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This week we feature a new class by Mrs. Shira Smiles on Parshat Shemot titled Chief Criterion from the Naaleh series Living the Parsha 5778.  The class discusses the Parsha in depth.  To learn more click here to view the Torah Notes or click on the image below to watch the class now.
 

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-Ashley Klapper and the Naaleh Crew
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Parshat Shemot: Names of Nobility
Based on a Naaleh.com shiur by Mrs. Shira Smiles
Summary by Channie Koplowitz Stein

 

The Ohr Gedalyahu explains that understanding the name of a person or a thing helps us focus on its purpose. The Gemara interprets the verse in Tehillim, "Asher sam shamot ba'aretz," to mean that if a person does not live up to his name and his potential, he will bring destruction to the land.

 

Names have two interconnected components writes the Dorash Dovid: the definition of the name; and the mental, psychological and emotional intention of the parents when they gave the child this name. Just as a child inherits physical attributes from his parents, so he inherits these other attributes from his parents. A person is influenced by the two meanings in developing the attributes of his name. One's name includes both a legacy and a mindset. Our Matriarchs articulated the reasons they gave their children their names. The names included the essence of each person.

 

When the Torah lists the names of these souls as they descended to Egypt, it teaches us that they invested themselves with the ability to retain their innate holy essence, even as they physically moved to the immoral society of Egypt, explains Rabbi Gifter. We all have this ability to actualize our holy potential, no matter where we are and no matter the challenges we face. When the Torah then records that Yosef was in Egypt, adds Rabbi Weinberger, it teaches us that Yosef retained the holy essence of his name the whole time he lived in Egypt.

 

The verse in Kohelet says, "A good name is better than oil, and the day of death than the day of birth." Oil alludes to wisdom. Unlike emotions which are volatile, wisdom is unchangeable and constant. This is true of a person's name too. Klal Yisroel retained their names because they let their chochma control their emotions. A person who can maintain clarity of purpose by using wisdom can maintain the integrity of his name.

 

The Shla"h Hakadosh introduced a custom for a person to recite a verse representative of his name at the end of the silent Amidah. He intended this custom to help keep a person focused on his mission in life. At death, you will be asked your name, you will be asked if you lived up to the essence your name signified. Yosef never changed his name and never forgot his mission, even though Paro gave him an Egyptian name. He made sure his head ruled his heart and his passions.

 

The Lev Shalom notes that Bnei Yisroel are compared to stars that Hashem brings out and returns individually by name. When Bnei Yisroel descended into exile, as related in Parshat Vayigash, the Torah recorded their names. One would think that the names would be recorded again at the actual exodus from Egypt rather than here, at the beginning of the enslavement. In fact, the suffering was so severe that the predicted 400 years of enslavement was shortened to 210 years. When our personal troubles seem overwhelming, perhaps Hashem is speeding up our redemption and salvation. In fact, the galut, the exile, is part of revelation, of hitgalut. Our names reveal to us our potential, and challenge us to work to fulfill that potential so we will be ready for redemption.

 

When Bnei Yisroel retained their names, they not only held on to their past, they also kept the vision of the future, writes the Ohr Gedaliah. They kept the revealed essence of their names and the hidden essence contained in their names, which connected them to Hashem. In this way they were able to focus on bringing their potential to fruition and speed the redemption. Through creating a manifestation of his name on earth, man has the potential of bringing the glory of Heaven to earth. By living up to his name, he can merit salvation.

Lashon hara does incalculable damage to the person one talks about. A parable attributed to the Chofetz Chaim describes this best. A person once spoke lashon hara about a certain Rabbi and then regretted it. He approached the Rabbi and asked, "What can I do to repair this?" The Rabbi said, "Climb up a hill. Cut open a pillow and disperse the feathers." The man went and did it and then came back to the rabbi and asked, "Now do you forgive me?" The Rabbi said, "Now, go and gather up the feathers."  The fellow looked at him nonplussed, "They are all gone." The Rabbi then said, "The same is true for lashon hara. Once you let it out it's gone. Words spoken can never be retracted."
 
There was once a Rabbi who served in a small community in England. The president of the shul disliked him and never treated him fairly. One day the president's daughter announced her intention to marry a non-Jew. Her father was devastated and asked the Rabbi to help him. The Rabbi tried to speak to her and failed. With a sneer the president said, "The one time I ask you to help me, you can't even do that?"  The Rabbi, a disciple of the Chofetz Chaim, responded with a parable.
 
