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2017/18 MEMBERSHIP DIRECTORY AVAILABLE IN THE JCC OFFICE FOR MEMBERS
June 9,  2017
15 Sivan 5777
 

FIRST OF THE 5 SUMMER DOCUMENTARY FILMS

Sunday, June 11th 
7:00 PM
"Body and Soul: An American Bridge"

The story of one of the
most popular songs in the
jazz repertoire, 
BODY A ND SOUL: 
AN AMERICAN  BRIDGE 
illustrates  the complex musical
interplay between Jewish
and African-American cultures

Future Films:
Sunday, July 9th at 7:00 - Broadway Musicals, a Jewish Legacy
Sunday, August 20th at 7:00 - There are Jews Here"
Sunday, September 10th at 7:00 - Jerry Lewis: The Man behind the Clown
Sunday, October 1st at 7:00 - Monsieur Mayonnaise

Contents
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
The Week That Was
Film Festival Tickets
June Activities
Federation Ads
Text Blast Sign Up
TD Affinity Program
Bulletin Ads
Name Badges
This Week's Events
Shabbat Information
Yahrzeits
Congregation News
Kiddishes
Sisterhood Stuff
Scrip
Giving Opportunities
Documents & Links
A TORAH MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

Parashat Beha'Alotkha is an incredibly rich mixture of narrative and mitzvoth.  Over the course of the Torah, from his introduction in Exodus to the very end of the Chumash, Moshe is evolving and maturing as a person and a leader.  This maturation is illustrated beautifully within the four corners of this Parasha.  Indeed, as we read it we can see his evolution from a student to the name we know him by, "Moshe Rabbeinu", "Moshe our Teacher".  Herein I will try to outline the Prophet's growth progression.

In the beginning of the Parasha Moshe listens silently as God tells him exactly what to say to Aaron about the lighting of the Menorah.  He also does not say anything to God when he is told about the laws of the purification ceremony of the Levites. Again Moshe is silent when God tells him about the terms of service of the Levites.  Is Moshe involved? Is he listening?  Is he paying attention?  As a teacher I find silence from my students to be a negative experience so I can't help but get the feeling that God might be tapping the microphone and saying, "Hello? Is anyone out there?"

Indeed, the first time Moshe speaks is when he tells the Israelites about the Passover offering.  Some people come to him to tell him that they were not able to make the sacrifice because they were impure.  They wanted to be able to make the sacrifice. Moshe's answer?  He tells them that he needs to ask God what to do.  And Moshe immediately inquired of God and got his answer.  He is a good student.  He went to his teacher to ask how to resolve the problem and his teacher told him exactly what to do.  He apparently did not feel comfortable taking the initiative.

The narrative next explains the way in which the Ark and the Israelites moved.  When they were settled, God's cloud would linger over the Mishkan (Tabernacle).  When God wanted the people to move, the cloud would lift and they would assemble and leave.  When they reached their destination, the cloud would descend and the people would know to stop.  It is here that Moshe takes some initiative.  As the ark would journey he would say: "Arise, God, and let Your foes be scattered, let those who hate You flee."  God doesn't tell him to say this; Moshe does it on his own.  It is as if he knows that the Israelites need a bit more than just a cloud to motivate them.  The student becomes a teacher. So intense is this moment, so central to our tradition, that it is featured, and re-enacted, each time we take the Torah out of the Ark during prayer services.

Moshe's relationship with his Teacher changes dramatically when the people complain about the fact that they have no meat. (Really, kvetching is such a better word to use here, but I'm trying to take the literary high-road.)   "We have nothing to anticipate but Manna!" they protest.  Moshe feels comfortable going to his teacher to ask for help.  "I cannot carry this entire people alone!" He cries.  God hears the plea and realizes that he has given his pupil too much homework. As a result, God tells Moshe to select 70 elders whom God will imbue with the ability to help Moshe.  So Moshe actively seeks God's help and receives it.

The next moment of growth comes in the incident with Eldad and Medad.  You will recall the two were prophesying in the camp in a way that was apparently not previously seen or permitted.  Joshua tells Moshe that he must incarcerate them.  Moshe replies, without consulting God, that what Eldad and Medad were doing was fine and that he wished there were others like them.  The student is now thinking on his own and,  in fact, suggesting a change that he would like God to consider.
           
