JCC the Place to Be The Jewish Community Center of LBI 

E-Letter


October 21, 2016
21 Tishri 5777
 
SHEMINI ATZERET/SIMCHAT TORAH SERVICE SCHEDULE


Shemini Atzeret (including Yizkor) - Monday, October 24 at 9:30 am

Erev Simchat Torah - Monday, October 24  

SUPPA IN THE SUKKA
6:00 pm
Baked Ziti - Salad
Garlic Bread - Dessert
Call the office to make your reservation
Services
7:30 PM
Simchat Torah

Simchat Torah -
 Tuesday, October 25 at 9:30 am
             


 
THIS SATURDAY NIGHT: MOVIE NITE AT THE JCC
Showing the movie "Exodus" starring Paul Newman, Eva Marie Saint & Sal Mineo.   T he film is based on events surrounding the ship Exodus in Cyprus in 1947 and then on events in Palestine during the founding of the modern state of Israel in 1948.  Composer Ernest Gold won the Academy Award for Best Original Score at the 1960 Oscars The film was also nominated for Best Supporting Actor (Sal Mineo) and for Best Cinematography (Sam Leavitt).  Golden Globe:  Sal Mineo won the Golden Globe for the  Best Supporting Actor.


Contents
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
The Week That Was....
Upcoming Activities
Ongoing JCC Activities
We Are Going To Israel
Community Activities
Giving Opportunities
TD Affinity Program
Text Blast Sign Up
This Week's Events
Shabbat Information
Yahrzeits
Congregation News
Onegs & Kiddishes
Sisterhood Stuff
Cook Books
Name Badges
Bulletin Ads
Documents & Links
A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 
 
There are many reasons for building and dwelling in a Sukkah on the Holiday of Sukkot.  The first reason is that the Torah specifically tells us to "live in Sukkahs for 7 days...in order that future generations will know that [G-d] made the Israelite people live in Sukkahs when [G-d] brought them out of the land of Egypt..."
 
What is the purpose of sitting in the Sukkah? Let's take a look at a few commentators. The first is from Isaac Aboab a 14th century Talmudic scholar living in Spain. He said:
 
The commandment to dwell in the Sukkah is intended to teach us that a person must not put his/her trust in the size or strength or salutary conveniences of his house, even though it is filled with the best of everything; nor should he/she rely on the help of any person, even if that person is the lord of the land. But let him/her put trust in G-d whose word called the universe into being, for G-d alone is mighty and faithful, and G-d does not retract what G-d promises. (Menorat Ha-Maor 3.6.1)
 
Rashbam (Samuel Ben Maier, 12th century France) taught that the Sukkah was about humility. He said in his commentary to Leviticus 23:43 the following:
 
Do not say in your heart, "My own power and the might of my own hand have won this wealth for me" (Deuteronomy 8:17); you should remember that the Lord your G-d, as it is G-d who gives you strength to make progress. Therefore, the people leave [their] houses, which are full of everything good, at the season of the ingathering, and dwell in booths, as a reminder of those who had no possessions in the wilderness and no houses in which to live. For this reason, the Holy One established the Feast of the Tabernacles.....[so] that the people should not be proud of their well-furnished houses.
 
Rashi (10th century France) said that the walls of each Sukkah were actually G-d's "cloud of glory", i.e. The cloud that led the Israelites through the desert.  Thus, even though the walls may seem fragile, they are capable of providing protection.
 
As a harvest holiday, residing in the Sukkah helps us to commune with the natural environment around us.
 
The 7 days of dwelling in the Sukkah may represent the shift from our "near-death" experience on Yom Kippur and our reintroduction back into the return to the world.  The Sukkah thus becomes a weigh station between that experience and the real world. 
 
While the Sukkah experience is unique and fun, it is not always comfortable. In fact we find ourselves living outside and the weather is beginning to turn crisp and the wind may be blowing.  Our senses are heightened to our surroundings.  We hear the wind, we hear the sounds of the outside.  Some of us sneeze from the musty smell. While we are tuned into the beauty of our surroundings, we are also, on some level, made cognizant of the fragility of life.
 
The fragility of life became highlighted for us on the first day of Sukkot.  After we went into our beautiful JCC Sukkah for a lovely Kiddush luncheon.  As we were sitting and eating, suddenly one of our congregants began choking on food.  We sat and watched with concern as she stood with a panicked look in her face. Luckily my brother had joined us for Sukkot and was sitting three seats away from the choker.  As a doctor, my brother immediately went to her aid and performed the Heimlich Maneuver. The food was dislodged and it was determined that the congregant was okay. Nervously we all began to talk amongst ourselves and eat.
 
This narrow brush with disaster illustrates why we sit in the Sukkah.  In life, just as in the Sukkah, there is only a thin wall between us and a problem. We need to be aware of this and we need to be prepared.
 