In a certain province, a terrible epidemic broke out. The doctors had no remedy and many children died. Then one day a doctor appeared who claimed he had a cure. He started administering a potion, which to everyone's amazement cured the children. The doctor went from town to town and wherever he went long lines appeared to get his potion. One day, highway robbers attacked him and stole everything he had. The man ran away leaving behind his potions and the equipment to make them, which the thieves threw into the ocean. The doctor arrived in the next town and a long line of patients awaited him. The doctor called in the first patient and told him what happened and that it would take a few weeks till he could manufacture a new supply of medicine. The man paled.  He was the one who had sent the highway men. He had unwittingly caused the potion to be thrown into the ocean when it could have saved his child's life.
 
The Chofetz Chaim concludes, when you speak badly about a Rabbi, you rob his power to help you. Everyone will disregard his words. This is what the Rabbi meant to tell the president. "You took away my respect and credibility and now you want your daughter to listen to me?"
 
It's a clever idea to put a small reminder next to your phone or computer not to speak or write lashon hara. Some put a picture of the Chofetz Chaim. A factor that makes lashon hara so unfair is that when you speak badly about someone, this becomes the initial association you have with the person. When you damage someone's reputation you deny the person the ability to portray their good qualities. This is why the Torah considers lashon hara such a serious offense.
 

In
Siman daled, the Kitzur writes that one who holds back from going to the bathroom, violates the prohibition in
Vayikra, "
Al tishaktzu et nafshoteichem." On a literal level, this refers to the prohibition of eating various insects, bugs, and rodents.  However, the Talmud explains that it also includes the prohibition of engaging in disgusting behavior. This includes holding back from relieving oneself when one has to. The Mishna Berura writes that if one just has a small urge and can hold it in, it would be permitted. The Talmud mentions that drinking from a dirty cup or from a vessel that was used for bloodletting is also a violation of this prohibition. The Rambam writes that it also includes eating food that people find disgusting, such as spoiled food, even if it personally doesn't bother you. Although these prohibitions are associated with the Torah verse of
Al tishaktzu, the Rambam categorizes them as a rabbinic prohibition. He understands the verse as an
asmachta, an association, reflecting the will of Hashem that one not act in a repulsive manner.
 
If it was a Torah prohibition, we would have to err on the side of caution. However, since the Rambam categorizes it as a Rabbinic prohibition, if a person is not sure if one has to relieve himself, he can be lenient. Additionally, when human dignity is in question, one can be lenient. Therefore, the Mishna Berura writes that if a person is in a place where there is no bathroom, he could wait until he finds one.
 
In Seif daled, the Kitzur writes that one may not contemplate matters of Torah in the bathroom, or in any other area which is not clean. Instead, one can read a newspaper or think about one's business or accounts. Judaism believes that Torah is not merely an academic subject, but is the word of Hashem, either directly in the written Torah, or indirectly in the case of the Oral Law. As such, we must respect the Torah and not contemplate it in an unclean environment.
 
In Seif vav, the Kitzur notes that every time a person goes to the bathroom he is required to wash his hands and recite the blessing of asher yatzar. Although there are some who are particular to wash six times, washing once without a vessel is also acceptable. May one wash in the bathroom? Some opinions hold that since the bathroom is considered a place that is filled with ruach ra (evil spirits), it is considered spiritually and ritually contaminated. Therefore, even if the bathroom is clean, one should wash outside the bathroom. Other opinions maintain that the modern bathrooms we have today are much cleaner than the bathrooms of old and one is allowed to wash there. Preferably one should wash outside.  But if there is no water anywhere else, one could wash in the bathroom relying on the lenient opinions.
 
Asher yatzar is a very significant and beautiful bracha.  There are very few blessings that the Shulchan Aruch takes the time to explain line by line as it does with asher yatzar. Human nature is to pay very little attention to things that are constant and ongoing. The point of this bracha is to recognize our blessings and not to take them for granted. We are obligated to thank Hashem even while we are healthy for our wondrous functioning body and the blessing of good health.
 
In the morning blessings we say, "Hagomel chasadim tovim, who bestows good kindness upon the Jewish people." What does good kindness imply? Is there bad kindness? If a person lost his job and then after a few months got another job, or if a person was unwell and then got better, one would call that chasadim (kindness). But chasadim tovim (good kindness) is when a person doesn't lose his job or continues to be healthy. We need to sensitize ourselves to appreciate what we have, while we still have it. The blessing that most reflects this is asher yatzar.

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