• Make a list of family members (and friends and neighbors) who are willing and able to help and what special skills and talents they possess
• Give family members/friends specific tasks or assignments (capitalize on their strengths and talents)
• Keep in mind that caring for a family member with Alzheimer's can be extremely stressful
• Anticipate that long-standing patterns of behavior and communication between family members may be intensified by the stress of the situation

• Periodically solicit feedback and offer praise and thanks
• Strive for open honest communication
• Encourage all involved family members and friends to become as educated as possible
• Encourage caregivers to attend a course on how best to communicate with someone who has Alzheimer's
• Encourage caregivers to attend support groups

• Share the burden of caregiving with as many people as possible.
• Assign out-of-town individuals tasks that do not require them to be geographically close to the patient (e.g., email updates, phone tree preparation)
• Set limits if a caregiver is saying or doing things that hurt more than help.
• Monitor each caregiver for signs of physical or psychiatric illness or burnout
• Insist that each person has vacations from their caregiving duties
• Establish clear lines of authority and communication 

You can view Dr. Sewell's presentation in full via the link below.

Practical Information For Family Caregivers

Whether you assume the lead role or you have been asked to join a caregiver team, you want to prepare yourself for the job ahead. One way is to make a plan and include your family members in the conversation. Understanding and preparing for what may lie ahead can ease stress on everyone.

We found this helpful article on the eldercare.gov website that provides an overview of caring for a senior and some helpful questions to ask before setting up your plan.

Face the Facts

Getting everyone on the same page is challenging for any team leader. Getting everyone on the same schedule is even more difficult. We have discovered a few resources for caregivers to aid in getting everyone on board.

Creating a Care Team Calendar

The Alzheimer's Association provides a free calendar for caregivers to create and share with their caregiver teams. More than just a schedule, this communication tool can post updates, announcements and availability. Click on the link below to learn more and sign up.

Creating a Care Team Calendar

Need More Tools?

The Caregiver Action Network has an entire toolbox for caregivers including 10 tips to help every caregiver. View their checklists and videos for more helpful information.

Caregiver Toolbox

1. Express compassion. What does this person need? Is it basic survival or simply understanding? Connect with your empathy. Look for positive ways you can improve how they feel.
2. Examine your own narrative. Is your tone calm and respectful?
3. Listen objectively. Everyone needs to feel understood, nurtured, and supported.
4. Seek an outside perspective or advice from family, friends or support group.