Beach Living
By: Kasmine Reed
One learns first of all in beach living the art of shedding; how little one can get along with not how much. Physical shedding to begin with then mysteriously spreads into other fields, clothes first. Of course one needs less in the sun. But one needs less anyway one finds suddenly, one doesn't need a closet full only a small suitcase full. And what a relief it is, less taking up and down of hems and less mending and best of all less worry about what to wear. One finds one is shedding not only clothes but vanity.
Next shelter - one does not need the airtight shelter one has in winter in the north. Here I live in a bare seashell of a cottage. No heat, no telephone, no plumbing to speak of, no hot water, a two - burner oil stove, no gadgets to go wrong.
No rugs there were some but I rolled them up. It is easier to sweep the sand off a bare floor. But I find I don't bustle about with unnecessary sweeping and cleaning here. I am no longer aware of the dust.
I have shed my puritan conscience about absolute tidiness and cleanliness. Is it possible that too is a material burden?
No curtains. I don't need them for privacy: the pines around my house are enough protection. I want the windows open all of the time and I don't want to worry about rain.
I begin to shed my Martha-like anxiety about many things. Washable slipcovers, faded and old, I hardly see them. I don't worry about the impression they make on other people.
I am shedding pride. As little furniture as possible, I shall not need much.
I shall ask into my shell only those friends with whom I can be completely honest. I find I am shedding hypocrisy in human relationships. What a rest that will be!
The most exhausting thing in life I have discovered is being insincere. And so much of social life is also exhausting. One is wearing a mask, I have shed my mask!
I love my seashell of a house. I wish I could transport it home but I cannot. It will not hold a husband, five children and the necessities and trappings of daily life. I can only carry back my little channeled whelk. It will sit on my desk in Connecticut to remind me of the ideal of a simplified life.