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This week we continue our Elul themed learning. We have featured the class Path to Teshuva from the Naaleh.com series Elul, Rosh Hashana, and Yom Kippur: Days of Closeness and Awe.   In this class Rabbi Hanoch Teller discusses examples of true teshuva, and a discussion of what can be expected of us over the Days of Awe.

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Shabbat Shalom!

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Passionate Service of G-d
Based on a Naaleh.com shiur by Rabbi Yitzchak Cohen
 
 
 
In Chapter 19, the Mesilat Yesharim discusses Yirat Hashem and Ahavat Hashem , two emotions that bring us closer to the Creator. If one has love, respect, and fear of Hashem one can reach higher levels in Avodat Hashem . A Jew who is filled with Ahavat Hashem will view Torah and mitzvot as a delight and a joy. The Mesilat Yesharim compares this love of Hashem to the love of a groom for his bride, or a father for his young son. Just as a father delights in every word that his young son utters and a young husband cherishes every word uttered by his new wife, we are meant to take pleasure in the Torah. This is based on a verse in Tehilim, " Lulei sorascha shashuei az avaditi b'anyi ." David Hamelech tells us that if not for the Torah that was a delight to him, he would've perished in his suffering.

The word shashuai can mean a delight. It can also mean a plaything. To a child, a toy has no purpose other than pure enjoyment. He doesn't expect to accomplish or gain anything with it. There's no result or purpose awaiting at the end. So too our relationship with Hashem and the mitzvot should not be, "What will I accomplish with this? Will I become a distinguished tzadik or gain honor or fame?" Torah and mitzvot are meant to be shaashuei , pleasurable and delightful at the moment, an expression of Ahavat Hashem .

The Mesilat Yesharim notes that there are in fact three levels of ahavat Hashem : deveikut , simcha , and kinah. Deveikut is about clinging to Hashem, simcha is enjoying the mitzvot , and kinah is zealousness to do the will of Hashem. True deveikut means reaching a level of such profound attachment to Hashem that the physical world becomes meaningless. The Rambam in Hilchot Deiot notes the Torah commandment of, " U'l'davka bo, " to cling to Hashem. How can a physical human being cling to the Shechina? The gemara says we can do this by attaching ourselves to Torah scholars. One should desire to learn from them and emulate their ways. A man should try to marry the daughter of a talmid chacham and marry off his daughter to a Torah scholar. One should spend time with Torah scholars and talk with them. This is a form of Ahavat Hashem .

The Ramban in Parshat V'esachanan explains that Ahavat Hashem means constantly thinking about the Creator. One can converse with a person but in the back of one's mind, one's thoughts are on Torah and mitzvot . The Gemara gives the example of Rav Elazar ben Pedat, who would start learning in the upper market and forget his coat there while continuing to learn in the lower market. He was so totally involved in Torah that he wasn't bothered about where his coat was. When one is so close to Hashem one transcends the physical world. The Yerushalmi gives another example of Rav Chanina ben Dosa who was bitten by a snake in the middle of praying. Still he did not stop praying. His students asked him, "Didn't you feel any pain?" He replied, "I didn't feel a thing." The students knew their Rebbe was davening with great concentration, but they didn't realize a person could be so totally involved that he was unaware of anything around him. This is true in life too. A person might become so engaged in a thriller or a show that nothing else exists. His mind is totally engaged. David Hamelech said, " Dovka nafshi achrecha ," my soul clings to you. Deveikut b'Hashem is not something impossible and beyond us. It's a level we can all strive to reach.


Overcharging- Ona'a  
Based on Naaleh.com shiur by Dayan Shlomo Cohen

A jeweler was once approached by a customer whose wife had lost one of her earrings. He wanted him to find a matching stone to replace the earing that was lost. After a while, the jeweler finally found a suitable gem and he quoted the customer an exorbitant price way over 1/6 of the market value. He knew the man wanted to make his wife happy. After the customer paid and left, he found out what the true market value of the stone was. According to halacha he could now make a claim to the seller for overcharging. The seller violated the prohibition of ona'a by not letting his customer know the true value of the item.

In the midst of a hurricane after almost everyone had evacuated, Mr. Bloch found himself stranded. He called a cab to take him away and the taxi driver demanded $1,000 instead of the usual price of $300 as it was difficult to get a taxi and all taxi drivers were raising their prices. This is a form of extortion. According to halacha , Mr. Bloch can agree to pay the exaggerated price and then pay the normal price when he exits the taxi. But if the taxi driver made him pay up front he cannot get his money back because he knew the price beforehand and nevertheless decided to pay.

There's a difficult distinction to make here. Where do you set the difference between a new market price and extortion? Perhaps a new market price has been established for this service because of the situation, and therefore the driver can charge the extortion price. Every case needs to be evaluated separately. In the case of Mr. Bloch, it seems to be extortion and he could agree to pay and then pay the lower price. There was never a meeting of minds. The driver tried to cheat him by charging an exaggerated price so he may in turn deceive him by seemingly agreeing to the price.

