PARENT BULLETIN
March 2, 2017
DAN'S BLOG 

Let me start out this week by sharing three notes regarding prayers. First, librarian Cherie McIntosh wants to thank you for your prayers, your children's get well cards, and the meals families have shared with her family, as she is recovering from major surgery. She plans on returning back to St. Louise on the 20th. Secondly, music teacher Terry LaRussa Banton's husband, Kent, is in the hospital undergoing surgery this week, and Mrs. LB would appreciate your prayers. Finally, p.e. teacher Chris Evans' wife, Katie, is in the hospital ready to deliver their first baby any hour now, and being she is 6 weeks early, your prayers are important.

Secondly, I have exciting news to share in announcing the hiring of our first ever "Auction Director!" As I mentioned last month, St. Louise is moving away from relying on volunteer co-chairs or tri-chairs to run our annual fund raising Auction and compensating them with tuition reductions. Instead, we are moving to hiring a part time employee who will direct the Auction and coordinate the volunteer committee heads and committee workers. The person we've hired as our Auction Director is Sue Richards. Sue is famous for 3 times (that's THREE) chairing our St. Louise Auction and for being a co-creator of our Charger Card program. She also has been a past chair of the Eastside Catholic School Auction, and is currently a director of Sacred Heart School's fund raisers, including overseeing their auction which just successfully completed two weeks ago. Sue and her husband Toby have both been in leadership roles at St. Louise, Sue as a past member of the Pastoral Council, and Toby as a past member of the School Commission. Their youngest of their boys, Jack, is in our 8th grade class. To say Sue is knowledgeable of, skilled in, and in love with Catholic education is an understatement! We welcome Sue to our St. Louise staff! She will soon be calling upon you in our parent community to join her in helping plan for our 2017 Auction. Just because we are paying for an Auction Director, doesn't mean we won't need dozens of Auction committee heads, scores of Auction volunteers, and hundreds of Auction procurers! Get ready to join the Sue-Crew!
 

Now, on to my rambling thoughts for the week...
 

I grew up loving competition. Being the youngest of five, I would try my best to beat my older brothers in pickup football games or shooting "h-o-r-s-e" on our back-patio basketball court. I didn't get a trophy when I won, or even applause. (In fact, when I would defeat one of my brothers I would typically get beaten up afterward.) It was the intrinsic satisfaction of working hard and winning that made me feel rewarded.

I get concerned today when there are coaches or leaders of sports or extra-curricular programs who feel they have to hand out trophies or some types of awards to all the kids in the group, lest the children feel like "losers." Instead, I agree more with the philosophy of Christian theologian and writer, Dr. Michael Brown, who says:
 

" There are elementary schools and middle schools across America that do not keep score in the children's sports events, since everyone has to win (or, conversely, because no one can lose). How does this prepare them for the realities of life, where, every day, some people win and some people lose, where every day, there is disappointment and pain, where every day, some things go our way and some don't, where every day, life is not always fair?"

Now, I'm not saying we shouldn't be concerned with raising kids' self-esteem, and for some kids and/or some age levels, giving tangible awards simply for effort or participation could be a good way to accomplish this. It just has to be done in moderation. Otherwise, children will end up learning the wrong lessons - that one should be tangibly rewarded simply for doing what one is supposed to do. Instead, the best lessons to teach kids in my opinion are:
  • true rewards are typically reserved for true accomplishment;
  • intrinsic motivation is usually better than extrinsic;
  • sometimes you win and sometimes you lose - and you need to learn how to be a good winner and a good loser.
Awards, such as trophies, can indeed be powerful motivators, but constant, tangible prizes and/or superfluous acknowledgement does not motivate kids to succeed. Instead, it can cause them to underachieve. Ashley Merryman, author of The Science of Winning and Losing, wrote:

" If I were a baseball coach, I would announce at the first meeting that there would be only three awards: Best Overall, Most Improved and Best Sportsmanship. Then I'd hand the kids a list of things they'd have to do to earn one of those trophies. They would know from the get-go that excellence, improvement, character and persistence were valued."
 
