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November 2017
New Year's Brunch - Hold the Date!
For the third straight year, we will be gathering for a New Year's Brunch on January 7 at the Red Dog Tavern in the  Madison Hotel in Morristown.  Watch for registration information for this popoular annual event.
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Combating Ageism Program
Ashton Applewhite, a nationally known author and activist, spoke to the North-Central NJ Chapter on May 20 about her book,  This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism. The group heard Applewhite discuss the subtle and not-so-subtle ways ageism creeps into our conversations. Sometimes, she noted, even people 50 and older repeat stereotypes without realizing the implications. Even the typical comment, "You don't look 65," can reinforce the stereotype that growing older is a negative development. Applewhite suggested sample responses to ageist comments.  The talk, given at the Springfield Public Library, was followed by a lively question-and-answer period as participants
shared their observations and experiences. 

Applewhite has been recognized by The New York Times, National Public Radio and the American Society on Aging as an expert on ageism.

Susan Collins, TTN's Executive Director, welcomed the attendees and outlined TTN's mission and benefits to members.

Ashton Applewhite, Susan Collins and some attendees

Summer Bagel Brunch
Connecting with TTN members you know, meeting new friends, basking in the sunshine while watching the reflections in a pool -- what better way to spend a Sunday during the dog days of summer than at the North-Central NJ TTN Bagel Brunch on July 16.
 
The locale was Rosemary Byrne's home (and beautiful backyard) in Englewood. At one of our most successful events to date, more than 35 members and guests shared brunch, experiences and conversation, and got to know each other. The words of the day were food, laughter and relaxation.
 


North-Central NJ Chapter Chair Ann Freedman and  Membership Chair Susan Lilly  spoke about the many benefits of TTN membership as we transition from one life phase to another - the friendships, the networking, the support, and the opportunity to share information and common experiences. Susan and Ann highlighted our numerous activities (such as our holiday brunch and museum visits), our programs (such as a talk by anti-ageism advocate Ashton Applewhite and our housing alternatives panel), our day and evening peer groups, and our growing number of special interest peer groups (books, films and our latest, Culture Mavens).
 
Rosemary gave us the opportunity to share something about ourselves with a question for each guest. The inquiries ranged from "which famous person would you like to meet?" to "have you ever lied about your age"? - and everything in between. The answers generated discussions that were at times serious and thought-provoking and at others, simply hilarious. In short, a thoroughly enjoyable afternoon!

Chihuly Exhibit at the NY Botanical Garden
On September 9,  several members of TTN North Central NJ braved the trip across the GW Bridge to the Bronx to experience the exhibit of Chihuly glass at the NY Botanical Gardens.

The weather was perfect! Our early Saturday morning arrival made for easy parking and an almost empty tram ride to  survey the fabulous park and enabled us to avoid the crowds that appeared later in the day.
 
The Chihuly works were spectacular and well-positioned throughout the park. It was difficult for us to pick a favorite - the glorious blue "Sapphire Star" that shimmered in the sun or the pieces resting in a boat on the pond where you could enjoy the art work as well as its reflection in the water. The pieces in the Conservatory, sometimes strategically placed among the plants and trees, often appeared to be part of the foliage.  The various short films shown in the Library's auditorium were a highlight of the visit. These fascinating 4 to 5 minute videos gave us insight into the Chihuly studios, the fine art of glass blowing and the team work involved in creating and exhibiting these massive works of glass art. 

A bit of lunch at the Garden's café and it was a great day for all.



 Stickley Museum Visit
A beautiful fall day with sun shining down on a historic house. On October 21, TTN members were treated to a docent-led tour of the house and grounds of Gustav Stickley, the leader of the "Arts and Crafts" movement, in Morris Plains.  The walking tour included a detailed look at Stickley's architecture, furniture and household items. Stickley was the "Martha Stewart" of his day - designing, manufacturing and selling his wares, and then promoting them in his magazine. Thanks to Sandy Camlek, who organized the successful outing. The group had lunch at a local restaurant after the tour. 

Enjoying the sun before the tour
Lunch after the museum


All Were Aboard for Montclair Peer Group's 10th Anniversary
The TTN-Montclair Peer Group celebrated its 10th anniversary on June 15 with a luncheon in a private train car at Rod's, a restaurant in Morristown. The refurbished Pullman parlor car, from the beginning of the 20th century, provided a lovely backdrop of lustrous woodwork.
 
Members reminisced about how they first learned about TTN, why they joined (unanimously because of the terrific women they met at interesting TTN events) and how they were a pioneering peer group in New Jersey. This dynamic group alternates meetings between external activities and in-home topical discussions. 
 
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Even geography isn't a deterrent to participation as one member, who moved to Vermont several years ago, continues to attend meetings. Now that speaks volumes about the bonds created withing  this group!

Jersey Girls 10th Anniversary
On October 15th, the TTN Jersey Girls peer group celebrated 10 years of friendship in style at the Chart House in Weehawken, NJ.

