JCC the Place to Be The Jewish Community Center of LBI 

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February 17, 2017
21 Shevat 5777
MEN'S CLUB NEWS


Men's Club Program
                                                                                            
Sunday, March 19, 2017 at 9:00 AM 

 This is an invitation to j oin the JCC Men's Club at a Sunday service, 
breakfast and talk by Rabbi Jay on living wills and Jewish death. 
Cost for breakfast is five dollars per person.
Please RSVP by calling the office at 609-492-4090 no later than Thursday, March 2nd.


Contents
Men's Club News
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
Upcoming JCC Activities
Community Activities
Giving Opportunities
TD Affinity Program
Bulletin Ads
Text Blast Sign Up
Name Badges
This Week's Events
SYNAGOGUE ACCESS
Shabbat Information
Yahrzeits
Tefillin Club
Congregation News
Onegs & Kiddishes
Sisterhood Stuff
Documents & Links
A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


This week we have the honor and privilege of reading the Ten Commandments given to the Israelites at Mount Sinai.  If you read the Commandments in Hebrew you will notice that, despite the fact that God gave them to all of the Israelites standing under Sinai (in excess of 1 million people), the Commandments are given in the second person singular.  In other words, when it says "I am the Lord your God", "your" is in the singular form.  (I am Moshe's God; I am Miriam's God; I am Zelda's God; I am Herb's God). Thus, even as the entire new nation is standing there hearing God's voice, each Commandment is given to each individual.
 
We can posit any number of reasons why this is so; however, I would guess the most reasonable answer is that, by doing so, God is expressing that each of us is individually responsible to observe the Commandments.  If presented in the plural, then each person could conceivably argue that certain Commandments don't apply to him/her.
 
The story of the giving of the Ten Commandments and the understanding of the Commandments, themselves, can be very complicated.  However, one short and simple message is that before we undertake to repair the world, we each have an obligation to do some inner considering and determine where we are, on a personal level, in this beautiful but complicated world of ours.  Only after I have looked at myself and seen how well I have kept the Commandments, should I then feel licensed to start to look at what others are doing.
 
With regard to personal, thought, reflection, mindfulness, and spirituality, I'd like to share the following which was seen on the walls of Temple Israel, Natick, MA by my good friend Ed Finkel:
 
Happy Moments,
Praise God;
 
Difficult Moments,
Seek God;
 
Quiet Moments,
Worship God;
 
Painful Moments,
Trust God;
 
Every Moment,
Thank God.
 
Shabbat Shalom - Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Rabbi Jay will be at the JCC on Tuesdays and will have office hours from 1:00 - 3:00 PM.  Drop in to chat (call the office to make sure he is in and not out on an emergency 609-492-4090) or make an appointment with him (973-865-9534).

This is also a good time to telephone the rabbi.
KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

 
The Ladies Annual Florida Reunion 
will take place on 
Tuesday February 21st at 12:30 PM
at Angelo Elia, 16950 Jog Rd, Delray Beach 
 
RSVP to Jackie Avondoglio 
561-865-5888 or 908-531-6462 
There will be a 3 course meal with beverage for $19 plus tip and tax.

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES


MOVIE SCHEDULE FOR THE WINTER
Saturday Nites
 
Movie 7:00 PM
Havdallah 6:45 PM
February 18 "Yentl"
March 4 "Crossing Delancey Street"

Movie 8:15 PM
Havdallah 8:00 PM
March 18 "West Side Story"
 
Movie 8:30 PM
Havdallah 8:15 PM
April 1 "The Producers"
 
Movie 8:45 PM
Havdallah 8:30 PM
April 15 "Sound of Music"
 
Movie 9:00 PM
Havdallah 8:45 PM
April 29 "Young Frankenstein"

COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES

COMMUNITY PURIM CARNVAL




Sunday March 12 
12:30 - 3:30 PM
Congregation Ahavat Olam
Howell, NJ

see attached flyer for details

There are exciting games and activities for all ages 
(wine tasting for the adults). 
All of this is free of charge.  
We are a part of Ocean County Jewish Federation, the coordinating organization. 
Events like this need our full support and participation. 


GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
MORRIS L. SHAPIRO ENDOWMENT FUND
All organizations should have a substantial endowment fund to ensure its continuation. Except for dire emergencies, the principal amounts in the fund cannot be used to run the organization. Interest earned from the account may be used.  As previously announced, Herb and Selma Shapiro have created a JCC  Endowment Fund to honor Herb's father. It will be known as  "The Morris L. Shapiro Endowment Fund at the JCC of LBI " The Shapiros have generously pledged a total of $50,000 to fund this. While initially established by the Shapiros, anyone may contribute to this important fund. 

Join Herb and Selma in helping assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this Fund. 

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.

AUDIO/VISUAL PROJECT
  We are very excited about the decision of the Board of Directors to pursue the enhancement of the audio system for the JCC of LBI as well as the purchase of a projection system.  This multi-phased project will allow us to become a venue for expanded programming and opens us up to many wonderful opportunities for future planning.  Your gift large or small is much appreciated. Please send your contribution to the JCC office: 2411 Long Beach Blvd., Spray Beach, NJ 08008 and note on the memo line A/V Project. 

  YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  Here is the order form: 

TREE OF LIFE (located in the Social Hall)
You can purchase a leaf in honor of an occasion or in memory of a loved one. 
Here is the Tree of Life Form:  TREE

PAVERS (in front of the Front Entrance) 
Only 4 x 8 and 12 x 12 size pavers are available 
Here is the Paver Form: 

TD AFFINITY PROGRAM

Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

We just received a check for $456.00 from TD Bank. So think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.
ADS FOR JCC BULLETIN

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
 
TEXT BLAST SIGN UP

If you would like to receive JCC of LBI reminders and alerts via text message on your cell phone, please contact the office by email ([email protected]) or phone (609-492-4090) We would be alerting you for example that "Services are cancelled" or "Last opportunity to sign up for Community Seder".