Similarly, in the case of a prisoner running away from prison who must cross a river. If someone offers to take him across the river for an exorbitant price, he can agree and then pay the normal price. However, the Rama rules that if a doctor charges a very high price and the person agrees to pay it he cannot then back out, because it's acceptable that doctors charge a lot. If a matchmaker demands an exorbitant price from you and you initially agreed, you would be able to say later that you were originally joking and pay the market price because such high prices are not normal practice. If you ask a fisherman to stop his work and take you over the river he can justifiably charge you a high price because we don't know what he can earn in the time he is losing by not working. In cases where it is difficult to determine a fixed price, beit din  would have to arrange a compromise.


Parshat Vayeilech begins with the verse, " Vayeilech Moshe vayedaber et hadevarim haeleh el kol Yisrael vayomer aleihem ." (Moshe went and spoke these words to all of Israel and he said to them....) Why does the Torah begin with this introductory sentence that seems redundant? The Midrash Tanchuma explains that the term vayeilech signifies rebuke. Why was rebuke given at this time and why was it expressed using a term normally used for walking?
 
The Shem Mishmuel quotes another Midrash in the beginning of Devarim which quotes a verse in the Prophets, " Ochichacha ... l'einecha ," I will rebuke, I will teach, and I will lay it out in front of your eyes. This verse can be interpreted in two ways, l'orer or l'sader - to arouse or to arrange. The Shem Mismuel quotes another Midrash in Bereishit Rabbah which compares the yetzer hara to a conniving dog. The dog would come into a bakery and pretend to go to sleep. The baker, thinking he was harmless, also went to sleep. Then the dog would quickly get up, grab some bread and run off. The yetzer hara uses this same strategy. He makes himself appear harmless. He has a way of lulling us into a false sense of security while he pulls us towards situations that may endanger us spiritually.
 
After Adam and Chava ate from the eitz hadaat , their eyes opened. While they were living in Gan Eden they didn't appreciate what they had. They allowed the yetzer hara to dupe them into violating Hashem's command. After they sinned, Hashem opened their eyes to what they had done. All future generations would now suffer because of their sin. We don't realize how seemingly innocuous events and behaviors can have disastrous outcomes. People delude themselves and rationalize away their actions. They act insensitively and refuse to face the consequences of their deeds. They deceive themselves that it is harmless. We have to stand on guard and be very careful. The yetzer hara is like a sleeping dog that lulls us into oblivion and then grabs our precious souls.
 
The Shem Mishmuel explains that the yetzer hara uses another common trap. Man is a mixture of good and evil. We know we're not perfect. But the yetzer hara deludes us into creating our own scale of good and bad. We think that our mitzvot will erase our sins. The Rambam writes that these calculations can only be done by Hashem. When a person mistakenly thinks that his mitzvot ben adam l'makom will erase his failings of ben adam l'chavero, then he has fallen into the yetzer hara's trap. Hashem says, there will come a day that I will open your eyes and make seder (order). You will see that the balance sheet was not the way you thought it was.
 
The Shem Mishmuel writes that people usually fall into sin through either one of these ruses. The sin happens unwittingly before the person knows he's trapped, or the person is led into thinking his mitzvot will outweigh his sins. Both of these attitudes have to be eradicated. Hashem promises that in the time of Mashiach we will repent. There will be a hitorerut , an arousal, and a sidur, a clear understanding of what is right and wrong.
 
The Shem Mishmuel further writes that man is a combination of moach and lev, intellect and emotion. The sins that happen when we allow our sensitivities to be lulled into a state of unawareness are related to emotions. The sins having to do with incorrect rationalization are related to the mind. The Gemara comments on the verse, " L'David Hashem ori v'yishi ," that ori refers to Rosh Hashana while yishi refers to Yom Kippur. Rosh Hashana focuses on the head, it's a day of thinking, of getting one's priorities in order. Yom Kippur is about emotion, inspiring the heart. It's a day that lifts us out of this world into a different realm of connecting to Hashem.
 
In Parshat Vayeilech, Moshe went and spoke to the Jewish people. There were Jews who had fallen into the yetzer hara's trap of the mind and those who had become ensnared through the heart. They needed to be woken up. This new generation weren't modeling themselves after Moshe. Therefore, the Torah says, " Vayeilech ." Moshe went down, he lowered himself spiritually so that the people could relate to him and this aroused them. Moshe represented the moac h - intellect. The pasuk says both, " Va'yomer," he spoke to their intellect and " Va'yedaber ," he spoke to their heart. He caused them to have an emotional feeling of inadequacy so that they would wake up to their situation.
 
Yom Kippur is a day of truth. In the ten days between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, we beg Hashem to awaken us so that we may be sensitive to situations that endanger our soul. We ask for wisdom to understand what is right and wrong and to avoid the traps that the yetzer hara sets for us. We ask Him to give us the inspiration and the wisdom to steer clear of erroneous rationalization. Together with the proper hitorerut and the right sidur, we can truly repent and rededicate ourselves to Torah and mitzvot . Gemar chatima tova !
  
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