As most of us know, the majority of cases now settle in mediation. The claims representative typically "drives" that process because they are the person who offers the money. Regardless of whether you are a seasoned professional at mediation or have yet to attend one, I wanted to share a wonderful video by Kevin Quinley about ways to make mediation a success. In just under 15 minutes, Kevin makes great points about how to prepare, how to conduct yourself and how to give yourself the best shot at getting your case resolved. I especially like Kevin's warning about the following three mistakes that have nothing to do with the facts, but can quickly derail the mediation:
1. Calling the opponent by the wrong name - it seems like an honest mistake, right? But it can offend the other party and result in a wall that can be difficult to break down;
2. Lack of empathy - Kevin stresses that one should always attend a mediation with an EQ (emotional intelligence quotient) in mind. Even if you disagree on liability or damages, you can still be empathetic to the injured party's situation.
3. Bluster in the opening moments. This goes along with EQ. Even if you think the case is a winner from your point of view, saying it out loud with a negative attitude at the start will likely stall any progress that could be made.
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