JCC the Place to Be The Jewish Community Center of LBI 

E-Letter




February 2, 2017
7 Shevat 5777
Contents
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
Upcoming JCC Activities
Men's Club News
Community Activities
TD Affinity Program
Giving Opportunities
Bulletin Ads
Text Blast Sign Up
This Week's Events
SYNAGOGUE ACCESS
Shabbat Information
Yahrzeits
Tefillin Club
Gabbai Class NEW
Congregation News
Onegs & Kiddishes
Sisterhood Stuff
Name Badges
Documents & Links
A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
It is no secret that our beautiful country is polarized.  People stand on opposite sides of the political canyon and yell at each other.  Each side of the canyon has good people and bad people.  The quintessential Jewish play, "Fiddler On the Roof", pokes fun at the chasm when the townsfolk stand on opposite sides of the stage and scream "Horse" - "Mule" at each other.   It would seem that polarity is a tradition.
 
On a stage, or in a film, divergent opinions, and the friction they cause, can be funny. In real life, however, they are often devastating, debilitating, destructive, and exhausting.  
 
No one can deny our desire and right to be a safe country and the need to protect those we love.  On the other hand, of at least equal import, is the fact that we are, and have always been, a nation of immigrants, with longstanding values of religious and personal freedom. How are we to react when we are concerned for ourselves and yet we have desire and an obligation to care for others.  Are the two positions mutually exclusive?
 
The Torah clearly permits us to protect ourselves.  Moses sends an army out to fight Amalek.  The Talmud even provides , at Sanhedrin 72a, that  "If someone comes to kill you, arise [preempt him] and kill him first".  However, at the same time, Jewish tradition requires us to care for the stranger.  In fact, the Torah warns against wronging the stranger no less than 36 times. (Talmud Bava Metsia 59b).  At the same time, the Torah reminds us that we need to take care of the stranger because we were strangers in Egypt.  At the same time, the Prophets told us that we need to  feed the hungry, clothe the naked, and free the oppressed.  We do this because at too many points in our history we have been "those" people.
 
Hillel understood the pull of self-preservation against the need to help others when he famously said: 
 
If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, what am I? If not now, when? (PIrkei Avot 1:14).
 
There have been many interpretations of Hillel's aphorism. But on its face, it recognizes the need to have balance.  And it exhorts us to find that balance immediately.
 
We are a wonderfully diverse community and I know that each of us believes in the core Jewish value of Tikkun Olam, repairing the world.  We may not agree on how the repair should be effected but, whatever side of the political canyon we find ourselves on, now is the time to step into our Jewish Values wardrobe and work to make the world a better place.  Do it with energy. Do it with purpose. Do it with respect. Do it with love.
 
Even if we recognize our need to protect ourselves, our Jewish values become distressed whenever governmental policy has the effect, whether intended or not, of placing the most vulnerable of people into uncertainty and danger.
 
On Friday evening I will speak about the, often insurmountable, obstacles encountered by Jewish refugees seeking to leave Europe to save their lives in the 30's and 40's.
 
The Torah tells us that every human is created in God's image.  Once we have taken steps to connect that piece of God within each of us, with the piece of the Holy One that exists in others, the world will, indeed, be a better place.
 
Shabbat Shalom - Rabbi Michael S. Jay
 


Rabbi Jay will be at the JCC on Tuesdays and will have office hours from 1:00 - 3:00 PM.  Drop in to chat (call the office to make sure he is in and not out on an emergency 609-492-4090) or make an appointment with him (973-865-9534).

This is also a good time to telephone the rabbi.
KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES


MOVIE SCHEDULE FOR THE WINTER
Saturday Nites
 
Movie 7:00 PM
Havdallah 6:45 PM
February 4 "Blazing Saddles"
February 18 "Yentl"
March 4 "Crossing Delancey Street"

Movie 8:15 PM
Havdallah 8:00 PM
March 18 "West Side Story"
 
Movie 8:30 PM
Havdallah 8:15 PM
April 1 "The Producers"
 
Movie 8:45 PM
Havdallah 8:30 PM
April 15 "Sound of Music"
 
Movie 9:00 PM
Havdallah 8:45 PM
April 29 "Young Frankenstein"

MEN'S CLUB NEWS


Men's Club Program
                                                                                            
Sunday, March 19, 2017 at 9:00 AM 

 This is an invitation to j oin the JCC Men's Club at a Sunday service, breakfast and talk by Rabbi Jay on living wills and Jewish death. 
Cost for breakfast is five dollars per person.
Please RSVP by calling the office at 609-492-4090 no later than Thursday, March 2nd.


COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES

COMMUNITY PURIM CARNVAL




Sunday March 12 
12:30 - 3:30 PM
Congregation Ahavat Olam
Howell, NJ

see attached flyer for details
TD AFFINITY PROGRAM

Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

We just received a check for $456.00 from TD Bank. So think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.
GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
MORRIS L. SHAPIRO ENDOWMENT FUND
All organizations should have a substantial endowment fund to ensure its continuation. Except for dire emergencies, the principal amounts in the fund cannot be used to run the organization. Interest earned from the account may be used.  As previously announced, Herb and Selma Shapiro have created a JCC  Endowment Fund to honor Herb's father. It will be known as  "The Morris L. Shapiro Endowment Fund at the JCC of LBI " The Shapiros have generously pledged a total of $50,000 to fund this. While initially established by the Shapiros, anyone may contribute to this important fund. 

Join Herb and Selma in helping assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this Fund. 

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.

AUDIO/VISUAL PROJECT
  We are very excited about the decision of the Board of Directors to pursue the enhancement of the audio system for the JCC of LBI as well as the purchase of a projection system.  This multi-phased project will allow us to become a venue for expanded programming and opens us up to many wonderful opportunities for future planning.  Your gift large or small is much appreciated. Please send your contribution to the JCC office: 2411 Long Beach Blvd., Spray Beach, NJ 08008 and note on the memo line A/V Project. 

  YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  Here is the order form: 

TREE OF LIFE (located in the Social Hall)
You can purchase a leaf in honor of an occasion or in memory of a loved one. 
Here is the Tree of Life Form:  TREE

PAVERS (in front of the Front Entrance) 
Only 4 x 8 and 12 x 12 size pavers are available 
Here is the Paver Form: 

ADS FOR JCC BULLETIN

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
 
TEXT BLAST SIGN UP

If you would like to receive JCC of LBI reminders and alerts via text message on your cell phone, please contact the office by email ([email protected]) or phone (609-492-4090) We would be alerting you for example that "Services are cancelled" or "Last opportunity to sign up for Community Seder".

 This information will not be shared and will only be used for JCC purposes. 

 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
OFFICE HOURS:     
 
MONDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
TUESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
WEDNESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
THURSDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
FRIDAY - 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM

Office Staff:
Jeri Riffle, Executive Director
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 Marcie Deutsch, Computer Admin.

Leslie, Marcie and Jeri

 
CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Rose Valentine, JCC President


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with this link

 

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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS
1/27 - 2/3

Friday 2/3 
7:00 PM
Meet and Greet for Retirement Community residents & members

Sunday
9:30 AM
Tefillin Club


Saturday nite
6:45 PM Havdallah
7:00 Movie
"Blazing Saddles"

SYNAGOGUE ACCESS 

Access to the synagogue during office hours can be had by pressing the buzzer at the front door or handicapped door.

For services, the synagogue doors will be locked after 8:00 PM on Friday night.  Latecomers can be gain access by using the buzzer at the front entrance and handicapped entrance. On Saturday morning, the door will be locked at 9:00 AM for Torah Study with access by buzzer also from the front door or handicapped door.  Please use buzzer at the handicapped entrance after 10:00 AM for Shabbat morning services.  Access to the building on Sunday morning for Religious School is through the front door.

 
SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat

Candle Lighting Time
Friday
February 3, 2017
 5:02 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)



55 & OVER COMMUNITY
SHABBAT

7:00 PM 
Meet and Greet 
This is a wonderful opportunity get to know others who live in 55 and over communities in our area.  At the same time, we can explore the kind of programs that are of interest to you. 

Please reach out to your neighbors and invite them 
to join us as well.


JOIN US FOR SERVICES

Friday, February 3, 2017
8:00 PM

Rabbi's Sermon:
"US Attitude Towards Jewish Immigration in the 30's and 40's

Saturday, February 4, 2017
Torah Study
9:00 AM 
Services
10:00 AM

Torah Reading
  
Parshat Bo
(Exodus 10:1 - 13:16) 
Here is the portion:

Haftorah
Jeremiah 46:13 - 46:28
Here is the Haftorah


Torah Readers
Rabbi Jay
Aaron Lombardi

Haftorah Chanter
Dr. Steven Kelsen
(his Bar Mitzvah Haftorah)



Snow
WEATHER ALERT
In case of inclement weather and Shabbat Services need to be cancelled, here is the procedure:

A message will be put on the JCC answering machine 

If we have your telephone provider (AT&T, Verizon for example) you will receive a text message.  If you have not given us that information, please send your cell number and provider to:  [email protected]



Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat   and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.


YAHRZEITS
FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be read at services on February 3, 2017

 
David Brill*
Donald Brill*
Isador Dalinsky
Henry Rosen
Peter Ungar
Erma Glass
Anna Gottlieb*
Edith Konner
Mina Rosenbaum
Joseph Rudnick*
Diane Rudoff
Mollie Segal
Robert Fischer
Hannah Moses*
Max Rosenbaum
Amy Babst
Thelma Brusilow
Harvey Light
Al Black
Richard Gilbert
Hyman Goldstein
Raia Koller
George Patmas
Linda Zelin
Barnet Bookman*
Benjamin Reiser*
Dave Tarlow
 
   
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovingly enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.
TEFILLIN CLUB


 
Join Rabbi Jay Sunday, February 5th and Sunday, March 5th
at 9:30 AM to lay tefillin and daven the morning service. Those who do not know how to lay tefillin or who need a reminder class are welcome.


GABBAI CLASS

Rabbi Jay will be holding a Gabbai Class for those who participate in the Torah Service and for those who want to learn about the gabbai duties.   A gabbai assists in the smooth flow of the Torah service, helps people get close to the Torah, provides support for nervous readers, and often one of the first to wish someone "Yasher ko'ach!" 

Sunday, February 12 at 10:00 AM

All members are welcome to join this session.
CONGREGATION
NEWS
   
SHARE YOUR NEWS
 
     
 

CARING COMMITTEE
   
Caring
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.  
Please contact Chairperson, Joy Kern, if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 
609- 978-3669 
 
   
KIDDISHES 

on Saturday morning

Contact Lynn Berkowitz 
or Rose Valentine
for information about 
sponsoring a Kiddish
609-709-3160
973-632-0913

SEE NEW DONATION & MENU

Sponsorship includes:

*Printed acknowledgement on the food table, in
the Shabbat Reminder email and in the Shabbat program
*Verbal, public acknowledgement from the bimah during services.
 

SISTERHOOD STUFF

2017 DUES
Your $36 Sisterhood Membership Dues  
are now due. All checks should be sent to
Carole Nunberg
Kings Grant
2 Golf Club Way
Marlton, NJ 08053

We appreciate your support.

PASSOVER COMMUNITY SEDER
Checkmark Mark you calendar for
Tuesday April 11
for the
Sisterhood Community Seder
Menu and details to follow

ONEG SHABBATS

Sisterhood is responsible for the Oneg Shabbats each Friday night.  We could use your help in organizing each week.  This is a special call to those who are in the area off season. Pick a week that you can help and let Jody Brusilow ( [email protected]know so you can be placed on the schedule.  

SHOE BOX RECYCLING
We are collecting gently worn, paired men's, women's and kids shoes that are still reusable and re-wearable (no ski boots, ice skates, roller blades, flip flops, crocs or bedroom slippers). Please bring them to the JCC during office hours.

"Let's clean up our closets and the environment by recycling our shoes."


NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  BADGES

DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

 

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

 

LATEST BULLETIN:

BULLETIN

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP 

 

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

JEWISH JOURNAL: 

JOURNAL

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD