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"Why Do They Only Call When They Need Something??"

This is a question that I commonly hear from parents of adult children. There are many questions behind this question:
  • Do my children really care about me?
  • Are they just using me for my money?
  • If I give it to them, am I rewarding all of the ways that I feel
    manipulated, hurt, or abused by them?

    If I don't give it to them, will they become even more rejecting than they already are? If I don't give it to them, will they become even more rejecting than they already are?
  • If I do give it to them, am I reinforcing their inability or failure to grow up?

    These questions also raises questions about how to respond: 
  • Do I tell them that I feel manipulated?
  • Do I use it as an opportunity to talk about the relationship?
  • Should I use it as an opening of the door to more time or
    should I refuse the request as a way to set a limit? 
If you need help in this area, join us for this Tuesday's webinar:

 Tuesday, June 7
530 PM Pacific, 630 PM Mountain,  
    730 PM Central, 830 PM Eastern
SHOULD I CUT THEM OUT OF MY WILL?
Handling the Issue of Money, Gifts, and Inheritance

FREE STUDY GUIDE HERE



Tuesday, June 14
530 PM Pacific, 630 PM Mountain,  
    730 PM Central, 830 PM Eastern 
DOES MY CHILD HAVE A PERSONALITY DISORDER OR OTHER MENTAL ILLNESS?
Understanding Its Role in Estrangement
 

 Tuesday, June 21
530 PM Pacific, 630 PM Mountain,  
    730 PM Central, 830 PM Eastern
MY ESTRANGED CHILD IS BACK: NOW WHAT?
Learning How to Navigate Early 
Reconciliation



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About Dr. Coleman

Dr. Coleman is a psychologist in private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area and a Senior Fellow with the Council on Contemporary Families, a non-partisan organization of leading sociologists, historians, psychologists and demographers dedicated to providing the press and public with the latest research and best-practice findings about American families. He has lectured at Harvard University, The University of California at Berkeley, The University of London, Cornell Weill Medical School, and blogs on parent-adult child relationships for the U.C. Berkeley publication, Greater Good Magazine.

Dr. Coleman is frequently contacted by the media for opinions and commentary about changes in the American family. He has been a frequent guest on the Today Show, NPR, and The BBC, and has also been featured on Sesame Street, 20/20, Good Morning America, America Online Coaches, PBS, and numerous news programs for FOX, ABC, CNN, and NBC television. His advice has appeared in The New York Times, The Times of London, The Shriver Report, Fortune, Newsweek, The Chicago Tribune, The Wall Street Journal, Slate, Psychology Today, U.S. World and News Report, Parenting Magazine, The Baltimore Sun and many others.

He is the author of numerous articles and chapters and has written four books: The Marriage Makeover: Finding Happiness in Imperfect Harmony (St. Martin's Press); The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework (St. Martin's Press); When Parents Hurt: Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along (HarperCollins); and Married with Twins: Life, Love and the Pursuit of Marital Harmony. His books have been translated into Chinese, Croatian, and Korean, and are also available in the U.K., Canada, and Australia.

He is the co-editor, along with historian Stephanie Coontz of seven online volumes of Unconventional Wisdom: News You Can Use, a compendium of noteworthy research on the contemporary family, gender, sexuality, poverty, and work-family issues.