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  Insider News for the 
Sixth Circuit  Guardian ad Litem Program    
                                                                                                                                                                            February 2019 
In This Issue
Save These Dates!

Brown Bag Lunches: 







Pinellas BBLS
Friday,  March 15
Friday April 19
11:30 AM
Icot Office, Clearwater

Pasco BBLS
Friday,  March 15
Conditions for Return  
12:00 PM
West Pasco Govt  Ccnter
Commissioners Bd. Room


Friday April 12
12:00 PM
West Pasco Govt Center
Commissioners Bd. Room

Pinellas In Services:
Tuesday March 19
6:00-8:00 PM
"Adoption"
Icot Office, Clearwater

Tuesday April 16
6:00-8:00 PM
Crossover Attorneys
"How Delinquency and Dependency  Intersect"
Icot Office, Clearwater

Please register on the on-line events calendar under the Pinellas tab for the training    HERE

Pasco In Services:  
Thursday Feb 28
6:00-8:00 PM
Jason Zandecki, Esq.
"Post TPR/Adoptions"
West Pasco Govt. Center,  Commissioners Board Room 

Thursday March 14 
6:00-8:00 PM
David Gould Esq.
"Appearing in Court"
West Pasco Govt. Center Commissioners Board Room 

Tuesday April 16
4:00-6:00 PM
Kelly Davey, Pasco County Schools
"Trauma Informed  Training"
West Pasco Govt. Center
Commissioners Bd.Room

Please register on the on-line events calendar under the Pasco Tab for the trainings HERE

GALF Information:
If you would like to receive news and resources directly from the Guardian ad Litem Foundation of Tampa Bay, please  e-mail Tawnee at 
[email protected] and she will happily add you to the email list!    

January Stars

Rea Davis
Khedjia Nottingham
Dawn Rozzi
Ramita Buckley
Suzanne Pileggi
Laura Dunlap
Gina Logan
Jennifer Von Hofwegen
Mary Linda Armacost
Alanah McGuire
 Kim Anderson
 Kevin Sobat
Wayne Schulaski
 Jim Blaney
Steve Davis 
Claudia & Joel Smith
Beth Melton
 Robert Neelan
Margaret Neelan

Welcome New Staff 

Welcome to Pinellas CAM Jennifer Morrison. 

Welcome Newest
Certified Volunteers
 
Latrece Afre
Gail Cox
Jennifer Doyle
Nyree Epperson
Bethany George 
Courtney Irelan
Wendy Leben 
Christine Marine
Macaria Mercaldi
Rosemary Nickel 
Calvina Oliveri
Alonzo Petty
Natalia Piatkowski-Bihorel, 
Lynn Plazewski 
Melanie Rasskazov 
Andrea Reilly 
James "Bob" Ross
Brittany Schrader
James Terragnoli
Melynda Whitehead


Welcome January Pasco Class




Welcome January Pinellas class!

 
Great Peeps To Tweet


Kudos to 
Randi and  Jack Callahan.   Thank you very much for speaking to the parent and getting this case moving forward.  For years the State and GAL have been trying to track down this parent. Because of you the communications between the caregivers, our program and the children have thrived.  Case managers come and go but  volunteers stay through thick and thin.    We are finally turning the corner closer to permanency for both of the children!  
Kudos to Roger DePauw for taking another case!  Kudos to Ethan and Mary for taking on two more children. Kudos to Christa Landi for joining Wendy's team. 
Thanks to Christy Nicholson for everything you do for our kids and staff.  Thanks to Kristi Anson for being so phenomenal.
Kudos
  to  Judy Tangney
for taking care of so many cases in CAM absence.  Thank you   Audry Cline  for watching over some Pinellas children.
Kudos to  Michelle Beard, for all of her efforts and hard work.   Thank you   Pam Barkley , chauffeur extraordinaire at dawn's early light.
Hugo Rodriguez thank you!  Great transport. 
Thank you to Ann and Frank Zebert for their ongoing advocacy of a little girl where the case is taking a turn. Thanks  for your patience! Kudos to Dennis Fagan whose expertise is exceptional.
Thanks to Nancy Blunt for her gentle persistence on a long standing and difficult case.  Kudos Kay Brulo for such attention to detail!  Thank you to Amanda Deleon for her outstanding patience.
Kudos to  Khedjia Nottingham, for all of her assistance in the GAL office.  
Kudos from Karen to Amanda Liddy for helping to create a training for the I Team to enter their availability in Sign Up Genius.   Also to Gretchen Ackerson, Conni Galbraith and Michele Frost  for helping to cover display booths to recruit volunteers this past month.  A special thanks to Donna Rasmussen for her continued
assistance 
and support. Thanks to Jonathon Friedman  and all the adm staff for all your hard work. A special thank you to Jean Walder for your all your work  with Pasco county.  Kudos to Evelien Still for all of your hard and dedication.  A huge thanks to Kim Drake and Michelle Frost for working so hard for our kids. 

