JCC the Place to Be The Jewish Community Center of LBI 

E-Letter


September 2, 2016
29 Av 5776
Contents
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
Men's Club
Ongoing JCC Activities
Upcoming Activities
A Taste of Israel
Community Activities
Giving Opportunities
Text Blast Sign Up
TD Affinity Program
Name Badges
This Week's Events
Shabbat Shalom
Yahrzeits
High Holidays
Onegs & Kiddishes
Congregation News
Sisterhood Stuff
Documents & Links
A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
   
This Shabbat we usher in the month of Elul which marks the commencement of the count-down to Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, and Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement.  It is time to start doing a "self-accounting".  It is time to be contemplative of ourselves; it is a time to return to that person we would like to be; it is time to return to God.  And yes, it is a time to think about repentance for the negative things we might have done. 
 
While we tend focus on fixing the negative things, don't forget, as we review our lives, that there are good things that we have done as well.  Recall the good, savor it, and see how we can use it to empower ourselves as we move into the High Holidays.
 
As we perform our self-review, do not forget the gift we have of being by the Ocean.  The beautiful, vast, shoreline is not unlike us. The continuing rhythm of the waves coming in and going out is reminiscent of the ongoing cycles of our own lives.  Sometimes the waves are gentle and nurturing and other times they are harsh and destructive.  The ocean shifts the sand. Sometimes it does so in an avulsive fashion, and other times it caresses the sand to its new shape.  The beach is ever present and yet it is forever in a state of metamorphosis.
 
In this ability to change, we are the ocean, as the ocean is us.  Humanity and the great bodies of water were both created by God with a purpose and with meaning.  However, while the Ocean's ability to change is subject to the whim of natural phenomena such as weather, wind, and the moon, humanity was created with the ability to be an agent of change.  The ocean is a body a without soul and without conscience.  Men and women were created with a body and a soul and the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.  The image of the ocean can be used to consider the awesomeness of God, but Humanity was created in God's image 
 
Humanity's uniqueness is that it has the ability to create the change. Each of us is capable of thinking about change, considering change, and then working to facilitate change.  In order to be an agent of change, we first need to consider what needs modification.
 
My prayer this Shabbat is that we each use the blessing of this month of Elul to do a review.  What did we do well? What could we have done better? What can we introduce into our lives to make them more fulfilling for us and those we love?
 
Like the ocean we are here, we are present, we have strength and we have beauty. Begin the process of cleansing our selves.  Elul is an ocean waiting for us to take a purifying, renewing plunge.  We need to dive in, swim, immerse, and return to the world renewed and with a sense of the good that we can bring to the world.
 

Shabbat Shalom - Rabbi Michael S. Jay


KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

MEN'S CLUB - IN FORMATION
 
Men's Club Organizational Meeting at the JCC on Sunday, September 18, 2016 at 9:00 am. 
Topics will include selecting an executive board, activities/events and dates for the year. Please RSVP to the office by Thursday, September 15th or contact Mark Cohen at [email protected]

 
ONGOING ACTIVITIES

Mah jongg
MAH JONGG  
Wednesdays 12:30 - 4:00 PM 



UPCOMING ACTIVITIES
 
BENEATH THE HELMET

Join us on Monday, September 12 at 7:00 PM for the viewing of the documentary  
"Beneath the Helmet."

WHAT'S IT ALL ABOUT?
Beneath the Helmet: From High School to the Home Front is a coming-of-age story which follows the journey of five Israeli high school graduates who are drafted into the army to defend their country. At the age of 18, away from their homes, families and friends these young individuals undergo a demanding, inspiring journey, revealing the core of who they are and who they want to be.  


A TASTE OF MELTON "We Are What We Remember"
A 4-Part Class with Rabbi Jay
Sundays September 11, 18, 25 and October 9.
10 - 12 Noon

What is the Melton School?
The Florence Melton School of Jewish Learning is an international network of community-based schools offering adults the opportunity to acquire Jewish literacy in an open, trans-denominational, intellectually stimulating learning environment. It is the largest pluralistic adult Jewish education network in the world.


RABBI'S GARDEN DEDICATION
Sunday September 11 at 9:30 AM


RELIGIOUS SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE
Sunday, September 11 from 10:00 AM - 12 Noon
Kindergarten - Post Confirmation
Meet the staff and students, Rabbi Jay and members of our community

SHABBATON WITH THE ORANGETOWN JEWISH CENTER

Our friends from the Orangetown Jewish Center will be again be our guests at a Shabbaton on September 16 - 18.  We look forward to spending time with Rabbi Paula Mack Drill and her congregation.

Our congregation will be hosting a Shabbat dinner on Friday evening and a Lunch and Learn following services on Saturday morning. 

