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The month of May, named for a Roman goddess of fertility, is always a full month, with two important holidays, Mother's Day and Memorial Day. It also ushers in some of the end of the year events that occur in both schools and here at church, too. Teens are scouting out the best prom attire, Fort Lewis College and local high schools are celebrating graduations, online I see our Unitarian Universalist seminaries celebrating their new M.Div.'s and our companion congregations across the country making matches with new ministers.
 
At the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Durango we hold our annual meeting on the fourth Sunday of this month (May 22nd) where we do the business of the church, including passing our budget for the upcoming year, updating bylaws, and voting on new church leadership. 
           
Two years ago this month, I visited this fellowship for the first time, and was welcomed in with a lively energy that is so welcoming to newcomers. In this warming spring season, I see lots of new faces in our fellowship. Please make them feel welcome like you did me. There are lots of ways to step into becoming a part of this place. I'd love to help you find your way here.
 
Because of the distance, I'll have to miss two special services at other Colorado UU Churches. One is the ordination of Florence Caplow at Two Rivers UU Congregation in Carbondale (April 30th) and the second is the installation of Rev. Kelly Dignan as the Senior Minister at Unitarian Universalist Church of Boulder (May 1st). I have sent my regrets and best wishes to both of these ministers on behalf of us all.
 
Please mark your calendars with a "save the date" on Sunday September 25th, at 4pm, when we will celebrate our own installation ceremony - the first - as the Fellowship installs its first minister. We'll welcome out-of-town ministry guests and a hold a joyful reception at this special service marking the remarkable breakthrough step we have taken.      
     
This is a busy month, but the month of May offers many ways to express and experience gratitude. If you are unable to say thank you to our own mother, then thank the mothers around you who are actively working hard to be the best parents in a culture with increasing demands. Please thank the wonderful church leadership who has put in hours and hours of effort toward making this a community that is vibrant and caring. I am especially grateful to our president, Teresa Jordan.  Teresa is dedicated and visionary. She's fun, too.
                       
In this lively and eventful month, I feel gratitude for my dedicated Unitarian Universalist mother, whose lead eventually brought me here. I remember those who gave their lives in military service, those who died long ago, and those whose coffins are just being returned home. Let us pray for peace in the world.
 
Love,
 
Rev. Katie


May Sunday Services

Sunburst This month's theme: I'm A-Gonna Learn
This song by Mary Grigolia reminds us of our third principle, as explained in children's language, "we should accept one another and keep on learning together." We love to learn!        
Concepts: Growth, education, resilience 
 
May 1             
Sexuality & Spirituality
Anna Royer, pulpit guest
How do our values influence our understanding of our own and others' sexuality?  Join us in reflecting on what we were taught, and on what we are teaching, about this vital dimension of being human.  Learn about the UU curriculum Our Whole Lives (OWL), a comprehensive, lifespan sexuality education program that focuses on self-worth, sexual health, responsibility, and social justice & inclusivity. 
 
May 8 
Arise, Women of This Day!
Rev. Katie Kandarian-Morris & Lisa McCorry
MULTIGENERATIONAL
Please bring a flower to offer today and be ready to receive another as we join in the annual "flower communion." We'll honor mothers, the beauty of diversity, and bring our prayers for peace.
 
May 15
The Joy of Stuff  
Rev. Katie Kandarian-Morris  
We may be past the season of spring-cleaning but we're moving into the season of the garage sale. How might the Japanese method of KonMari move us toward an ethic of responsible consumerism? Oh, that, and joy.
 
May 22 
To Build the Common Good 
Rev. Katie Kandarian-Morris
Does the concept of "the common good" still have a place in our society? How might our notion of the beloved community help move us to a hopeful answer?
 
May 28   
What Do We Remember Today....and Why?  
Charlie Clements, pulpit guest
Today we'll explore some of the little known origins of Memorial Day. We'll learn about  some of the more poignant traditions and share in a special holiday reflection.


President's Message
Teresa Jordan

The only thing that is constant is change.  -Heraclitus
 
We've all heard that quote before, but I am so struck by its relevance to life within our beloved community that I felt the need to share it here.