Good News Story

The specialized group home for a 17 year old young man whom I represented, was closing down. I was concerned about the emotional impact of this change, as well as his important school stability. I had a special bond with  this youth, having taught him to cook, encouraged him and taken him on social outings. After school, on the day his group home was closing, I took him to his favorite place, Starbucks, to lift his spirits. While there, I received an urgent call from case management, who reported that a newly licensed foster family had seen his profile and wanted to meet him. We gathered our drinks and drove to Eckerd to meet the family. This couple had  three teens. Believe it or not, two of them attended the same school.  The meeting went well and my teen decided to give this home a try. That was in October, 2018. Fast forward, while at times,  it was a tough adjustment, the whole family encouraged, supported and accepted him. He will be adopted this month! This past Christmas was the best ever, thanks to the family and thanks to the gift card from GALF!  He spent the money buying gifts for his new siblings and of course lots of Starbucks drinks! 

Submitted by, 
Carmen Stonecipher
Child Advocacy Manager

Self Care Tips

New Beginnings

Have you noticed that all the stores have sales on storage and cleaning supplies after the holidays?  After the generosity of giving and receiving so many presents over the holidays, the New Year is a great time to honestly take stock of your possessions or clutter.   Have you ever had the experience of spending precious  minutes, or hours looking for something in your home or office?  Is your clutter stressing you out?  Do you have things in your car, closet or garage you have not used for years?  For decades?  Are your items organized? There is no one right way to go about that task but try to google organizing, or decluttering.  The famous organizing expert Maria Kondo,  advises to only keep items that "spark joy".  In other words only keep items  you love.  Some organizers suggest decluttering by room. Some recommend purging by category of item, such as papers, books, cooking items and clothes,  as ultimately it assists with how to best re-organize those items by location after purging clutter.  There is no one size fits all solution. However,  we all recognize the relationship between excessive clutter and the  additional stress that adds to our lives.   Most items you no longer need or use, can continue to be useful through donation.  What ever works for you, consider investing some time to reduce, reuse, recycle and organize your possessions.  You will ultimately save time  and be rewarded with increased peace of mind. 
January/February
Anniversaries 

Sixteen
Susan O'Connell  

Eleven Years
Carol Conaway
 Margy Roberts
John Thonen
Jeffrey Shelton
Carol Allen 

Ten Years
Jan Jameson
Rita Becchetti
Marie Palis
Linda Medeiros
Claire Schaeffer
Carol Garnett

Nine Years
Ben Ami Braun
Adam Carozza
Steven See
Susan Harris
Ray Kulla
 
Eight Years 
Anna Ruth Cianci
Lynn Romano  
Seven Years
Kay Brulo
John Killinger
Russell Gordon
Michelle Bauman, Esq.

Six Years
Lillian McCabe
Linda Zolper
Kathleen Goodwin 
Rachel Gross
Christina Fitzpatrick 
Pamela Young
Larry Walters
Barbara Henderson
Tina Paquette

Five Years
Jean Cooley
Rev. Pamela O'Brien
Patricia Nash
Elizabeth Doheny
Sheri Johnson
Judith Brunner
Celaine Ellsworth
Chuck Magee
Donna Steger
Regina Tyler
Arthur Kern
Marie Riley
Cindy Johnson 

Four Years
 Andrea Mason
 Kelly Macko
 Margaret Neelan
 Robert Neelan
 Terri Brown 
 Terenycia Little
 Jack Sheppard
Sharon Sobotik
Catherine Henry
Mariela Tassone 
Dolly Ferraiuolo
Shari Silk
Amy Foster
Latrina Hall
Lisa Giannone
Loren Dusch
Sean Haskins
Tabitha Haskins
Shelly Ross
Caitlin Constantine
Chelsea Hardy, Esq.
Patty Brink
Rachael Curran
Amie Gerodimos
Patricia Haddad
    
Three Years
 Yvonne Flowers
 Chelsea Mulvin
Stephanie Shermeta, Esq.
Marguerite Harvey
Jennifer Quinn
Michelle Arthur
Gordie Jamieson
Joselyn Dulberg
Patricia Dekok
Carol Ninteau
James Rowe
Aleyda Briceno
Dala Daniels
Ruthmarie Sheaffer
Stephanie Pletcher
Falyn Hahn
Lorraine Bennett
Binnie Martin
Marilyn Voreis  

Two Years
Jona Witherspoon
Rebecca Nguyen
Karen Raihill
Joseph Schmittauer
Rita Yezzi
Douglas Airey
Barbara Janson
Agueda Maanao
Frences Moody
Sonja Musiol
Carmen Strickling
Diana Carsey
Rose McVicker
Kelly Peterson
Kathy Wagner
Rebecca Daggett
Julia Kaled
Paula Timoney
Leigh Green
Tao Wang
Katherine Baker
Cathleen Sompels
Valerie Yeakel
Gaby Gramling
Cynthia Sheppard 
Matthew Ceriale
 Ellen Moore
 Noreen Kraebel
 Dowlin Howell

One Year 
Glen DePasse
Jennifer Bravick
Trudy Duncan-Rayburn
Mia Sidlasky
Robert Mahler
Mark Peebles
Deborah York
Melissa Judkins
Regina Hubany
Constance Starks
Tracy Barwick
Patrice MacLauchlan
Steven MacLauchlan
E. Fontanes
Jonathan Friedman
Pamela Silva
Laura Knox
Ann Howley
Lucia Jaramillo
Niole Smith
Vincene Evans
Jayne Hollerbaugh
Jennifer Van Hofwegen
Johannah Hall
Nancy Zoufaly
Patricia Hermans
Mary Mercade
Alvaro Mercade   
 Robert Hord
 Kaylene Squitieri
 Annette Payne
 Bianca Lopez
 Ashleigh Thornton
 Alexandria Midthun
 

Director's Directions
Mariela Ollsen,
Circuit Director     

We must accept finite disappointment,
but never lose infinite hope.  
Martin Luther King, Jr.

With the new year come new changes and new challenges.  As a program we will continue to grow and learn from the challenges and continue to celebrate the successes.  None of this is possible without all of you.  From the volunteers, donors and staff we all work together to improve our system of care and the lives of the children we serve. Thank you!   

Remember to visit our state website   guardianadlitem.org
for new programs and opportunities for our volunteers and children.  Many of you are aware of the I am for the child Academy on the state website.  Check it out when you have a few minutes.  You will find courses on subjects we deal with everyday such as educational issues, immigration issues some of our kids face, incarcerated parents and psychotropic medication.  

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Thank you Pasco Guardian ad Litem Ruth Daley, who posted this above flyer at her job!  A little effort may reap big benefits for the children we serve. We appreciate all our volunteers who help get the word out. 
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Go The Extra Mile!
There is a great new opportunity for volunteers who drive at least 25 miles round trip to visit a child, or other specific purposes, to apply for travel reimbursement!  Details of this program, forms and a brochure can be located on the Fl. Guardian ad Litem website.    http://guardianadlitem.org/    To go directly to the program click  HERE.   If you have any questions, please reach out to your Child Advocacy Manager.  