 This information will not be shared and will only be used for JCC purposes. 

NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  BADGES

 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
OFFICE HOURS:     
 
MONDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
TUESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
WEDNESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
THURSDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
FRIDAY - 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM

Office Staff:
Jeri Riffle, Executive Director
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 Marcie Deutsch, Computer Admin.

Leslie, Marcie and Jeri

 
CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Rose Valentine, JCC President


  VIEW THE FEBRUARY/MARCH/APRIL BULLETIN
with this link

 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine rvalen
[email protected]



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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS
2/17 - 2/24

Saturday
6:45 PM Havdallah
7:00 PM Movie: Yentl

MONDAY PRESIDENT'S DAY
OFFICE CLOSED

Tuesday
Florida Reunion
12:30 PM
Angelo Elia, Delray Beach FL

SYNAGOGUE ACCESS 

Access to the synagogue during office hours can be had by pressing the buzzer at the front door or handicapped door.

For services, the synagogue doors will be locked after 8:00 PM on Friday night.  Latecomers can be gain access by using the buzzer at the front entrance and handicapped entrance. On Saturday morning, the door will be locked at 9:00 AM for Torah Study with access by buzzer also from the front door or handicapped door.  Please use buzzer at the handicapped entrance after 10:00 AM for Shabbat morning services. Access to the building on Sunday morning for Religious School is through the front door.

 
SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat

Candle Lighting Time
Friday
February 17, 2017
5:18 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)


JOIN US FOR SERVICES

Friday, February 17
, 2017
8:00 PM

Rabbi's Sermon:
Personal and Public Connection to the Holy One - A Shema Primer


Saturday, February 18, 2017
Torah Study
9:00 AM 
Services
10:00 AM

Torah Reading
  
Yitro
(Exodus 18:1 - 20:23) 
Here is the portion:
PARSHAH


Haftorah
Isaiah 6:1 - 7:6; 9:5 - 9:6
Here is the Haftorah


Torah Reader
Aaron Lombardi



Snow
WEATHER ALERT
In case of inclement weather and Shabbat Services need to be cancelled, here is the procedure:

A message will be put on the JCC answering machine 

If we have your telephone provider (AT&T, Verizon for example) you will receive a text message.  If you have not given us that information, please send your cell number and provider to:  [email protected]



Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat   and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.


YAHRZEITS
FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be read at services on February 17, 2017

I
IF YOU ARE PLANNING TO ATTEND SERVICES ON FRIDAY NIGHT TO SAY KADDISH, PLEASE NOTIFY THE 
OFFICE BY THE 
WEDNESDAY
PRIOR 
 
Florence Morris Piscetelli
Shirley Racusin
Sam Fine
Harvey Leon Fruchtman*
Norman Gerber*
Joseph Lenkowsky
Esther Litvin
Louise Paul
Louis Rose
Rose Rosenweig
Madeline Goldberg
Gussie Herman*
Belle Saferstein
Arlene Babst
Rachel Bendavid
Adam Heller
Esther Hirsch
Fay Schragger
Esther Tannenbaum
Jeffrey Weiner
Max Gottlieb*
Hilda Rosenberg
Theodore Brod
Harry Dudkin
Lisa Ellen Kaufman*
Israel Koller
Aaron Lox
Frank John Lamagna
Eric Moss
Moshe Neustadt*
 
 
   
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovingly enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.
TEFILLIN CLUB


 
Join Rabbi Jay Sunday, March 5th
at 9:30 AM to lay tefillin and daven the morning service. Those who do not know how to lay tefillin or who need a reminder class are welcome.


CONGREGATION
NEWS

  Get Well

CAROL SICHERI

GAIL MERSON

   
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CARING COMMITTEE
   
Caring
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.  
Please contact Chairperson, Joy Kern, if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 
609- 978-3669 
 
   
KIDDISHES 

on Saturday morning

Contact Lynn Berkowitz 
or Rose Valentine
for information about 
sponsoring a Kiddish
609-709-3160
973-632-0913

SEE NEW DONATION & MENU

Sponsorship includes:

*Printed acknowledgement on the food table, in
the Shabbat Reminder email and in the Shabbat program
*Verbal, public acknowledgement from the bimah during services.
 

SISTERHOOD STUFF

2017 DUES
Your $36 Sisterhood Membership Dues  
are now due. All checks should be sent to
Carole Nunberg
Kings Grant
2 Golf Club Way
Marlton, NJ 08053

We appreciate your support.

PASSOVER COMMUNITY SEDER
Checkmark Mark you calendar for
Tuesday April 11
for the
Sisterhood Community Seder

RESERVATION FORMS AND DETAILS ARE HERE:  SEDER


ONEG SHABBATS

Sisterhood is responsible for the Oneg Shabbats each Friday night.  We could use your help in organizing each week.  This is a special call to those who are in the area off season. Pick a week that you can help and let Jody Brusilow ( [email protected]know so you can be placed on the schedule.  

SHOE BOX RECYCLING
We are collecting gently worn, paired men's, women's and kids shoes that are still reusable and re-wearable (no ski boots, ice skates, roller blades, flip flops, crocs or bedroom slippers). Please bring them to the JCC during office hours.

"Let's clean up our closets and the environment by recycling our shoes."


DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

 

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

 

LATEST BULLETIN:

BULLETIN

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP 

 

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

JEWISH JOURNAL: 

JOURNAL

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD