The adult life of Isaac is chronicled in Parashat Tol'dot. He marries Rebekah, and after 20 childless years they become parents to twin boys, Esau and Jacob. The brothers are quite different from one another and are at odds with each other well into adulthood. Rebekah favors Jacob, whereas Isaac seems aligned with Esau. Rebekah and Jacob conspire to deceive Isaac into giving the blessing due his firstborn son.

Genesis (B'reisheet) Parashat Tol'dot 25:29-33

Once when Jacob was cooking a stew, Esau came in from the open, famished. Esau said to Jacob, "Give me some of that red stuff to gulp down, for I am famished" - which is why he was named Edom. Jacob said, "First sell me your birthright." Esau said, "I am at the point of death, so of what use is my birthright to me?" Jacob said, "Swear to me first." So he swore to him and sold his birthright to Jacob.

The Torah describes a famous encounter between the two sons of Isaac and Rebekah: Esau and Jacob. The two boys are known to have constantly competed with each other, even inside their mother. Esau was born first and thus was entitled to the birthright (a double portion of inheritance and the right to become the next leader).

Many commentators have wondered about this incident. Why did Esau sell his birthright? Did it not mean anything to him? Why did Jacob pray on his brother in a time of need?

Feel free to find your own answers and explore each question in greater detail.

1. It seems that Esau had a hard time controlling his impulses. Is it easy or hard for you to wait when you want something? What makes it easier some times and harder other times?
2. Jacob offered to give Esau food in exchange for his birthright. Do you think this was a fair trade for Jacob to suggest? Do you think Esau should have said no?
3. Think of a choice you made on impulse. What were the consequences? Would you have acted differently if you had considered the repercussions of your actions? When do you decide that a price is too high even though you might want something?