Sixth Circuit Vital Statistics:
As of  January 2019

 
Children in Dependency   
 2851  (> )

Of those without a GAL
1071 (>)
Case Volunteers   
906 (> )
      
Transportation Approved Volunteers
        308 (> )
 

GAL Best Practices

Monthly Visits :   A reminder to visit each of your assigned children each month.  If you run into any barriers getting cooperation from caregivers or parents, reach out to your assigned CAM for guidance.  As soon as possible, enter your visit notes into Optima. If there are any concerns during your visit, e-mail or call your CAM.  Even if your assigned CAM is out of the office, there is always an on- call CAM in each county who is available to assist you. Also, remember that it is important to also observe the interaction between the parent and the child.  Ask your CAM for guidance as to how the frequency of observing the visits in your case. Don't forget the State GAL Program provides travel reimbursement under some conditions.  See the "Go the Extra Mile"  section above for the link.

Optima Tip:  Always remember when putting notes in  the Contact Log, to click on a person's name in the boxes on the right hand side of the screen.

Gathering Records:  It is important to encourage changed behavior for the parents; however, you must also objectively verify parents' meaningful participation in services and actual progress  t oward completion of assigned case plan tasks to determine if there is a change in behavior.  In making decisions on the best interest and safety of children for visitation and reunification,  the court relies not only on personal observation of changed behavior, but also documentary verification.  As such, you must request and gather the records from all of the providers, and make efforts to speak directly to the providers.  If you run into any barriers, or need assistance, please reach out to your CAM. Whether at a staffing or a court hearing, ensure you are prepared with the objective documentation of parental progress, in addition to reporting your first hand observations. Be sure to provide a copy of all documentation you have gathered to your CAM.  You may also upload the records into Optima.

Education: Please be sure to contact your child's school. You will need your Court Order, your Notice of Acceptance, and a copy of your Driver's License. These should be placed in your child's educational file. Request the child's records, including attendance and IEP or 504, and let your CAM know the status of your child in the educational setting.
Legal Forum
Guardian ad Litem Tips for Providing Effective Testimony

Guardian ad Litem volunteers and staff are frequently called to testify at hearings and trials. The following are some tips to assist you when providing the court with testimony to support our position for what is in the children's best interests. 

1. Listen to the question and only answer the question that is asked. Never volunteer information. This includes to the Guardian ad Litem Best Interest Attorney, but it also includes to the parents' and State Attorney. It is the other lawyers' roles to try and obtain information. The more information you give, the more you increase the likelihood that you give information that could affect the outcome in a case in a way that you may not like. In addition, you "open the door" to longer cross examination if you volunteer information to the Best Interest Attorney. Brief and concise answers are best. If the Best Interest Attorney wants more information from you, that attorney will ask follow up questions to your brief response.

2. If you don't know the answer, "I don't know" is a perfectly good answer. Never guess, never speculate, and never go on a gut feeling. Your job as a fact witness is to testify based on your personal knowledge. That means something that you have direct firsthand knowledge about the question being asked. 

3. If you don't understand a question, ask for the questioner to rephrase it. If asked a question at a hearing or in trial, and you provide an answer, it is presumed you understood the question. If you are confused in any way about what is being asked, or if you did not hear the entire question, asking that the question be rephrased (or repeated) is perfectly acceptable to do as a witness.

4. Never interrupt the question, and don't be in a hurry to answer. Always allow the person asking the question to finish asking the question completely before giving an answer. There is also no problem in taking your time before answering. Think through your answer. In addition, if there is an objection by counsel, do not provide any answer until the judge rules on that objection.

5. Listen to your attorney. This obviously applies during your attorney's questioning, but it also applies during another attorney's questioning of you. During any questioning, you cannot confer with the Guardian ad Litem Best Interest Attorney before answering. However, your attorney may object to a question and in that objection, information may be gleaned that could be helpful in fully understanding the question.

6. Stay calm. Often times a witness is nervous to testify at a trial or hearing. And opposing counsel may ask questions that seem to play on a witnesses' potential nervousness. Take a moment and breathe. Don't let an opposing counsel's attempted theatrics affect you. If you feel like things are going bad, don't worry about it. They are probably not as bad as you think. In addition, there is nothing to be accomplished by becoming nervous or upset.