But let me move from more sports analogies to an example that relates directly to what I am the overseer of - our school's academic rewards. We have an Honor Roll list in our junior high program. Grade 7 and 8 students who earn a 90% or higher grade in every subject at the end of a trimester are placed on our Honor Roll. For any given trimester, we could have 20-30% of our seventh and eighth graders being recognized with an Honor Roll ribbon and public mention in the Parent Bulletin, as well as listed on our Facebook page. Although I know this won't be true for all the students' perceptions, I believe that this "limited and specific criteria" for earning the Honor Roll reward motivates many students to work hard on their grades to get on the Honor Roll, and genuinely fulfills the students who worked hard to earn placement. What do you think would happen to the students' motivations and feelings of accomplishment if everyone in the junior high got a ribbon each trimester simply for "participating" in school? Would the 90%-grade students feel a real sense of accomplishment when handed the ribbon? Would the 80%-grade students feel motivated to try harder next trimester? Would the 70%-grade students feel they can keep earning this level of grades and all is good?
 
Again, there can be arguments made for both sides - to reward for simply participating or to hold off and give tangible rewards (e.g. trophies) only to those who truly reached a set and high-level criteria. It's a good thing for coaches to think about and for teachers to think about, based much upon the ages of the children and the coaches'/teachers' knowledge of what makes those kids tick.

As for parents, I suggest you discuss together and come up with your family's "belief system" on what you naturally insist on from your kids without them expecting any tangible award in return, and what is worth putting out as a material prize for accomplishments. With 2nd trimester grades coming home on March 24th, that would be one time to talk. Plan with your child what June's report card might look like, and what steps he/she will need to make to accomplish this goal. Perhaps you'll be a family who will be rewarding good marks, good teachers' comments, and/or improved marks with cash, with a trip to the store to buy a longed-for item, or with a family movie/dinner night...kid's choice, of course! 
 
Sincerely,

Mr. FITZ

p.s.
 
Please remember we have two days off next week! School is not in session and Kids' Club is closed on March 9 and 10. Next Thursday is the end of the 2nd trimester, and teachers are given this time to begin working on inputting report card grades and composing report card comments. Teachers need more than just one day to accomplish this work, but we give them this one workday without students so they don't have to spend their entire weekend on the computer tallying marks. :-)  Next Friday is a day that most Catholic schools in the Seattle Archdiocese are taking off for professional development purposes. At St. Louise, we're taking advantage of the day to have teachers take a theology class. Teachers must stay current in "catechetical certification," and there are certain courses required by the Archdiocese throughout teachers' careers. The two courses we're offering here next Friday from which our teachers will choose to take are Morality and Catholic Social Teaching. St. Louise School is one of the leading schools in the Archdiocese with teachers and administrators having completed numerous courses in catechesis.

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THIS WEEK
Tonight
  • Parents' Club Meeting in the office conference room, 6:30PM
  • School Commission Meeting in the faculty room, 6:30PM
Tomorrow
  • Flavorful Friday Treats on sale - proceeds benefit 5th graders' overnight fieldtrip this May to Pioneer Farm 

COMING UP NEXT WEEK
 
Monday, March 6
  • Kindergarten Readiness Assessments for next year's kindergarten class
Tuesday, March 7
  • Vision and Hearing Screenings for all students in grades K, 1, 2, 3, 5, 7 (as required by the state); school nurse Jane Reynolds will contact any parents whose children's screenings were a concern
Thursday & Friday, March 9 & 10
  • NO SCHOOL
  • Kids' Club closed
  • Thursday is the end of the 2nd trimester and teachers begin preparing report cards
  • Friday is a teacher inservice day with St. Louise teachers taking a theology class

SAVE THE DATE
 
Thursday, March 16
  • Grade 5 & 6 Concert and Band Concert, 6:30 PM, Parish Hall
  • Band students are to report to the hall at 6:00; 5th and 6th graders are to be in their homerooms at 6:00; doors open to the hall for family seating at 6:00
Friday, March 17
  • St. Patrick's Day "Wearin' of the Green" Free Dress Day 
Saturday, March 25
  • Spring Spruce-Up, 8AM-12PM; earn volunteer hours while helping to weed, rake, prune, and spruce up the school grounds

Thank You for Your Soup Lunch Donations
          Thanks to parents' and students' donations at yesterday's Ash Wednesday Soup Lunch, after expenses for soup and rolls, over $1,000 will be sent to Catholic Relief Services to help the hungry in our community and internationally.
          We want to thank these parents for helping in the kitchen yesterday: coordinator Evelyn Oen and assistants Joe Sollars, Colleen Nowak, Sarah Pierce, Cesar & Araceli Santiago, Kristy Rorie, Stasia KehoeTiziana Pibiri-Bergamaschi, Didi Burrington, Jennifer Lester, Amy Manne, Matt Bomberger.