Everyone enjoyed a fabulous brunch and a beautiful water view. The event was attended by Jane Kalfus, Rosemary Byrne, Panny King, Joan Knauer, Joan Freed, Lanie Gastman, Elizabeth Richter, Arlene Simon, Susan Lilly and Judy Glick.  Each shared memories of times spent together and gave individual toasts to many more years of friendship. 

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TTN Volunteers With RAM in  Baltimore
For two days in October, Dale Swisher and Carla Loffredo of  NJWIT and Irene Meyer volunteered with Remote Area Medical (RAM) in Baltimore, Maryland. RAM teams up with various human services organizations to bring free health clinics to various parts of the US for those who cannot afford the services. With hundreds of eyeglass frames on hand, patients were examined and got a prescription and the volunteers then helped them choose the right frame. Lenses were ground and installed and people could leave with a new pair of glasses in less than two hours. In addition, a dental clinic, flu shots, haircuts, legal aid, housing aid and employment counseling were available. What a rewarding experience for us!! On these two days, the RAM clinic served 1,234 patients for $640,192 in total value of care. We were happy to help such a worthwhile cause. We were especially excited to meet Stan Brock, an amazing entrepreneur who founded RAM in 1985 after he was injured in Guyana. Former manager of the largest cattle ranch in Guyana, star of Wild Kingdom, actor, author, journalist, black belt and pilot, Stan has mobilized hundreds of thousands of volunteers and healthcare professionals to deliver hundreds of millions of dollars of free medical services.  Please visit their site, sign up to volunteer or donate to this worthwhile organizaton.  https://ramusa.org     


Culture Mavens

When members of the Culture Mavens special interest group met at Rosemary Byrne's house on Oct. 17, the evening began with excited chatter about currently running and upcoming shows.  "The Band's Visit," a new production of "Carousel ," the new Steve Martin/Amy Schumer show "Meteor Shower,"  " The Portuguese Kid " and the revival of "My Fair Lady" all got attention. 

The group then discussed new movies, including the  Noah Baumbach production, " The Meyerowitz Stories" , which is in some theaters and streaming on Netflix; the new biopic about Thurgood Marshall (" Marshall "), which focuses on a rape case early in his career; " Professor Marston and the 2 Wonder Women"  and the Teaneck International Film Festival. 
 
TV shows were next. New shows discussed were " Berlin Station " on EPIX, " Mindhunter" and " Ozark" on Netflix, " Grace and Frankie ", " The Deuce" and " Curb Your Enthusiasm" on HBO and the " The Vietnam War, " the new exhaustive documentary by Ken Burns and Lyn n Novick on PBS. 

We discussed a number of other activities, exhibits and programs, including those offered by One Day University and the Metropolitan Museum. We left having enjoyed each others' company and feeling culturally enriched!

Our Film Group's Hallmark: Lively Discussions

Our films buffs have had a busy and enjoyable year. Meeting once a month at members' homes, we discussed and reviewed a wide-ranging variety of interesting and provocative films. We started the year with "Manchester by the Sea" (outstanding performances and Academy and Golden Globe Awards for Casey Affleck) and will end with "Lady Bird" and "Three Billboards Outside Ebbing Missouri" (both likely award nominees and who can resist Frances McDormand?). In between came such films as "Lion" (the beautiful story of a young Indian boy's long search for his family), "Hidden Figures" (the inspiring film about the unheralded work of African-American women at NASA), "Victoria and Abdul" (with the extraordinary Judi Dench), "Menasche" (a look inside the culture and practices of an Orthodox Jewish community), and the documentary "I'm Not Your Negro" (a view of race in America as told by James Baldwin). Of course, discussion of one film at our meetings frequently morphs into reviews of others our "filmies" have seen.
 
In addition to our usual spirited discussions and critiques, as award season approached we conducted our own balloting and gave our own predictions. We're didn't always agree with the "experts" but we had great fun. 

Taking in the Art Treasures of NYC's Subways 

The 10-year-old Montclair Peer Group finally got around on Nov. 10 to a rewarding excursion long on its to-do list: the NYC Subway Art Tour.  The arts program is managed by MTA Arts & Design, which has commissioned more than 170 permanent works of art for facilities the MTA owns and operates. 
 
Led by Seinfeldian guide Darryl Reilly, the peer group saw mosaics, murals and an installation of miniature bronze whimsical figures scattered throughout the 14th Street & 8th Avenue station. In Times Square, the group viewed 35 Times Square-themed ceramics embedded in glass blocks and created by artists who ranged from the well known (Lichtenstein) to the up and coming.   The group also learned there are 468 active subway stops on the system.
 
Although many peer group members have been in these stations, they never noticed the terrific art around. Next time you're there, take a look. You'll see that someone is working to make the transit experience a little more civilized.  
 
Closeup: "Losing my Marbles"
Group shot in front of "Losing My Marbles" at Port Authority Bus Terminal.