Scripture
Luke 18:9-14 (New International Version)
 
The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector
 
9  To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: 10 "Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: 'God, I thank you that I am not like other people-robbers, evildoers, adulterers-or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.'
 
13  "But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, 'God, have mercy on me, a sinner.'
 
14  "I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted."

Meditation
"Justified by God" - Melanie Pipkin
 
I feel sorry for the Pharisee! Jesus is always "making an example" of him and not in a flattering kind of way. After all, the Pharisee did live a good life and consistently did what God expected of him - fast, tithe, pray. Most church leaders would love to have a congregation of people as devoted as the Pharisee. Imagine what could be accomplished if everyone gave a tithe to the church. But Jesus goes straight to the heart of the matter - literally. The obvious contrast between the Pharisee and the tax collector was lifestyle, but the parable highlights what is more important when pleasing God.
 
It is exciting to be part of a successful ministry - launching a new church, building a youth ministry, expanding outreach, growing children's programs, leading a thriving small group, participating in committee leadership, etc. These are good things to do and they can feel great to those involved. The problem begins when we think these successes depend on us instead of God. Like the Pharisee, I have suffered from this type of spiritual arrogance. I start to perform my "church duties" as if it is about me. I want someone to notice my contributions, my successes, my hard work and sacrifices. And yes, I may even go so far as to criticize those who I perceive to not be doing their fair share. (UGH! That didn't feel so good to confess.)
 
Is this arrogance? Some may say "false humility." It is definitely an unhealthy trait that gets in the way of being fully obedient to God's plan. We start to rely on our own talents (which by the way are God-given as well) and think that the work can't or wouldn't be done without us. However it is labeled, this attitude impacts our relationship with God and with others. Jesus reminds us that prayer and humility are inextricably linked. "For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." When we become aware of our own need for God's mercy and are willing to receive it, then we will be "justified by God."  
Reflection
Mother Teresa called humility the mother of all virtues. While she was head of the Missionaries of Charity, Mother Teresa kept a list of ways to cultivate humility for the sisters in her care.
  1. Speak as little as possible about yourself.
  2. Keep busy with your own affairs and not those of others.
  3. Avoid curiosity (wanting to know things that should not concern you).
  4. Do not interfere in the affairs of others.
  5. Accept small irritations with good humor.
  6. Do not dwell on the faults of others.
  7. Accept censures even if unmerited.
  8. Give in to the will of others.
  9. Accept insults and injuries.
  10. Accept contempt, being forgotten and disregarded.
  11. Be courteous and delicate even when provoked by someone.
  12. Do not seek to be admired and loved.
  13. Do not protect yourself behind your own dignity.
  14. Give in, in discussions, even when you are right.
  15. Choose always the more difficult task.
Prayer
Lord, forgive me for the times I have not had a humble heart and claimed your good works as my own. Teach me not to judge or seek recognition, but instead allow your love to shine through me. Help me to be more humble that I may receive the gift of your mercy and live in companionship with you always. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
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