The final change in Moshe is, to me, the most striking.  At the end of the Parasha, Miriam and Aaron speak with disdain about Moshe.  God becomes so infuriated that he strikes Miriam with Leprosy.  Moshe, seeing his sister sick and in pain, becomes so horrified by God's ruthless punishment that he knows what he must do.  He yells out a short prayer to God that is so "to-the-point", so terse, that it is more of a command than a petition.  "Please God Heal her!" is all Moshe says.  But God hears it loud and clear. In fact God hears it so clearly that he limits the sentence to a mere week.  Has the teacher now become the pupil?  Did God hear the need for compassion that was in Moshe's voice?  Did Moshe's words force God to look at Miriam's service to God and the Israelite nation and make Him recognize that her transgression was nothing compared to the positive things she ha done? 

The Torah does not tell us why God decides to listen.  All we know is that by the time this event occurred, Moshe had grown immeasurably and knew on his own what was right. We also know that God does not rebuke Moshe for his prayer.  God appears only too willing to accept Moshe's position. What we learn is that the prophet who we refer to as "Moshe Our Teacher" was an exemplary student who had, in God, an incredible teacher.

As we travel through our lives it is important to be like Moshe. We need to keep moving, we need to keep learning.  But we also need to recognize, listen to, and question our teachers.  We need to go and grow and, in the end, with God's help, we will know.
 
 
Shabbat Shalom - Rabbi Michael S. Jay
            

 
THE FOLLOWING CLASS WITH THE RABBI 
BEGINS THIS MONTH

Fridays from July 23 - August 25
10:00 - 12 Noon
Class & Discussion
"A Survey of Jewish Ethics
Each class stands on its own.  No registration needed.

Look for Monday Lunch & Learn Sessions 
beginning July 10



Drop in Havdallah begins Saturday evening, June 17 at 9:00 PM








Davin on the Beach with Rabbi Jay on Sunday mornings beginning June 18


Rabbi Jay will be at the JCC on Tuesdays and will have office hours from 1:00 - 3:00 PM.  Drop in to chat (call the office to make sure he is in and not out on an emergency 609-492-4090) or make an appointment with him (973-865-9534).

This is also a good time to telephone the rabbi.
KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

THE WEEK THAT WAS....

SHABBAT ON THE BEACH in Loveladies: 
A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words:

A rainbow came out to greet us.


Around 100 worshippers joined in the Kabbalat Shabbat service on the Beach.  The next Shabbat on the Beach is on July 14 in Spray Beach followed by one on August 18th in Loveladies.


Photos by Jani Jonas


WELCOME BACK BRUNCH

There was a full house at the Welcome Back Brunch Sunday morning.  Thank you to the Sisterhood for putting out a beautiful and creative array of food for the occasion. Thank you for helping to: Paula Hait, Enid Dairman, Bobbie Kaplan, Joan Silver, Rene Ward and of course our Sisterhood Co-Presidents: Jody Brusilow, Lexa Merson and Carole Nunberg.

 

 
FILM FESTIVAL TICKETS

Phyllis & Ted Cohen have 2 tickets to the Lighthouse Film Festival this weekend that they are not using.  Contact Phyllis at [email protected] if you are interested in using them.

JUNE ACTIVITIES AT THE JCC

Mah jongg
MAH JONGG E
VERY WEDNESDAY FROM 12:30 PM - 4:00 PM



SUMMER BOOK CLUB

Monday, June 19
10:30 PM
Book: Marriage of Opposites by Alice Hoffman.

Future Dates (Mondays)
July 17
August 14
September 11





ZUMBA BEGINS JUNE 22

Monday/Thursday/Friday
9:00 PM

GALA EVENT
June 25
5:30 PM
"Five 'N Thrivin" Gala Event 
in the JCC Social Hall  
Honored Founders: 
Selma & Herb Shapiro 
and Builders: 
Edd Dreyfus, Sherry Fruchterman & Jeffrey Shapiro

WE HAVE REACHED OUR LIMIT FOR RESERVATIONS.  
YOU CAN ADD YOUR NAME TO THE WAITING LIST.

SEE THE JUNE 7TH ISSUE OF THE SANDPAPER
FOR THE WONDERFUL STORY ABOUT OUR GALA
PAGES 25 AND 30

FEDERATION EVENTS 
 
Blue Claws Please Join Jewish Federation of Ocean County for Father's and Jewish Heritage Day  - Sunday, June 18, 2017, 1:05 pm at the Blue Claws Game.  Special discounted price of $10 for tickets.


Let's make this a VERY SPECIAL Father's
 and Jewish Heritage Day!!!

Kosher food will be available, as well as games 
and special treats.

Please call Beth for information and tickets 732-363-0530

DETAILS, CLICK ON THIS:

TEXT BLAST SIGN UP

If you would like to receive JCC of LBI reminders and alerts via text message on your cell phone, please contact the office by email ([email protected]) or phone (609-492-4090) We would be alerting you for example that "Services are cancelled" or "Last opportunity to sign up for Community Seder".

 This information will not be shared and will only be used for JCC purposes. 

TD AFFINITY PROGRAM

Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

We just received a check for $456.00 from TD Bank. So think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.
ADS FOR JCC BULLETIN

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
 
NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  BADGES

 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
OFFICE HOURS:     
 
MONDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
TUESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
WEDNESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
THURSDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
FRIDAY - 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM

Office Staff:
Jeri Riffle, Executive Director
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 Marcie Deutsch, Computer Admin.

Leslie, Marcie and Jeri

 
CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Rose Valentine, JCC President


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with this link

 

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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS
6/9 - 6/16
 
Sunday
7:00 PM
Showing of documentary: "Body & Soul: An American Bridge"

Wednesday
Mah jongg
12:30 - 4:00 PM


See JCC Calendar:

SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat

Candle Lighting Time
Friday
June 9, 2017
8:05 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)

JOIN US FOR SERVICES

 Friday,
June 9, 2017
8:00 PM

Rabbi's Talk:
The Six-Day War.
A Simple Name, 
But Nothing is Simple

Oneg Shabbat sponsored 
by Bonnie & Harold Farin
 in honor of the bat mitzvah 
of their granddaughter
Zoey Brown

Saturday, June 10, 2017


BAT MITZVAH OF 
ZOEY ANALINH BROWN
daughter of Erin and Ilaine Brown
sister of Marshall Brown
granddaughter of 
Bonnie & Harold Farin

Zoey Analinh Brown is finishing 6th grade at Dildine Elementary School in Cheyenne, WY.  An A student, she is  active in sports. Her team 
 
won the State Championship in Girls under-19 Ice Hockey. She is a mentor for 3rd and 4th grade girls 
in Girls on the Run, a nationwide organization to help raise young girls' self-esteem. It is her Mitzvah Project. She also ls singing, dancing and watching YouTube videos to learn crafts. She loves  wristwatches 
and has a collection.

Torah Study
8:30 AM
NOTE CHANGE OF TIME
Services
9:30 AM

Torah Portion
Beha'alotcha
( Numbers 8:1 - 12:16)
Here is the Parshah
Haftorah
Zachariah 2:14 - 4:7
Here is the Haftorah:
HAFTORAH

Kiddish sponsored  by 
Bonnie & Harold Farin
 in honor of the bat mitzvah 
of their granddaughter
Zoey Brown

Torah Readers:
The Farin Family

Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat   and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.