Admissions Is Ongoing
          Although the "early application period" for the 2017-18 school year admissions has ended, we are still accepting new students for next year in grades K-8. (Our Pre-K class has a waiting list already.)
          Since YOU are St. Louise's BEST ambassadors you can help make a difference in our school's enrollment by telling prospective school parents about our school! Even though there are no more Open Houses, please continue to spread the word to your friends, co-workers, neighbors, and family members who will have 4-14 year-olds next fall to  "Check out St. Louise !" They can meet with Mr. Fuerte or me to have their questions answered about our curriculum, about our emphasis on a "well-rounded "(i.e. faith-based) education, and about our extra-curricular offerings. They will also be offered a tour of the school.
          We know that, as current school parents, you like to spread the good news about St. Louise School simply because you love our school and want these people you care about to consider such a strong Catholic school for their children too. But even though we know you spread the word about us without any expectation of a "reward" or "incentive," we'd like to give you one.
          One of the forms a newly enrolled family will complete will ask them, "Is there a current school family who referred you to St. Louise School ?" If they list your name as their referral that got them to consider St. Louise, and if they are indeed enrolled when we start school next fall, WE WILL REWARD YOU BY GIVING YOU ONE MONTH'S FREE TUITION* NEXT YEAR! This reward is our way of saying, "Thank you for helping us recruit new families to help us grow our enrollment !" (*The 1-child rate for 2017-18 tuition will be removed from one of your monthly payments next year.)
          If you have any questions about our new "reward program for admissions," or if you have questions regarding the February 2nd Open House, please email Cindy Wagner  or Laura Leach  in the development office.

 
St. Louise Students "Expected" to Be Life-Long Learners
          Student Learning Expectations - SLEs - are expectations that our students should know, understand, value, and be able to do by the time they graduate from St. Louise School. Each month, one or two different SLEs are focused on school-wide. Mr. Fitzpatrick announces to all the students the "SLE(s) of the Month" on a Monday intercom announcement at the beginning of each month. The students and their teachers then discuss the meaning of the SLE and come up with examples of how this expectation could be practiced, observed, and realized. They then work all month on improving their knowledge and understanding of this learning expectation, and some grade levels are even able to achieve it later that month or later in the year. Other grade levels will need more years of practice before they can confidently confirm they can satisfy this objective. At the end of the month, each class informs Mr. Fitz what their class did that demonstrated the SLE(s) was accomplished, or is being initially worked on and hopefully will be achieved in the future.
          We focused in February on a Student Learning Expectation around the importance of students being LIFE-LONG LEARNERS: "A St. Louise student demonstrates a solid academic foundation while using problem solving techniques, technology, critical thinking and study skills." (SLE #2.1) A few of these classrooms' reports to Mr. Fitz are highlighted below...

         
One of the SLE reports written in kindergarten class
Kindergarteners wrote sentences and drew accompanying pictures that showed that they indeed are working at accomplishing this learning expectation. For example, one student wrote, "I love science because it is so cool and because I like the explosion." Another wrote, "I am using technology by using a computer. I like looking up history."
          During the 5th graders' winter project - History Maker Scrapbook - they have been demonstrating their solid academic foundation by reading to research people of American history, using critical thinking to choose the most important information to include, using technology to type the components of the scrapbook and formatting the timeline, and using strong study skills to follow the project calendar to keep to all the deadlines. This spring Mrs. Talevich's and Mrs. Cervante's students will present their History Maker projects to their parents and to other grade level students, while dressed as their famous Americans. 
           Similar to these 5th grade projects involving people of American history, projects involving people of Christian faith were created in 4th grade. Using technology, the students typed up Person of Faith reports, adding photos and cutting and pasting these faithful Christians' quotes into their reports.  Mrs. Danforth's and Mrs. Scruggs' students also used critical thinking to determine which of their collected information was vital enough to be added to their report to tell about the faith and Christian actions of their chosen person, and which information, though interesting, was superfluous and not needed for a concise report.
          In the 6th grade, students show evidence of achieving SLE #2.1 in regards to how well they use study skills in Mrs. Patterson's language arts/literature class. They use post-it notes to mark in the novel when they find text evidence to answer a question or to refer to a vocabulary word. They work in groups to take notes over each chapter in their novel to help prepare for reading quizzes.  They have created character posters to present to the class to give further information about the main characters in the novel.  Sixth graders design a plot diagram using these novel notes to chart the introduction, rising action, climax, and falling action of the novel.  They will then use all of these creates, and a study guide, to help them prepare for a two-day final examination over the novel. 
          The expectation that a St. Louise student will be a life-long learner who demonstrates a solid academic foundation doesn't end in February, but our spotlight on this particular SLE will end for now. Instead, moving on to a new month means all the classes will move on to focusing on a new SLE. or in the case of the month of March, focusing on TWO learning expectations. Through March 31, school-wide we will highlight these two Student Learning Expectations:
  • SLE #3.1 - "A St. Louise student is a well-balanced individual who practices positive social skills by taking responsibility for one's own actions and showing respect.
  • SLE #3.2 - "A St. Louise student is a well-balanced individual who develops mind, body, and spirit by experiencing the arts and participating in physical activity

