From the ICF-NJ President
Hello Everyone,
November is upon us and it is time for our annual election.
For the second year in a row, Karen Delk has chaired our Nominations Committee, supported by Marian Janes (another repeat committee volunteer) along with Lynn Roe.
This team has been diligently interviewing candidates and preparing the slate for the 2018 Board.
I would like to express my deep appreciation to each of them for their service. They each have been dedicated to the chapter and it is members like them that ensure our chapters continued success. Therefore, I would like to highlight their contributions.
- Karen has served on the board for the past two years and her leadership and dedication has been exemplary.
- Marian has served as the Morris/Somerset Community Group Leader for the past two years and continues to serve our community with her positivity and willingness to collaborate.
- Lynne has served as the Community Group Leader for the Bergen, Passaic and Hudson counties for the past two years and her contribution on this years Nomination Committee has been terrific.
Karen, Marian, and Lynne - thank you for your continued support!
Best Regards,
Renée Robertson
2017 ICF-NJ President
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ICF-NJ Board Elections Are Here!
Dear ICF NJ Members,
The Nomination Committee, comprised of Lynne Roe and Marian Janes, and chaired by Karen Delk, interviewed individuals nominated for the open Board of Directors seats. We are pleased to present to you, the general membership of ICF-NJ, the proposed slate for the 2018 Board of Directors for the coming year, which begins January 1, 2018:
President - Andrea Harvey
Director, Community Groups - Denise Yosafat
Co-Director, Programs - Elias Scultori and Lynn Schaber
Director, Sponsorship - Supriya Desai
If approved, the proposed slate will be in place through December 31, 2019.
The election voting will begin on October 25, 2017, and run through November 4, 2017. Please look for the email and cast your vote!
If you have any questions about the election process, please contact me at
[email protected].
Karen Delk
ICF-NJ Community Groups Director
Elections Chair
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Further Reflections on Converge 2017
by Lynn Schaber
Why Attend an ICF Global Conference?
As a smart business person, some of the questions you might ask yourself when considering whether to attend a conference or meeting is: Why should I attend? What is the value for me and my business? The theme of the last day of the conference, which was called the Unconference, provides a framework for answering these questions.
The Unconference had two Acts:
Act 1 - You + Me: Hot Seat
Act 2 - We: The Future of Coaching
Any conference that you attend is about Me. What can I learn? Who can I meet? What kind of experience will I have? It is also about You (all the other Me(s) that we meet).
You + Me - During ICF Converge, I met colleagues from New Jersey that I didn't know. I shared the experience with colleagues that I consider friends, and I reconnected with colleagues that I haven't seen in a while who have a special place in my heart. We talked about life and coaching and what we were learning. We met as a group in the morning for breakfast and invited colleagues from other areas of the world to join us. We went to dinner each night and shared good food, conversation and laughs. This is a powerful part of a coaching conference and shouldn't be underestimated.
You + Me - Then there is the learning. Many of the breakout sessions provided nuggets of wisdom and ideas and actions that you can start using in your coaching practice and business right away.
In
Resilience Coaching: Rebuilding Resilience When It's a Crash and Not a Wobble, presenter Carole Pemberton had us do an exercise about writing down our emotions and feelings about something that was bothering us at that moment. She explained that writing about emotional events puts it "out there" for you so that you can have a different perspective. The coach I debriefed the exercise with said that when she has something stuck inside her she writes a poem about it and she finds it extremely helpful.
In
The Dance Between Authenticity, Transparency and Vulnerability in Coaching, presenter Beth Buelow discussed when it is appropriate to share our own stories with our clients. Here are some words of wisdom she shared about deciding when it serves our client.
- Share your scars, not your scabs. The idea being scars are older and we have learned and incorporated the lessons. While scabs are fresh and we still may have lessons to learn for ourselves.
- Do your own personal development work.
- Check your motivation and make sure you are not looking for validation.
- Share your experience, not your opinion.
- Share without attachment as to how it lands for the client.
Another example of the You + Me were the multiple opportunities to get some on the spot coaching from another coach. I had several opportunities to do this and each time led to new insights and awareness.
