Stop self-sabotage!!
Let go of the past and move on.
We so often focus on the "woulda, coulda, shoulda" stuff that we actually sabotage ourselves.
You may even take the victim role, just so you can get even with people who have hurt you.
The past is over, you can't change it, but you can learn from it!
Life is about experiencing our choices.
We have free will because we wanted it.
We wanted to thrive, to create, and to experience our creations.
Realize that we are co-creating our lives.
We, in unison with God are manifesting our future. The choices we make today, create tomorrow.
So, I ask you, what are you doing over and over again that is keeping you stuck in a rut? Like a needle in a record. (I'm dating myself here, LOL!)
The needle is stuck on the same groove, playing the same guilt ridden song over and over.
Let it go.
Forgive yourself.
Forgive others. Forgiving others doesn't mean that it is "OK" that you were hurt. You don't have to forget it, but you need to release the emotional pain of it.
Let it go.
It is what it is. You can't change others, but you can change the way you react to things.
Loving yourself is respecting who you are. Your feelings matter. You deserve to be happy, just like everybody else. You don't have to stay victimized.
Become Victorious!
Push aside doubt.
Throw away guilt.
Kick self-sabotage to the curb.
Know that you are a miracle. You are invincible. You are eternal.
Learn it now, so that you don't have to come back, in another life, and do it all over again!
Love yourself!
all my love,
cristina