7. Always tell the truth. You are testifying under oath. Any attempt at exaggerating, misrepresenting, or stating things that are not true can, and likely will, affect credibility.

8. Be proud of your role! The Guardian ad Litem is the only party in court that is truly there to represent the best interest of a child. That is an awesome thing! Very often, the Guardian ad Litem volunteer is the only person who has been by that child's side through the entire dependency case. Take pride in the fact that you are there to be that child's voice. Although hearings may not always have the results that we wanted, the child knows that their voice is important and you are providing that to the court. At the end of the day, that fact alone will mean something to that child regardless of the results of the hearing.

Submitted by, 
Dean Zona, Esquire 
Senior Child's Best Interest Attorney
New Port Richey Office
 (originally published October 2017)
Recruitment Corner
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GOOD PEOPLE KNOW GOOD PEOPLE. That is an old saying that rings true. And the Guardian ad Litem Program is replete with Good People...staff and volunteers alike. Each of us have our own specific realms of influence. What better way to advocate for the best interest of the children we serve than to utilize your influence to help promote the program and our need for volunteer advocates?
Are you....
* a social media user (i.e. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc.)? Won't you "Like" & "Follow" the Guardian ad Litem sites and "share" the postings with those who are connected with your social media? What better way to literally reach hundreds (or even thousands) of people with one "click"? 
* involved in a professional/civic group (i.e. Black nurses association, first responders support group, retired teachers association, journalist associations, rotary clubs, etc.)? Might you contemplate obtaining members' email addresses and getting their permission for us to send an introductory email inviting them to one of our Information Sessions?   
* a relative, friend or acquaintance of someone who works in the media? Is it possible that you can speak to them about covering/writing a story about the work we do?  
* a man who is a member of a fraternity or brotherhood group? If so, we, the Recruiters, would love to receive an invitation to speak to the group.  
* a woman who is a member of a sorority or sisterhood alliance? We welcome the opportunity to write an article or place an announcement in a newsletter.  
* associated with a church or religious organization? Would you be willing to inform them about the Guardian ad Litem Program by making our brochures, flyers and bookmarks available at Information Centers, announcement bulletin boards, etc.? Or, place an announcement in the church's printed program? We are more than happy to provide you with this informative collateral. 
By now, I bet you are thinking of other creative ways you are able to help! Please don't hesitate to contact us. We welcome your input and ideas! There continues to be hundreds of abused, neglected and abandoned Pasco and Pinellas county children who need (deserve) an advocate. Each one, with one...that's the mantra for the day.    Contact  Karen Malo  at 727-647-1858 [email protected] (Pinellas) or Larnelle Scott at 727-834-3493 [email protected] (Pasco)
On behalf of the children, I say (in the voice of a child)...."THANK YOU Ms./Mr. (insert your name). I don't know what I would do without you."

Submitted by
Larnelle Scott
Pasco Community Outreach Coordinator

  

January Pasco GAL of the Month
Katelyn Briggs

Katelyn 'Katie' Briggs has been a GAL for one year! Katie is married and has two children. She has has worked each of her cases and has dealt with every one in a professional manor. Katie is thorough, has great communication skills and gets her reports in on a timely manner. Katie currently volunteers on the team for out of County visits.  Out of county cases can be frustrating at times because the information has to go through several channels. However, Katie understands the importance of her role in out of county cases. She is the eyes on the child every month and has to get the reports back and services needed for the child(ren). I want to personally thank Katie for everything she has done in her role and what an important volunteer she is to the Guardian ad Litem program and to all her kiddo's!   Thank you Katie for all you do. You are amazing!

Child Advocacy Manager,
Kristi Anson

December Pinellas GAL of the Month
Gaby Gramling

Gaby Gramling has been a volunteer with the Guardian ad Litem program for approximately two years. During that time she has been on a very difficult case with two children who are placed separately. One of the children has had severe behavioral and mental health issues and has been in approximately 15 placements, and several different counties as far as Jacksonville. Gaby has kept in close touch with co-guardians, the foster parents at each placement, teachers at every school, and the multiple counselors involved. She has requested records for the children and parent, observed the parent's visits, and observed sibling visits. She attended numerous difficult staffings, attended court hearings, and wrote excellent reports as they were based on her extensive information gathering. Gaby's patience,  diligence, and calm demeanor has been demonstrated through all the struggles and allowed her to work well with a very difficult parent.  Gaby's hard work, and her exceptional attitude going above and beyond to help children who really need it, make her such a pleasure to work with. She is an outstanding volunteer to the children. 

Child Advocacy Manager,
Sara Van Haele

January Pinellas Guardian ad Litem of the Month Lisa Sjobeck

Lisa is new to the GAL program, but she has already been amazing. Lisa moved here from Minnesota four years ago. She and her husband, Jeff raised their two children in Minnesota. While her children were school age, she was a volunteer in her children's school. She was part of the "reading buddy" program, where she worked with children who were having trouble reading. While working with these children, she not only helped them read, but made sure the children had proper clothing for cold winters as well as warm meals at school.   Lisa eventually was  e lected to the school board. Her passion, while on the school board, was for students who didn't "necessarily have a voice." One can easily see why her background prepared her for her position as a Guardian ad Litem volunteer. 

Lisa has been working with a child who is in the hospital due to health issues and no place else to go; her mother doesn't want to put up with her behaviors. Lisa has visited this young girl more often than the requirement of every 30 days. When Lisa was going out of the state for Christmas, she made sure that someone would be there on Christmas for her child. Her birthday is coming up soon, and Lisa is planning a party for her in her hospital room, with decorations, cake and the works.

Lisa has become a mentor for this child and has shown her the meaning of unconditional support as well as tough love.  Lisa was drawn to this child, and has become a very strong voice for her. Thank you Lisa,  for all you have done for a child who needed someone to care, someone to draw boundarie s and to be the friend you have become.

Child Advocacy Manager,
Dianne Bernard    
For the Children
Financial Literacy
 for Teens and Young Adults
February 28, 2019
Time 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM
Location Ready For Life
2300 Tall Pines Drive #100
Largo FL, 33771

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Saturday, March 9th: I Am For The Child: Taste of Pasco 1pm - 4pm
Join us for a fun filled evening with food, music and fine wine. Delight in the gourmet tastes from many amazing restaurants. Hear inspiring stories from families involved in the Guardian ad Litem Program. Help lift up the voice of a child-learn more about the work volunteer advocates do every day to protect abused, abandoned or neglected children in Pasco County.    Pre-registration is preferred but walk-ins will be accommodated. Tickets are $25/ person. Sponsorships are also available. All proceeds go to support children in foster care in Pasco County. Learn More Here
         
Case Manager of the Month 
       
In the spirit of partnership, the Guardian ad Litem Program nominates a Case Manager of the Month from the case management agencies serving under Eckerd Community Alternatives..  Our Case Manager from Pinellas,  for the month for January 2019,  is Joanna Young from Directions.  Joanna   is always very responsive to emails/phone calls, and stays on top of things. She's a pleasure to work with!  Our Case Manager from Pasco  is Jameel Gay from Youth and Family Alternatives.  Jameel  is very professional in dealing with all of the cases. He went out of his way over the holidays to insure parents received holiday visitation. He is calm in dealing with difficult parents. He always remembers to keep the GAL in the loop and abreast of any changes in the cases.

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Guardian ad litem Core Competencies
GAL Core Competencies
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Commitment to Children- The children for whom we advocate are our most important priority.

Communication Built on Trust- The Program has a culture of open communication, active listening, teamwork, and regard for the views of others. This includes being honest and straightforward with the children we represent in keeping with their level of age and maturity.

Collective Empowerment- 
Each circuit has the authority and responsibility to make and implement the best decisions to meet the children's needs. This empowerment must be passed on to volunteers, staff and attorneys.

Collaboration- The Program proactively seeks to develop relationships that promote the well-being of the whole child.

Courtesy- The Program values all who engage in this challenging work and ensures they are treated with respect and dignity.