Reservations for the Shabbat dinner should be sent into the JCC Office by September 12.  The cost of the dinner is $25 per person.

A TASTE OF ISRAEL

The JCC of LBI and 
The Jewish Federation of Ocean County
invite you to an exciting and unique evening of
ISRAELI CUISINE AND CONVERSATION


A TASTE OF ISRAEL
Cocktails, Cooking, Dinner and Dessert
Presented by Puzzle Israel

Sunday, September 11
5:00 PM
at the home of
Janet & Howard Cohen
42 Hideaway Drive
Beach Haven Park, NJ



Donation of $118.00 per person
Funds raised will be designated to bring as Jewish Family Children's Services Professional to Southern Ocean County for counseling sessions.

  RSVP by September 1
Call the JCC of LBI at 609-492-4090
Limited Space Available

Event Chairs: Arlene & Fred Schragger

COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES

The Jewish Cultural Group at Mirage Presents...

WE WRITE THE SONGS...A Tribute to the Legendary Composers and Songwriters of the 20th Century

Thursday, September 22nd
6:00 PM
Deli Dinner and Desserts  BYOB
$32.00 per person
Contact Helen Gross for ticket information
609-607-0005
 
SEE THIS FLYER FOR DETAILS: SONGS


GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

50/50 RAFFLE
Our annual tickets have been sent out to our members.  Please participate in this fund raiser.  The drawing is at the end of Yom Kippur, October 12.  Additional tickets can be requested from the JCC office.

MORRIS L. SHAPIRO ENDOWMENT FUND
All organizations should have a substantial endowment fund to insure its continuation. Except for dire emergencies, the principal amounts in the fund cannot be used to run the organization. Interest earned from the account may be used.  As previously announced, Herb and Selma Shapiro have created a JCC  Endowment Fund to honor Herb's father. It will be known as  "The Morris L. Shapiro Endowment Fund at the JCC of LBI " The Shapiros have generously pledged a total of $50,000 to fund this. While initially established by the Shapiros, anyone may contribute to this important fund. 

Join Herb and Selma in helping assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this Fund. 

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.

 
AUDIO/VISUAL PROJECT
  We are very excited about the decision of the Board of Directors to pursue the enhancement of the audio system for the JCC of LBI as well as the purchase of a projection system.  This multi-phased project will allow us to become a venue for expanded programming and opens us up to many wonderful opportunities for future planning.  Your gift large or small is much appreciated. Please send your contribution to the JCC office: 2411 Long Beach Blvd., Spray Beach, NJ 08008 and note on the memo line A/V Project. 

 
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  Here is the order form: 


TREE OF LIFE (located in the Social Hall)
You can purchase a leaf in honor of an occasion or in memory of a loved one. 
Here is the Tree of Life Form:  TREE

PAVERS (in front of the Front Entrance) 
Only 4 x 8 and 12 x 12 size pavers are available 
Here is the Paver Form: 


TEXT BLAST SIGN UP

If you would like to receive JCC of LBI reminders and alerts via text message on your cell phone, please contact the office by email ([email protected]) or phone (609-492-4090) We would be alerting you for example that "Services are cancelled" or "Last opportunity to sign up for Community Seder".

 This information will not be shared and will only be used for JCC purposes. 

TD AFFINITY PROGRAM

Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

We just received a check for $456.00 from TD Bank. So think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.
NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  BADGES

 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.

Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
OFFICE HOURS:     
 
MONDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
TUESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
WEDNESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
THURSDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
FRIDAY - 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM

Office Staff:
Jeri Riffle, Executive Director
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 Marcie Deutsch, Computer Admin.

Leslie, Marcie and Jeri

 
CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Rose Valentine, JCC President




  VIEW THE SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER  BULLETIN
with this link

 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine rvalen
[email protected]



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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS
9/2 - 9/9


Wednesday
12:30 - 4:00 PM 
Mah jongg


SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat

Candle Lighting Time
Friday
September 2, 2016 
7:06 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)

JOIN US FOR SERVICES
 
Friday, September 2, 2016
8:00 PM

RABBI'S SERMON:
A Teshuvah Primer

ONEG SHABBAT SPONSORS



DIANE HOFFMAN & PHYLLIS SISENWINE
In appreciation of the sponsors, bakers &
helpers for the 
beautiful onegs

JUDY & HAROLD EINHORN
In honor of their 66th wedding anniversary

LUCY & BARRY LEWISOHN
In honor of their 
six grandsons

RITA FLEISCHMAJER &
 DR. ARNOLD MANHEIM
In honor of their birthdays and to wish friends and family a Happy New Year

SYBIL & MEL KLEINFELD
In memory of Sybil's mother Mary Levin

RENEE & FRANK WARD
In memory of Renee's parents
Margaret and Joseph Nudel



Saturday, September 3, 2016
Torah Study
9:00 AM
Services
10:00 AM

Torah Portion
Re'eh
Deuteronomy 11:26 - 16:17
Special Maftir for Rosh Chodesh
Numbers 28:9 - 15 
Here is the Parshah
PARSHAH
and Special Maftir

Haftorah
Isaiah 66:1 -6624
Here is the Haftorah
HAFTORAH


Torah Readers:
Howard Hait
Steve Kelsen
Rabbi Michael Jay

Haftorah Chanter:
Zach Roenberg

Shabbat Dinner SHABBAT DINNER
September 16
6:30 PM
$25 per person


9:00 PM
Drop-In Havdallah
S'mores & More



 
 
Sunday
Daven on the Beach
9:00 AM
Beach @ 24th St
Spray Beach

 

Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat  
 and Holidays. No food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.


OTHER SPECIAL SHABBATS

Shabbaton with Orangetown 
Jewish Center
September 16 & 17

Healing Service
September 30
7:15 PM
prior to Shabbat Service

 
YAHRZEITS
FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be read at services on September 2, 2016

Blanche Kugel
Reneta Prebluda
Richard (Dick) Tucker*
Ben Ungar
Martin Weiner
Donald Chrgin
Frances Horenstein*
Gertrude Rosenbloom
Frances Shapiro*
Jack Tanenbaum
Robert Goldman*
Molla Plon
Stanley Schlossman
Alfonso Soto
Miriam Levitt
Ike Saul Shapiro
Peter Friedman*
Leslie Levine
Sarah Finkel
Florine Peck



* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovely enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.


HIGH HOLIDAYS
Remember to send in your High Holiday ticket requests and names for the Book of Remembrance to Carole Nunberg, King Grant, 2 Golf Club Way, Marlton, NJ 08053

SEE HERE FOR FORMS: HH FORMS




Sisterhood Break-The-Fast 5776
At the JCC of LBI following Mincha & N'eilah
On Yom Kippur, Wednesday evening,October 12, 2016
$20.00 per person

Please send checks payable to Sisterhood to:
Lori Sherry - 167 Seneca Boulevard - Barnegat, NJ 08005

Here is the Break-The Fast form:
BREAK-THE-FAST

 
KIDDISHES 

 

on Saturday morning

Contact Lynn Berkowitz 
or Rose Valentine
for information about 
sponsoring a Kiddish
609-709-3160
973-632-0913

SEE NEW DONATION & MENU

HOLIDAY KIDDISHES
Family in the Sukka
 
One of the nicest experiences during the holidays is to have lunch in the Succah after Succoth Services.  

Thank you to RONA STEIN and LEXA MERSON for sponsoring our Succoth Luncheons this year.

Sponsorship is also available for Shemini Azeret 10/24 
& Simchat Torah 10/25.


All Sponsorships includes:
*Printed acknowledgement on the food table, in
the Shabbat Reminder email and in the Shabbat program
*Verbal, public acknowledgement from the bimah during services.
 


CONGREGATION
NEWS


    Get Well  
 
   ALAN GORDON
recovering from surgery

SHARE YOUR NEWS
 
     
  
Caring 
CARING COMMITTEE
   
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.  
Please contact Chairperson, Joy Kern, if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 
609- 978-3669 
 
   
SISTERHOOD STUFF
BOOK CLUB & REVIEW

Tuesday, September 13
10:30 AM in the Library
Book: "The "Bridal Chair"
by Gloria Goldreich
 
Beautiful Ida Chagall, the only daughter of Marc Chagall, is blossoming in the Paris art world beyond her father's controlling gaze. But her newfound independence is short-lived. In Nazi-occupied Paris, Chagall's status as a Jewish artist has made them all targets, yet his devotion to his art blinds him to their danger.
 
When Ida falls in love and Chagall angrily paints an empty wedding chair (The Bridal Chair) in response, she faces an impossible choice: Does she fight to forge her own path outside her father's shadow, or abandon her ambitions to save Chagall from his enemies and himself? 

Brimming with historic personalities from Europe, America and Israel, The Bridal Chair is a stunning portrait of love, fortitude, and the sharp divide between art and real life.


SHOE BOX RECYCLING
We are again collecting gently worn, paired men's, women's and kids shoes that are still reusable and re-wearable (no ski boots, ice skates, roller blades, flip flops, crocs or bedroom slippers). Please bring them to the JCC during office hours.

"Let's clean up our closets and the environment by recycling our shoes."


DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

 

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

 

SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER BULLETIN:

BULLETIN

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP 

 

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

SISTERHOOD GIFT SHOP CATALOG

 GIFT

 

JEWISH JOURNAL: 

JOURNAL

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD

 

2016 SUMMER CALENDAR

CALENDAR