Daniel Glass
Bertrand Berman
Doris Farin*
Lynn Kamler Levi*
Samuel Hoffman
Judith Blumberg
Marcia Nelson*
Lenore Traster*
Lena Greenwald*
Mildred Berman
Selma Blacker*
Ethel Tarlow
Pauline Sherman
Milton Seavey
Caspar Ungar*
Rose Goldstein*


* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovingly enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.
CONGREGATION
NEWS




SUE RUBINFELD
on the bar mitzvah of her 
grandson
Aaron David Rubinfeld

Bar/Bat Mitzvah

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CARING COMMITTEE
   
Caring
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.  
Please contact Chairperson, Kem Spencer if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.     201-819-3210

CELEBRATE A MILESTONE AT THE 
JCC OF LBI

The JCC is a beautiful place to celebrate a milestone: wedding, anniversary, baby naming, birthday.

Last month the Hershenberg family held a baby naming on a Sunday morning in the JCC sanctuary.  Here is baby Dafna and her parents Rachel Hershenberg & Ben Brewer.


Contact Jeri at the office for further information. 609-492-4090

KIDDUSHES 
on Saturday morning

Contact Lynn Berkowitz 
through the office 609-492-4090
for information about 
sponsoring a Kiddush

SEE NEW DONATION & MENU:

SISTERHOOD STUFF

SHOEBOX RECYCLING
PROGRAM
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

LED OUTSIDE SIGN FUND - NEW!

Possible Rendition of the 
New Sign

The Board has agreed to begin a campaign to replace the outside sign to a LED sign which can be changed from the office computer and would have room for more information to share with the folks driving by our building.  Thank you to Jackie & Paul Avondoglio for make the initial commitment to the Sign Fund. 

MORRIS L. SHAPIRO ENDOWMENT FUND
All organizations should have a substantial endowment fund to ensure its continuation. Except for dire emergencies, the principal amounts in the fund cannot be used to run the organization. Interest earned from the account may be used. As previously announced, Herb and Selma Shapiro have created a JCC  Endowment Fund to honor Herb's father. It will be known as  "The Morris L. Shapiro Endowment Fund at the JCC of LBI " The Shapiros have generously pledged a total of $50,000 to fund this. While initially established by the Shapiros, anyone may contribute to this important fund. 

Join Herb and Selma in helping assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this Fund. 

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.

  YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  Here is the order form: 

TREE OF LIFE (located in the Social Hall)
You can purchase a leaf in honor of an occasion or in memory of a loved one. 
Here is the Tree of Life Form:  TREE

PAVERS ( in front of the Front Entrance) 
Only 4 x 8 and 12 x 12 size pavers are available 
Here is the Paver Form: 

DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

  

LATEST BULLETIN:

BULLETIN

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP 

 

  

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

 

JEWISH JOURNAL: 

JOURNAL

 

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

  

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD

 

 

ONEG SPONSOR

ONEG 

 

  

KIDDUSH SPONSOR

KIDDUSH