If my brother hadn't known how to perform the Heimlich Maneuver, something tragic might have happened.  It is for this reason that we should each make it a goal this year to take a CPR class, or at least learn how to properly perform the Heimlich Maneuver. 
 
We have decided to look into sponsoring a class to learn these important skills. Look for more on this in the future.
 
Shabbat Shalom and Moadim L'Simcha - Rabbi Michael S. Jay


KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

THE WEEK THAT WAS...

The lovely weather added to the joy of having kiddish in the Succah on Monday & Tuesday.  In fact, on Monday we had  to set up tables outside to accommodate everyone.  Thank you to Rona Stein & Lexa Merson Koel for sponsoring the kiddish luncheons.

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES

Movie Night MOVIE NITE AT THE JCC
Saturday nite, October 22
7:00 PM
Showing "Exodus" 1960

Saturday November 5 at 7:00 PM - Cast A Giant Shadow (1966) starring Kirk Douglas, John Wayne and Frank Sinatra

Saturday, November 19 at 7:00 PM - When Harry Met Sally (1989) starring Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan
 
Admission is free and all are welcome.  

MEN'S CLUB MEETING - rescheduled
Sunday November 6
10:00 AM

ONGOING ACTIVITIES

Mah jongg
MAH JONGG  
Wednesdays 12:30 - 4:00 PM 




WE ARE GOING TO ISRAEL - JOIN US

  
Explore Israel with the Montebello Jewish Center and the Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island
Led by Rabbi Richard Hammerman and
Rabbi Michael S. Jay
February 8 -17, 2017


To see details and the itinerary, see this link
 
COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES

ART EXHIBIT Art

North End Trilogy Gallery  in Barnegat Light is hosting a gallery exhibit of Paul Dresher's work.  His works and outlook were heavily influenced by his experience as a US soldier liberating the camps in Germany after WWII. 

North End Trilogy
4th & Broadway
Barnegat Light, NJ 
October 28th- 30th
Schedule:
Preview- Friday 11-5
Reception - Saturday 2-6
Closing - Sunday 11-5 




Sunday, October 30 - Sunday, November 20
Click on this site for a sneak preview of the films and show dates and times: FESTIVAL

All films will be screened at the
Marquee Cinemas - Orchard 10
1311 Route 37 West
Toms River, New Jersey 08755
(Adjacent to Ruby Tuesday)
 
General Admission is $10.00 per ticket.
Tickets purchased at the door are $12.00 per ticket and based on availability.  Series packages are also available.
 
For additional information or directions -
Phone: 732-363-0530

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

MORRIS L. SHAPIRO ENDOWMENT FUND
All organizations should have a substantial endowment fund to insure its continuation. Except for dire emergencies, the principal amounts in the fund cannot be used to run the organization. Interest earned from the account may be used.  As previously announced, Herb and Selma Shapiro have created a JCC  Endowment Fund to honor Herb's father. It will be known as  "The Morris L. Shapiro Endowment Fund at the JCC of LBI " The Shapiros have generously pledged a total of $50,000 to fund this. While initially established by the Shapiros, anyone may contribute to this important fund. 

Join Herb and Selma in helping assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this Fund. 

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.

AUDIO/VISUAL PROJECT
  We are very excited about the decision of the Board of Directors to pursue the enhancement of the audio system for the JCC of LBI as well as the purchase of a projection system.  This multi-phased project will allow us to become a venue for expanded programming and opens us up to many wonderful opportunities for future planning.  Your gift large or small is much appreciated. Please send your contribution to the JCC office: 2411 Long Beach Blvd., Spray Beach, NJ 08008 and note on the memo line A/V Project. 

  YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  Here is the order form: 

TREE OF LIFE (located in the Social Hall)
You can purchase a leaf in honor of an occasion or in memory of a loved one. 
Here is the Tree of Life Form:  TREE

PAVERS (in front of the Front Entrance) 
Only 4 x 8 and 12 x 12 size pavers are available 
Here is the Paver Form: 

TD AFFINITY PROGRAM

Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

We just received a check for $456.00 from TD Bank. So think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.
TEXT BLAST SIGN UP

If you would like to receive JCC of LBI reminders and alerts via text message on your cell phone, please contact the office by email ([email protected]) or phone (609-492-4090) We would be alerting you for example that "Services are cancelled" or "Last opportunity to sign up for Community Seder".

 This information will not be shared and will only be used for JCC purposes. 

 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.

Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
OFFICE HOURS:     
 
MONDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
TUESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
WEDNESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
THURSDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
FRIDAY - 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM

Office Staff:
Jeri Riffle, Executive Director
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 Marcie Deutsch, Computer Admin.

