There is joy and aliveness beyond pain and there are ways to heal the need to struggle! The primary requirement for healing is the ability to admit, if I'm in pain — I'm in error. This admission does not mean that the "other" person is freed of responsibility for their actions, it simply gives the person brave enough to take responsibility power over their own lives.
Responsibility, interpreted through a mindset of victimhood, tends to look like guilt, fault and blame — totally invalid ideas. The Truth about responsibility is that it is simply a tool that uncovers the hidden internal dynamics that lead to the confused absoluteness referred to earlier.
Next comes the willingness to do one's own work — to take a different action based on self-responsibility. Love of Truth fosters the ability to tell oneself the truth and heal. This makes what the world calls impossible, achievable!
Effective tools for self-correction coupled with a willingness to actually use them are critical to the healing process! Haphazard use of the tools will not produce the desired changes in relationships, health, or finances. Without tools, real healing will remain just out of reach, and seem to be the impossible dream.
With the right tools, not only will healing occur, but, as a result of facing conflict with a responsible mind, a blame free mind, wisdom and empowerment will result!
A new mindset is needed to recognize and undo Blockage of Truth. One must redesign the personal thought system that has led to generations of confusion, pain and loss. Change starts with a 'renewing of the mind.' Though these ideas may at first sound crazy or impossible, thousands have changed their lives with the use of these tools.
Total explanation of this new, though actually ancient, thought system is not the objective here. That would take volumes. The goal is to give you practical, workable tools and a glimpse of the philosophy that backs them up. Another key to healing is an open mind.
YOU CANNOT SOLVE A PROBLEM
WITH THE MIND THAT CREATED IT!
Albert Einstein
The basis for all true healing, mental, physical and emotional, is knowing that the body is not real — it does not exist! Scientifically, this was best said by Albert Einstein when he said, "What we have heretofore called matter, is energy whose vibrations have been so lowered as to be perceptible to the senses. There is no matter!" Ancient teachings called matter 'appearances' and cautioned not to 'judge,' or be taken in by them.