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Parshas Balak 5776
July 22-23, 2016
Shalom and hello everyone! 
I hope you are doing well and enjoying the splendid Summer weather. 

This shabbos is shiva asar b'tamuz.  
I will be in shul this week as we prepare for the taanis nidcheh, deflected fast day, on Sunday. As a reminder, we recite selichos Sunday morning and lain from the Torah at mincha. 

There are numerous laws and minhagim that extend to the Fast day and ensuing Three Week period. 

I present the following Three Week Halachic Primer so that we may become familiar with these rules. 

Let us pray for the ultimate geulah and transform this tekufah into one of great simcha. Amen! 
 

LAWS OF THE FAST OF 17 TAMMUZ 5776   (SHIVA ASAR B'TAMMUZ) - Rabbi Aaron D. Mehlman

The 17th of Tammuz fast falls on Shabbos and is deflected to Sunday, July 24, 2016.  The taanis starts early Sunday morning at dawn and concludes Sunday evening at nightfall.

Because the taanis is a nidcha (deflected), certain leniencies are triggered. Do not hesitate to contact the Rabbi to determine your fasting status.

Please refer to the timetable above for exact start/end times.

Men over 13 and women over 12 must fast on the 17th of Tammuz.

Pregnant or nursing women who find it difficult to fast (or generally feel weak) are absolved from fasting. The elderly and sick are permitted to eat on this fast day.

On may rinse with Listerine/mouthwash on the fast of 17th of Tammuz.

One is permitted to take medication (preferably without water) on the fast day. If water is needed, consult a competent Rav/halachic authority.

Washing, bathing and showering are permitted on the 17th of Tammuz.

LAWS OF THE THREE WEEKS

The three week period of mourning called, "bein hamitzarim," begin Saturday night, the 17th of Tammuz.

" Hamitzarim " means difficult or painful, and references the time period between the historically tragic 17th of Tammuz and the 9th of Av.

This period of collective soul searching commemorates the destruction of both Temples in Jerusalem, the disruption of Jewish kingship and am yisroel's long exile. According to seforim, it's an appropriate time to do teshuvah.

To help recall these events and to encourage yearning for the third bais hamikdash, our sages imposed restrictions on joyous events and limited certain pleasurable activities during this period.

These restrictions intensify over the three weeks, culminating with the fast of Tisha B'av.

The following are general rules for the three weeks.  As we approach Shabbos Chazon and Tisha B'av, we will present those relevant laws in a separate halachic primer.

One may not marry during the three weeks. However, one may get "engaged" and even throw a party to celebrate his/her engagement.

We refrain from listening to live music. Taped music is included in this prohibition, according to many poskim. Small children may listen to music and a supervising parent may be present. Background music in a store or played during radio commercials are likewise permitted.

We do not haircut or shave during this period. If one needs to haircut or shave for "livelihood" purposes, a Rabbi should be consulted. Cutting nails is permitted.

We refrain from reciting the shechiyanu blessing during the three weeks on clothing or food. However, one may purchase new items and delay usage or consumption until after Tisha B'av.

The shechiyanu blessing may be recited on shabbos chazon or rosh chodesh during the three week period.

If a new food item will prove unavailable, one may recite the shechiyanu and consume the food even on a weekday.

May we merit to witness the rebuilding of Jerusalem and the ingathering of the exile speedily in our day! Amen.
Shabbos TimeTable


Erev Shabbos Kodesh, Parshas Balak

Friday, July 22, 2016, 16 Tamuz 5776


Mincha/kabbalos shabbos 
6:40 pm
Early Candle Lighting not before 
6:49 pm
note: one must daven mincha before lighting candles

Late Candle Lighting   
8:02 pm


Shabbos Kodesh - Parshas Balak

July 23, 2016, 17 Tamuz 5776

Shachris 
9:00 am
Mincha     
8:00 pm
Maariv/Shabbos ends  
9:08 pm
                               

Please make every effort to attend Shabbat Mincha services throughout the summer!
Thank you to our guest speakers this Shabbos
Shabbos Morning - Andy Bloom

Our guest darshan in shul on Shabbos morning will be our very own board member, Andy Bloom.  A s a member of The Kiddush Committee, he has  helped make the Ohav Sholom kiddush great again.
 
Andy is working with Melania's ghost writer right now, feverishly copy/pasting what promises to be a Terrific Dvar Torah


Shabbos Afternoon - 
Yaakov Wieland

Between Mincha and Maariv, Yaakov Weiland will give a  shiur o n Likutey Moharan by Rebbe Nachman of Breslov. Come explore the mystical and inspirational teachings of Rebbe Nachman in the original.

Yaakov Weiland has an MSW and has been published in Aish.com and OU.org, among other publications. 
You can subscribe to his blog at  www.yaakovweiland.blogspot.com
Thank You to our kiddush Sponsors 
   
Felicia Gamss, who is commemorating the yahrtzeit of her father, Nachum ben Aharon z"l. 
 
Toby Weinberger, commemorating the yahrztzeits of her grandfather, Avraham ben Shmuel Elyakim HaCohen z"l,  and her grandmothers, Miriam bas Elazar a"h and Toby bas Shalom HaCohen a"h.

May their neshamas have an aliya in Gan Eden.

Schedule for Fast of Tamuz - Sunday, July 24, 2016

Fast begins 4:33 am
Shacharis (w/Selichot) 8:30 am
Mincha (w/special laining) 7:45 pm
Fast ends 9:07 pm

Click below for a printable PDF of Rabbi Mehlman's  Laws of Shiva Asar B'Tamuz and the Three week Primer 

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Have a wonderful shabbos,
 
See you in shul!

Rabbi Aaron D. Mehlman
erev shabbos kodesh parshas Balak - 17 Tamuz 5776


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