YAHRZEITS
FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be read at services on June 9, 2017

Grace Berman
Dr. Raul Fleischmajer
Hilde Hess Lewisohn
Sylvia Marcus
Gene Mendlow*
Ida Opatosky
Leonard Ostreicher
Meyer Ostreicher
Barbara Cohen
Martin Garb
Joseph Herman
Hilda Baron
Gertrude Polinsky
Mitchell Konner
Joan Podos
Sidney Tannenbaum
Bernard Gross
Michael Salonsky
Freda Schlanger*
Sophie Hellman
Fay Neustadt*
William Schlanger*
Sallie Wichman
 
 
   
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovingly enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.
CONGREGATION
NEWS

Get Well
CHARLIE MOSS
recovering from surgery

Mazel Tov
ROSE & RUDY VALENTINE
on the high school graduation 
of their grandchildren
Owen Valentine
headed to Syracuse University
Jenna Valentine
to study at at TCNJ
Griffin Valentine
going to Johnson & Wales in the Fall


JOAN SILVER
on the high school graduation
of her grandson
Isaac Silver
who will be attending the 
Boston Conservatory of 
Music at Berklee

JUDY & MARK SHAPIRO
on the marriage of their 
daughter Hayley
Hayley is the granddaughter of 
Selma & Herb Shapiro


JERI & HAL KIMOWITZ
on the birth of granddaughters
Emmy Rae Kimowitz
Fara Ruby Kimowitz

Baby Blocks


SHARE YOUR NEWS
 
CONTACT: 
CARING COMMITTEE
   
Caring
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.  
Please contact Chairperson, Joy Kern, if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 
609- 978-3669 
 
   
KIDDISHES 
on Saturday morning

Contact Lynn Berkowitz 
or Rose Valentine
for information about 
sponsoring a Kiddish
609-709-3160
973-632-0913

SEE NEW DONATION & MENU

Sponsorship includes:
*Printed acknowledgement on the food table, in
the Shabbat Reminder email and in the Shabbat program
*Verbal, public acknowledgement from the bimah during services.  

SISTERHOOD STUFF




SISTERHOOD KICK-OFF
MEETING
Wednesday, June 14th
10:00 AM
Snacks will be served
Mah jongg 
Stay & play Mah jongg after the meeting

Sponsor an 
Oneg Shabbat 
and Share the Joy of Shabbat!
Dates Available

June 16, 23, 30, 2017
July 7, 21, 2017
August 4, 2017
September 1, 2017

SEE THIS FORM TO RESERVE A DATE:





SHOEBOX RECYCLING
PROGRAM
 
FOR DETAILS, PLEASE CLICK:


ACME & SHOPRITE SCRIP
 
We have scrip available from ACME as well as ShopRite. You can help the JCC of LBI earn free money by using these $25 gift  cards when you shop at these stores.  Scrip is now available at the JCC office and in Barnegat with Jeri Riffle (609-290-9135).
 
GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
MORRIS L. SHAPIRO ENDOWMENT FUND
All organizations should have a substantial endowment fund to ensure its continuation. Except for dire emergencies, the principal amounts in the fund cannot be used to run the organization. Interest earned from the account may be used.  As previously announced, Herb and Selma Shapiro have created a JCC  Endowment Fund to honor Herb's father. It will be known as  "The Morris L. Shapiro Endowment Fund at the JCC of LBI " The Shapiros have generously pledged a total of $50,000 to fund this. While initially established by the Shapiros, anyone may contribute to this important fund. 

Join Herb and Selma in helping assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this Fund. 

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.

AUDIO/VISUAL PROJECT
  We are very excited about the decision of the Board of Directors to pursue the enhancement of the audio system for the JCC of LBI as well as the purchase of a projection system.  This multi-phased project will allow us to become a venue for expanded programming and opens us up to many wonderful opportunities for future planning.  Your gift large or small is much appreciated. Please send your contribution to the JCC office: 2411 Long Beach Blvd., Spray Beach, NJ 08008 and note on the memo line A/V Project. 

  YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  Here is the order form: 

TREE OF LIFE (located in the Social Hall)
You can purchase a leaf in honor of an occasion or in memory of a loved one. 
Here is the Tree of Life Form:  TREE

PAVERS (in front of the Front Entrance) 
Only 4 x 8 and 12 x 12 size pavers are available 
Here is the Paver Form: 

DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

 

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MEMBERSHIP FORMS

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PAVERS:

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TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

JEWISH JOURNAL: 

JOURNAL

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD

 

AD JOURNAL FORM

AD JOURNAL

 

KIDDISH SPONSOR

KIDDISH FORM 

 

ONEG SPONSOR

ONEG 

 

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