 

Father/Daughter Dance Was a Success
          We are grateful to the organization of Teresa Brosche and Rebecca Ort for another fantastic Father/Daughter Dance last week! Assisting were great volunteers: Shiloh Gillespie, Natalie Scarella, Gail Cunneely, Elaine Nartates, Janey Rabon, Esther Stapleton, Chris Read.
 

Thanks for the Yummy Lunch
          Thanks to Esther Magnotti and Julianne Read for pulling off yet another great 2016 Auction-related event - the Kidd Valley Lunch! Tuesday's delicious event was enjoyed by 150 kids and served with the help of Amy Wilken, Ann Marie Sweeney and Jen Yarnell.
It's Time for March Madness
          During March, if you use your credit or debit card for purchases, there is no 'fee' for transactions in excess of $100. How many of your purchases can you make this month using Charger Cards? Buy your gas, groceries, and all other spending through Charger Cards first and pay with your credit card. Thus, you'll get your frequent flier points AND support St. Louise at the same time!
          For orders online, you may pay online using the PrestoPay option (paying through your bank account) or you may order online and bring or send your payment to school.
          For the month of March, if you want to take advantage of March Madness, stop by the Charger Card office to pay in person by credit card or complete the credit card authorization form and send it in with your printed order. This method lets you order and pay with a credit card even if it's not convenient to visit during Charger Card office hours.
  • Go to the credit card authorization form.
  • Please note - The credit authorization form is NOT needed if you will be using your credit card in-person at the Charger Card office!
     
Think Spring & Plan Ahead
          Do you have any travel plans for spring break next month? If so, buy Charger Cards for your plans now, pay with your credit card (no fee this month of March!), earn your frequent flier points, AND support St. Louise at the same time! Use March Madness to benefit your family!
          Charger Cards carries many cards useful for travel! Where will you be during Spring break?
* Hotels - Best Western, Hyatt, Clarion Hotels, Comfort Inn, Econo Lodge, Quality Inn, Fairmont, Sleep Inn
* Rental Cars - Avis, Budget
* Air - Delta, Southwest
* Travel - Disney, Princess Cruise, Celebrity Cruise, Carnival Cruise, Royal Caribbean
* Gas & Auto - Chevron, Shell, 76, Texaco, Arco, BP, Safeway, Exxon, Circle K, Jiffy Lube, Sinclair, Sears Auto


Contact Us 
          NEXT WEEK ONLY (due to no school on Friday the 10th), the Charger Card office is open on Wednesday, March 8, from 8:15-8:45. Normally, the Charger Card office is open every school Friday for over-the-counter purchases. Orders made online or drop off forms received at the main office by 9:00AM today will be delivered this Wednesday the 8th in the afternoon.
          You may also purchase Cards online 24/7 at www.shopwithscrip.com.  For more information on Charger Cards, please email co-chairs Kathy & Darlene or visit the school website.

News from CYO Sports
          All St. Louise CYO coaches - and spouses - are invited to a Coaches' Appreciation Banquet. It's in our parish hall on Saturday, March 25, from 6:30 to 8:00. The event will be catered by J & J BBQ,  and our keynote speaker will be Donny Harrel, baseball coach for Seattle University.
           Parents of CYO athletes are to be on the lookout  for a form coming home in today's Family Envelope. It's asking your student-athlete to nominate his/her favorite St. Louise CYO Coach for an award to be handed out at the Coaches' Appreciation Banquet. Please return your child's completed form to the school office by Monday. Thank you.


The kindergarten classes recently held their annual "Donuts with Dad" event, and Laelah and Delaney were happy to have their dads spend the morning in their classroom.
 
 
 
 
If you have a photo of your kids in a school or community event and/or at a CYO game, send it to Dan Fitzpatrick for possible publishing in an upcoming Parent Bulletin and/or to Catherine Saffel for possible inclusion in the end-of-year School Yearbook.