Act 2: We - The Future of Coaching gave us the opportunity to have broad, wide-ranging discussions about coaching as a profession, a business and a passion. At the Prism Award dinner on Friday night, we heard about five organizations who had transformational experiences through a coaching program. One story that was told was used to demonstrate to one of the organizations the value of coaching and why to make it available to more within the organization.
The story was about coaching two groups in Scotland. One was a group of youth from a rough neighborhood in Glasgow. The other was a group of high-level executives. Each learned about coaching and how to do it separately. Then the groups were brought together in a weekend retreat and the executives coached the youth and the youth coached the executives. One of the youth asked an executive a very direct and not so elegant coaching question about his situation. In answering the question, the executive got an answer to his dilemma. It is stories like these that remind us of the impact of coaching in the world.
During the Unconference on the last day, coaches selected a topic they wanted to have a discussion on and met with other coaches in a small group. It was another opportunity to learn from each other and think about where coaching as a profession is heading. I attended discussions on technology and human interaction and coaching the future leaders of the world.
The bottom line for me is that I came home with a list of action items, thoughtful questions to answer for myself, new thought leaders to follow, and most important a connection to a global community of colleagues who have many gifts to offer the world through coaching. That was well worth the price of the conference.
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Greetings from the Education and Programs Director
Please Join Us for This Coaching Trends Webinar
An Introduction to Coaching Supervision, an ICF Best Practice
Speaker:
Lilian Abrams, Ph.D., MBA
Date:
Tues., November 7, 2017
Time:
7:00 pm - 8:30 pm ET
In-Person Somatic Coaching Practice and
Holiday Networking Event
Somatic Approach to Coaching: Learning by Doing
Speaker:
Tijen Genco
Date:
Tues., December 5, 2017
Time: 4:00 pm - 7:15 pm
Call for Presenters for 2018
The ICF-NJ Education and Programs Committee seeks to identify programs and speakers for the 2018 calendar year. The events are held four to six times per year, and will be a mix of in-person presentations and webinars using the Zoom platform. We are particularly interested in presentations that advance the coaching profession and enhance the capabilities of our Chapter members.
Please access the
Speaker Application here
.
We look forward to accessing your talents and passion around advancing the coaching profession in our community.
And please consider sharing this with one of your coaching community contacts who might bring our members value via a presentation.
Call for Volunteers for the EPD Committee
We
're
looking for volunteers to
join our
EPD committee
, and in doing so, help raise the skills, talents, and professionalism of the ICF-NJ coach community.
Please
contact me at [email protected] if you'd
like to help us in curating the events.
Warm regards,
Shefali Salwan, PCC
Education & Professional Development Director
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We're excited to announce the following online and in-person events for your professional development.
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November Webinar
An Introduction to Coaching Supervision, an ICF Best Practice
Speaker
Lilian Abrams, Ph.D., MBA
Date
Tues., Nov. 7, 2017
Time
6:00 pm - 8:30 pm ET
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December In-Person Event
Somatic Approach to Coaching: Learning by Doing
Speaker
Tijen Genco
Date
Tues., Dec. 5, 2017
Time
4:00 pm - 7:15 pm ET
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Welcome to Our New ICF-NJ Members!
Atantic County
Daisy Rios
Camden County
Renai Ellison
Essex County
Katarina Holm-DiDio
Mercer County
Rebecca Feder
Middlesex County
Shivani Shah
Passaic County
Bernice Caruso-Donato
George Matyas
Pennsylvania
Awilda Borres
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Visit us on LinkedIn!
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Meet Your Fellow ICF-NJ Members
at a
Community Group Meeting
If one of your intentions for 2017 is to up level your coaching skills, build your business or collaborate with like-minded coaches, visit one of our Community Groups:
Monmouth County
1st Mon. of the month
12-1:30 p.m.
Northern New Jersey
Next Meeting - TBD
9:00-10:30 a.m.
Princeton Area
1st Mon. of the month
1:30-2:45 p.m.
Somerset / Morris / Essex Counties
3rd Mon. of the month
11 a.m.-12:15 p.m. ET
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Coaches Corner
As mentioned last month, we're exploring a regular community call on Coaching Opportunities for Coaches. In it, we envision discussing business development, how to create a life of abundance via one's coaching practice, marketing techniques, trends in coaching, and more.
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