Recent Engagements
266 Engagements & Counting!
Yonina Levin
of Riverdale
,
NY
&
Rafi Strauss
of Staten Island, NY.
Matched by
Sylvia Handler.
Dana Berg of West Orange, NJ &
Michael Coplin of Hollywood, FL.
Matched by
Tova Weinberg.
Mazel tov to all!
to YUConnects in honor of an engaged couple!
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Shiur Spotlight
of the Month
A Husband's Role
in Shalom Bayis
by Rabbi Yaakov Neuburger
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to listen to more Shiurim on the YUTorah/YUConnects page
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YUConnects
Center for the Jewish Future
Yeshiva University
500 W 185th St., Furst Hall 421
New York, New York 10033
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Dating Workshop
What: A dating workshop for women presented by Dr. Chaya Newman, online matchmaker and educator.
When:
Sunday,
July 31-
2:00-3:30 pm
Where:
Home of Susie Garber
147-37 70th Avenue,
Flushing, NY 11367
Ages:
W
omen 25+ yrs old
Cost:
$25
To Register:
Pre-registration required.
C
all or text
929-244-6813
SawYouAtSinai & DineNMeet Present:
Come Back to Camp Shabbaton
What:
3rd Annual "Come Back to Camp" Shabbaton!
Who: Ages 25-39
When: Labor Day Weekend September 2nd- 5th
Where: Camp Seneca Lake, PA
Cost:
$259 early bird special
Stay tuned for our YUConnects next social activity, a terrific chessed event in New Jersey, on Sunday,September 25th.
Check our website at the end of August for more information.
For more information on these activities
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Monthly Insight
Professional Op-Ed
Become the Person
You Want to Attract
A difficulty I encounter with my clients is that people "want it all." While this is a complex topic requiring its own article, people often describe that their match should be very attractive, a high achiever in the religious, academic, and/or financial areas, sensitive, fun/funny, and a number of other positive characteristics. What is interesting is that this expected list leaves no room for this ideal person to have any flaws, any negative characteristics, or anything that needs improvement or growth in his or her personal lives. The question I ask my clients at that point is simple: It's great you want to date a person who is all you described, but are
you
at such a level that that a person like this would want to date? Are you already the accomplished man or woman whom such an accomplished individual would want to marry?
There is often a mismatch between what we want in a partner, and what we are. There is a famous saying: "People like people who are like themselves." Mr. Perfect will likely want someone who is like him. Ms. Perfect will likely want someone equally attractive, accomplished, respectable, and put together. If you are not what your ideal partner would want, you can either become that person or re-examine your standards. There is no such thing as perfect.
Contributed by:
Yitzi Bardos, Professional Coach
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While you eat your ice cream with one hand, fill out your profile with the other! Don't miss out on our promo code "
summer" for one free month of gold membership!
Promo code is for new members and for previous or current gold members who upgrade to a new gold membership plan.
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YUConnects Pay It ForWed
Did you know that YUConnects has many resources for newly engaged couples?
Check out our website to see what we offer. And, your donation to our non-profit will entitle you to unique tefilla cards for use at your chuppa. Should you be blessed with making a Simcha, your support of YUConnects can ensure others benefit as well. What a beautiful way to "
Pay it ForWed!"
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