For days now, I've been reading about parents up in arms and torn by the new legislation that makes  spanking your child illegal in South Africa.

I must admit that I was quite shocked, not by the ruling, but to discover how many parents are asking for an alternative.  And, rightfully so...

Many parents feel frustrated for having been left without any other option. Whether it was the responsibility of government or a parent to seek this alternative remains debatable - and frankly, it's too late for debate now.