Leslie, Marcie and Jeri

 
CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Rose Valentine, JCC President




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with this link

 

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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS
10/21 - 10/28

Sunday
Havallah 6:45 PM
Showing of the Movie "Exodus"
7:00 PM

Wednesday
MAH JONGG 
12:30 - 4:00 PM

SHABBAT SHALOM
&
HAG SOMEACH


Shabbat

Candle Lighting Time
Friday
October 21, 2016 
 5:49 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)


JOIN US FOR SERVICES

Friday, October 21, 2016
8:00 PM

RECOGNITION OF NOVEMBER BIRTHDAYS & ANNIVERSARIES

Rabbi's Sermon:
Torah, Shofar, Menorah, Mezzuzah: 
The Importance of Symbols

Board Representative:
Rose Valentine


ONEG SHABBAT
sponsored by
Cheryl & Lous Celebre
in honor of 
their grandaughter
 
Isla Rose's 
1st birthday


Saturday, October 22, 2016
Chol Hamoed VI

Torah Study
9:00 AM
Services
10:00 AM

Torah Reading
(Exodus 33:12 - 34:26; 
(Numbers 28:26-31)
Here is the

 Haftorah 
Ezekiel 38:18 - 39:16
HAFTORAH

Torah Readers:
Howard Hait
Rabbi Jay

SHEMINI ATZERET

 Candle Lighting Time
(So. Ocean County)
Sunday
October 23, 2016
5:47 PM

Services
October 24, 2016
9:30 AM
YIZKOR

Torah Reading
Deuteronomy 14:22 - 16:17;
Numbers 29:535 - 30:1
Here it is: TORAH READING

Haftorah
1 Kings 8:54-8:66
Here it is:  HAFTORAH

Torah Reader:
Howard Hait

SIMCHAT TORAH

Candle Lighting Time
(So. Ocean County)
Monday
October 24, 2016
 6:53 PM

SUPPA IN THE SUKKA
Monday, October 24th
6:00
call the office to make your reservation

Services
7:30 PM

Services
October 25, 2016
9:30 AM

Torah Reading
Deuteronomy 33:1 - 34:12
Genesis 1:1 - 2:3
Numbers 29:535 - 30:1
Here it is:  TORAH READING


Haftorah
Joshua: 1:1 - 1:18
Here it is: HAFTORAH

Torah Reader:
Aaron Lombardi

 

Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat  
 and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.

YAHRZEITS
FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be read at services on October 21, 2016

Samuel Hoffman
Milton Seavey
Casper Ungar*
Lawrence Fried
Rose Goldstein*
Leanore Traster*
Stanley Bloom
Leonard Einhorn
Esther Gottlieb
Lessie Markowitz*
Shirley Morgan
Bessie Okner
Abe Hirschorn*
Andrew Rothschild
Irene Schiff
Harry Schragger
Olly Alexander*


* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovely enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.
CONGREGATION
NEWS

Get Well
 RICHARD NEWMAN

DON PARIS



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Caring 
CARING COMMITTEE
   
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.  
Please contact Chairperson, Joy Kern, if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 
609- 978-3669 
 
   
KIDDISHES 

on Saturday morning

Contact Lynn Berkowitz 
or Rose Valentine
for information about 
sponsoring a Kiddish
609-709-3160
973-632-0913

SEE NEW DONATION & MENU

Sponsorship includes:

*Printed acknowledgement on the food table, in
the Shabbat Reminder email and in the Shabbat program
*Verbal, public acknowledgement from the bimah during services.
 

SISTERHOOD STUFF

ONEG SHABBATS

Sisterhood is responsible for the Oneg Shabbats each Friday night.  We could use your help in organizing each week.  This is a special call to those who are in the area off season. Pick a week that you can help and let Jody Brusilow ([email protected]know so you can be placed on the schedule.  

SHOE BOX RECYCLING
We are again collecting gently worn, paired men's, women's and kids shoes that are still reusable and re-wearable (no ski boots, ice skates, roller blades, flip flops, crocs or bedroom slippers). Please bring them to the JCC during office hours.

"Let's clean up our closets and the environment by recycling our shoes."


COOK BOOKS












The office ha a few copies of Puzzle Israel cookbook, "Yalla, Let's Cook" for sale for $20.00. Proceeds from the sale will go to the Lone Soldier Center, whose mission is to assist lone soldiers before, during and after their army service. They provide them with food, laundry, basic necessities, equipment, advice, seminars, social events, monthly Shabbat meals and more. A "lone soldier" is an IDF soldier with no family in Israel to support him or her. A lone soldier may be a new immigrant, a volunteer from abroad, an orphan or an individual from a broken home.




And don't forget our Sisterhood Cookbook.
Great recipes from our best JCC cooks.  Perfect for ideas for your holiday meals.  Call the office. $10.00.

NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  BADGES

ADS FOR JCC BULLETIN

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
 

DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

 

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

 

SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER BULLETIN:

BULLETIN

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP 

 

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

SISTERHOOD GIFT SHOP CATALOG

 GIFT

 

JEWISH JOURNAL: 

JOURNAL

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD