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Vol. 35 No. 9 

September 2014
 
Jerry Cutler


Rabbi's Message September
Rabbi Jerry Ram Cutler


 


 

I am getting older. I know that because I can't climb the stairs to my new apartment by taking two steps at a time. I have learned to be patient and take one after another. So, where am I rushing anyway? On September 26, the second day of Rosh Hashanah, I will be celebrating a birthday. It's not your ordinary run of the mill birthdays because I will be entering a milestone year. It is also significant because my mentor and teacher who taught me the basic rules of conduct, charity, deportment, caring, love, kindness, Rabbi Abraham Cutler, my revered father, died exactly 37 years ago to the day.


 

A major part of my soul went with him on his journey and I have yet to fully recover. Yes, I have married a most remarkable woman and together we kvel as we look upon our daughters who were never afforded the thrill and honor of meeting my father. I wish they had.


 

As I reflect on the bizarre coincidence of having the man who played such a major role in the conditioning and learning of my life having passed away on that particular day, I think that maybe there is a Talmudic or Kabalistic meaning to that twist of fate.


 

Had he lived a longer life, I never would have met or gone out with my beautiful Jeff as she, at the time, wasn't Jewish. Had I gone with her while he was still with us, the shock alone would have killed him. But, from our marriage came two of the most incredible girls any couple would be fortunate to have. Aside from inheriting my dad's intelligence and humor, they have, thanks to Jeff, inherited a profound love and dedication to Yiddishkeit my father had devoted his life to.


 

They have learned that the world is not their personal catering firm and that there are other people in the world who have equal rights to their own, that the truth is not black or white but gray.


 

They have learned who their true friends are and who turned out to be faithless. They have experienced the pain of loss of a loving grandfather and granny and Uncle Irwin, my brother, as well as the untimely passing of their good friends.  So, they treasure the loves of those who remain.  They have learned to be tolerant of the idiosyncrasies of others as they have their own mishugas, eccentricities as well.


 

So, the teachings of our fathers and mothers have filtered down from one generation to another.  And, all this would never have come to fruition had my blessed and brilliant father not passed away on my birthday.  I sometimes wonder, did he, with his macabre sense of humor orchestrate his demise as we began the New Year, on my birthday? Or, was it pre-ordained by a Higher Power? Did Rabbi Abraham Cutler, who, perhaps, was able to foresee the future, realize what Jeff, Chelsea and Tess would mean to me sanction the marriage? I would like to think so.


 

I look forward to seeing you at the High Holiday services. May it be a year filled with good health, good cheer, good news and lots of good mazel.


 

Much love, Rabbi Jake


SHABBAT AT LENNY'S
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Coming up this Friday, August 29, CAT celebrates the Sabbath with stimulating discussion, humor and quality grub at Lenny's Deli. Rabbi Herb Freed and Rabbi Jerry Cutler will host  the evening. Call the office now to reserve your place!

(310) 473-3100

It's That Time of Year Again
For Best Seats, You Better Hurry Up!!!
As the High Holidays approach, CAT prepares to put on, yet again, another stellar set of services at Beverly Hills High School. Cantors Barry Gordon and Tanja Solnik will be joining Rabbi Cutler on the Bimah. Reserve seats now! 
Tashlich by the Sea

Join us for Tashlich as we collectively cast our sins into the sea and celebrate a job-well-done with bagels and lox. Also to top it off, let's celebrate the Rabbi's Milestone Birthday with a post Tashlich b-day bash! Expect cake and music!

 Click HERE to download and print form 

 

 

Creative Arts Temple is pleased to announce 

we have moved!

 

Our new numbers are:

 

phone: (310) 473-3100

fax: (310) 473-3110

 

CAT's new address is:

 

Creative Arts Temple

1525 S. Sepulveda Blvd., Suite E

Los Angeles, CA 90025

 

Please continue to send all correspondence to our P.O. Box

 

Creative Arts Temple

P.O. Box 241831

Los Angeles, CA 90024


 

Moving Forward ...

Hallelujah! The rabbi's healed, the temple's moved, and now we're moving forward. 
 
After a hiatus, we're delighted to announce that Creative Arts Temple will resume Friday night services starting November 7, after the High Holidays.

 

SHOP AT RALPHS?

 

If you've already registered your Ralphs Rewards Card with Creative Arts Temple, thank you very much! September 1st is the renewal date, so you need to re-register to continue supporting the temple while you grocery shop!


 

If you haven't yet enrolled, please do so now!

 

Purim Group  
 

 HERE'S HOW:

 

Just click on this link and print the document! At the bottom of the page, there's a barcode that your cashier will scan. Make sure to bring it next time you go to Ralphs and present it at checkout. From that moment on, whenever you go grocery shopping, you're contributing to the temple! 

 

Or you can create an account on Ralphs.com and link your card to Creative Arts Temple.

Please sign up and re-enroll your rewards card every year! If you have any questions, please contact the Temple Office at 310-473-3100
Arne's Corner

Time Marches On

For New York Jews, spending time during the summer months in the Borscht Belt  was as American as motherhood and apple pie. But if you were a guest at Kutsher's Hotel in the Catskill's, your memories and old photographs are now all that remain. The 1,300 acre resort that was sold in 2013 has been torn down to be replaced by a health and wellness spa.


 

Kutsher's was most famous for "LOTS" of Kosher food, legendary Jewish entertainers, a basketball camp and annual tournament frequented by Wilt Chamberlain. Built in 1907 by brothers Max and Louis Kutsher and later taken over in 1946 by Louis' son, Milton. Kutsher's was one of, if not the last, remaining hotels in the Borscht Belt.


 

Alas, an era gone by, so sad for those of us that remember.


 

This article is being written at a time of a "72 hour Truce" between Israel and Hamas. I'm putting on Tefillin, got my fingers crossed, saying my prayers, and wishing with all my might for a more permanent "fix." Yes! Israel is winning the war, but at the cost of 67 Israeli lives, not to mention the 1600 Palestinians (among the many victims abused by Hamas). As Israeli P.M. Netanyahu puts it, "We use missiles to protect our children, Hamas uses children to protect their missiles."


 

Do I need to mention?  The "unbiased" UN has begun an investigation of "war crimes" allegedly committed by Israel against the Palestinians. Not the other way around. They don't even consider Hamas to be in violation.


Why does the U.S. support the UN?  And for that matter why do we (the U.S.) send financial support to Hamas (a DECLARED terrorist organization?)  Ask your congressional representative for the answers? I did.


Arnold Charitan
President

 


September Birthdays
Birthday Cake

 

 
Robby Fraser
Sept 1
Florence Davis
Sept 8
Kelly Lester
Sept 10
Mr. Morton Steinberg
Sept 10
Elaine Stern
Sept 10
Marty Trugman
Sept 10
Melville Glickman
Sept 13
Stacey Levine
Sept 13
Sharon Karp
Sept 14
Elaine P. Schulman
Sept 14
Norm Crosby
Sept 15
Spencer Kantor
Sept 15
Art Metrano
Sept 22
Warren Sefton
Sept 22
Ann Radow
Sept 24
Marni Zaifert
Sept 24
Rabbi Jerry Cutler
Sept 26
Murray J. Smith
Sept 28
Marilyn Frandzel
Sept 29
Beatrice Boykoff
Sept 30

 

    
      
September
Anniversaries
      


  
Jonathan & Eva Ellman
Sept 3
Howard & Sheila KrupnickSept 3
Arnold & Sue KoganSept 6
Earl L. & Aya Kimura GoldbergSept 7
Robert & Phyllis SlaytonSept 8
Mitchell & Rochelle BlumenfeldSept 20
Adam & Meredith Rosenberg Tessler
Sept 21
 
  

August Oneg Sponsors 

Thank you Oneg Sponsors who help defray costs of Shabbat Service, hall rental, food, and personnel 

 

Arnold & Gladys Charitan
Annual sponsors; In honor of their anniversary
Morris Diamond
In honor of his birthday
Marvin & Bettye Donsker
In honor of their anniversary
Norman Kantor
In honor of Mildred Friedmann's birthday
June Miller
Annual Sponsor
Robert & Phyllis Slayton
Annual Sponsor

 

If you are celebrating a simcha (happy occasion) and want to honor or memorialize someone special, please consider contributing to Creative Arts Temple and receive a blessing from Rabbi Cutler.

 

 

August Yarhzeits
  

 

 

May You Be Comforted Among the  

 Mourners of Zion 

 

 

Florence Davis
In memory of Lawrence R. Simon
Allan & Harriet DiamondIn memory of Marine Feuerman
Earl & Annette ErdmanIn memory of Beatrice Dickman
Jay & Lois FoonbergIn memory of Esther Foonberg
Sarah GoldbergIn memory of Joseph & Rose Lamm
Joe IngberIn memory of Leah Ingber
Norman KantorIn memory of Ara Easley
Seymour LesonskyIn memory of Margaret Lesonsky
Marybeth LevineIn memory of Sylvia Lytton
Harold LubickIn memory of Eldrie Jowan Lubick
June MillerIn memory of David Rosenblatt
June MillerIn memory of Debbie Greenburg
Eva RichIn memory of Adolph Rich
Warren & Lois SeftonIn memory of Harold Schneider
Stuart StruhlIn memory of Archie Struhl
Ruth VeprinIn memory of Harry Raphael

 

 

 

 

THE ONE I LOVE

 

"The One I Love"...a Duplass Brothers Production starring Mark Duplass and Elizabeth Moss, would be better served as a Rod Serling "Twilight Zone" TV production. And, before you reach to any sordid and unwarranted conclusions about my critique, I must applaud the efforts of two first timers. director, Charlie McDowell for his directorial ingenuity and screenwriter, Justin Lader, for creating a sophisticated Hitchcockian love story.


 

"The One I Love," is a pleasant comedy on a weighty subject and is a credit to the creative talents of all of the aforementioned for making it as palatable as it is.

It is clever in its ingenuity and would have been better served had it been a tad shorter in its cleverness with less repetition.


 

The story begins simply with a married couple, Duplass and Moss, seeking marital advice from therapist Ted Danson.  His advice is to go to a specific country home to hopefully reignite that initial spark they once shared.  


After their arrival they individually discover a cottage on the property.  From this point on, the story gets a bit complicated - but, very interesting and humorous. I can't divulge the ending because the spirit of Mr. Hitchcock will suddenly appear and threaten me with bodily harm. It's a good yarn and, if you have been paying close attention, not too difficult to untangle.
 

 

 
 

The One I Love: 2 bagels and a Shmear out of 4

 

In This Issue
Rabbi's Message
Tashlich by the Sea
Arne's Corner
September Birthdays
September Anniversaries
August Oneg Sponsors
September Yahrzeits
Calendar
Get Well
Important
 Message

We will be resuming our Friday night Shabbat services after the High Holidays.

 

 **********


Shabbat Candle Lighting Times 

 

Sept 4
6:57 pm
Sept 126:47 pm
Sept 196:38 pm
Sept 266:28 pm
Upcoming Events

Rosh Hashanah Services
Beverly Hills High School
Wed (9/24) @ 8 pm
Thur (9/25) @ 10 am

Tashlich
Mother's Beach, 
Marina Del Rey
Fri (9/26) @ 10 am

Kol Nidre
Beverly Hills High School
Fri (10/3) @ 8 pm
 
Yom Kippur
Beverly Hills High School
Sat (10/4) @ 10 am

Do you need a really good
Handy Man?

Alex Armendariz 
(310) 827-4316 
is your answer! 

 


Alex works with Creative Arts Temple, setting up for Shabbat services and the High Holidays; he's honest, trustworthy, and an integral part of the CAT family.
"An Island in Time"
Cantor Kathy Robbins
Kathy CD 

Cantor Kathy has most generously donated her CD, "An Island in Time: Contemporary Music for the Eve of Shabbat," to Creative Arts Temple.    

 

The price is $18 and we receive 100% of the profits. We all come out winners!

 

For orders, please call our office at (310) 473-3100 or email us at

[email protected]

Cantor Kathy Robbins

 

 

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Creative Arts Temple Contact Info:

Creative Arts Temple 
P.O. Box 241831 
Los Angeles, CA 90024

  

Contact:  Janice Metz

Tel: (310) 473-3100
Fax: (310) 473-3110
 
Share your Simcha with your Temple Family 
If you are celebrating a birthday, anniversary, 
engagement, or any other special occasion, please consider sharing this happy event with your Temple family by donating to the Oneg Shabbat and receive a blessing from the Rabbi and Cantor.

If you are unable to attend services that month, please consider making a donation anyway and we will gladly mention your name and occasion. 

Creative Arts Temple 
and the Board  

Sends Get Well Wishes and a 

Speedy Recovery to:

 

Ted Blumenfeld

 

Allan Diamond

 

Bridget Drake

 

Robin Frontieri

 

Stuart Glickman

 

Valerie Harper

 

Rocky Kalish

 

Robert Slayton

 

 

Tribute Cards
A Thoughtful Remembrance
Purim Group
Purim Group
Purim Group
Purim Group
 
With a donation of Chai ($18), CAT will mail out a tribute card in your honor, for birthdays, anniversaries, get-well-soon wishes, and yahrzeits. 

We'll also post your tribute in our newsletter, no matter what amount you're able to donate.

Creative Arts Temple 

Board of Directors
2014-5773

President: Arne Charitan

Vice President: Fern Field Brooks
Secretary: Julie Gold
Treasurer: Jerry Gold
Board:
Deborah Barnhart
  

Malcolm & Barbara Marmorstein 

Marty & Barri Smith

Executive Director: Jeff Cutler

Office Administrator:  Janice Metz
Director Emeritus: Lois Bennett 
 

Immediate Past President: Joann Roth Oseary
Past presidents:

Lou Milkowski

Arnold Charitan

Larry Crestol 
Steve Ellman 
Stuart Kricun
Norman G. Brooks*

Irving Dersh*
Max Guefen*
deceased *  


Lifetime Members 
  
Deborah Barnhardt 
Lois Bennett
Joni Berry
Fern Field Brooks 
Ross & Fern Bloom 
Mitchell & Rochelle Blumenfeld 
Ted Blumenfeld 
Dorothy Frieband 
Artie Butler 
Jack & Roxanne Carter 
Arnold & Gladys Charitan 
Larry & Alexis Crestol 
Sidney & Harriet Crestol 
Jennifer Crestol 
Steven Crestol 
Norm & Joanie Crosby
Carol Jean Delmar 

Allan & Harriet Diamond

Karel Guefen
Charlotte Heller
Eugene & Marsha Heller 

Arthur & Gwen Hiller

Steven Kaplan
Arthur Kassel
Rhea Kimmel
Les & Laura Landau 
 

Joseph & Shirley Leibowitz
Stephen Maitland-Lewis 

Dr. Steve Matlin
Art Metrano
Joann & Yossi Oseary

Nolan & Patrice Porter

Harvey & Hope Schechter
Sharon Shaw  

Ruth Veprin
Barbara Weinger
Michael & Lynn Zaifert
  

 
Call the Temple to find out how to become a Lifetime Member
 
310-473-3100
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