I’ve wanted to write what follows for quite a few years. I have not done so because this individual does not like being in the spotlight, though she finds herself in it all the time. She admits that she “does not toot her own horn very well at all.” She is the glue that binds our team, and her dedication and hard work keep the doors of Frederick Place open. I am, of course, speaking of Tammy Modic. I must admit, my original plan was to be sneaky and not ask for her approval as she leaves for a well-deserved vacation in a few days. What could she do about it from a beach? However, a wise woman suggested I write this, share it with Tammy, and when she sees the beauty of my creation she will have a hard time refusing it. I hope that is the case, so here’s a “toot toot” from me to you, FL (Fearless Leader).    

John Quincy Adams described a leader as someone whose actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, and become more. Since I began working with Tammy I’ve done things I never would have thought I could do.  Tammy saw something in me that told her I was capable of more, and that continues to inspire me to challenge myself.  I have learned to trust my decisions instead of second guessing them because of Tammy’s trust and her faith.  Today I know what dedication to a cause is, because Tammy’s almost palpable passion has awakened devotion like I’ve never known before.  

I had no idea what I was getting myself into when Tammy offered me a position.  I still have days where I wonder, “What HAVE I gotten myself into?” I have made several mistakes in the last six years, and, more often than I wish, Tammy has received a “narking myself out” email. Sure, I could keep some mistakes to myself, but why would I? I have a boss who always has my back, regardless of the nature of my mistake. Tammy sees errors as learning experiences. She does not lecture. She offers guidance and encouraging words such as, “Sometimes a situation calls for anger and _ _ _ _.”  One of the best tools Tammy given me is the importance of acting instead of reacting.  As a result, my telling on myself emails have decreased substantially. That little gem is one that has saved my butt personally and professionally more times than I can remember.