Our fellowship developed a succession plan that allowed for an incoming President of the Board of Trustees fully prepared by the previous year's service as Vice-President. Regrettably, our current Vice President Tom McCampbell recognized that the demands of his professional life prevent him from continuing his board service next year. After much deliberation and consideration, I have agreed, therefore, to serve another year as President of the Board, if elected by the congregation. This will allow our incoming Vice-President a year of board experience before his term as President.

Thanks very much to our nominating committee - Allison Andersen, Judy Hook, and Maureen Maliszewski - for their diligent and persistent efforts to fill our slate of candidates.
Thanks to Tom Miller for agreeing to serve as 2016-2017 Vice-President and 2017-2018 President. Thanks to K. Redford for her willingness to serve as 2016-2017 Associate Treasurer and 2017-2018 Treasurer. And thanks to Maureen Maliszewski for agreeing to rejoin the Nominating Committee for her second two-year term.  These are the nominees for your consideration (please see below for bios). Nominations from the floor at the Annual Meeting will fill the remaining vacancy on the Nominating Committee.

What an exciting time to serve our fellowship, to plan for the changes needed to accommodate our growth! It is indeed an honor to represent our fellowship as we work together to plan our future.

Stewardship Campaign.  Thanks to all our members and friends for making generous pledges during our stewardship campaign.  Your pledges, our main source of income, make the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Durango possible. Thanks to all those who hosted or participated in the Dream Maker Dinners. And thanks to our Stewardship Co-Chairs Bonnie Miller and John Schwob for designing and organizing such a successful campaign this year.

Annual Meeting on Sunday, May 22.  Your board is busily preparing for the Annual Congregational Meeting coming up after worship on Sunday, May 22.  Fellowship members will approve minutes of last year's annual meeting and the special congregational meetings held in March. We will approve an operating budget for the 2016-2017 fiscal year. We will vote on proposed amendments to our bylaws. And we will elect officers to the board and members to the nominating committee.

With the cooperation and preparation of all our members, we should be able to move quickly though our crowded agenda for the Annual Meeting. Because there are so many details for the congregation's consideration, your board has several question-and-answer sessions scheduled to help prepare your informed vote for the Annual Meeting.

Budget Question-and-Answer Session.  The 2016-2017 Operating Budget will be detailed by Finance Chair Tim Miller and/or Treasurer Graham Smith at 11:00 on Sunday, May 1. Plan to attend to learn how your congregational leaders recommend that anticipated resources be allocated to carry out our mission at UUFD.

Bylaws Question-and-Answer Sessions.  Four opportunities to discuss the Proposed Bylaws Amendments have been scheduled: Sunday, May 1 at 9:00 a.m. and noon, and Sunday, May 17 at 9:00 a.m. and noon. Members of the Bylaws Task Force - Lois Carpenter, Teresa Jordan, and K. Redford - and members of your Board of Trustees will be present to answer questions and hear your concerns. All sessions will be in Bowman Hall.

Minutes.  Prior to the Annual Meeting, please, take time to review these minutes (click to open):

Proposed Bylaws Amendments.  To assist in a smooth and orderly consideration of the proposed bylaws amendments, be sure to review the explanation and the proposed amendments. Please print a copy of the proposed bylaws amendments to bring to the Annual Meeting. 

Form for Making Motions to Proposed Bylaws. To facilitate the meeting, any motion to alter the proposed bylaws will be submitted in writing and delivered to Secretary Donna Nelson as the motion is being made on the floor. This will assure that everyone present understands the motion. The body will consider each motion as it is raised before proceeding or returning to the original motion to approve the proposed bylaws amendments . Click here to obtain a copy of the form for making motions to the proposed bylaws.

If we all prepare prior to the meeting, we should be able to move quickly through the business at our Annual Meeting following worship on Sunday, May 22.

As our UU hymn Enter, Rejoice, and Come In advises us, "don't be afraid of some change." It is going to happen, so we might as well prepare for change.

Teresa Jordan
President, UUFD Board of Trustees

 
Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Durango
Slate of Candidates for Elected Positions
2016-2017

The members of the Nominating Committee, Allison Andersen, Judy Hook, and Maureen Maliszewski, submit the following slate of candidates for the congregation's consideration for election at the Annual Meeting on Sunday, May 22, 2016:

BOARD OF TRUSTEES
President:  Teresa Jordan (1-year term)
Vice President:  Tom Miller (first year Vice President; following year President)
Associate Treasurer:  K. Redford (first year Associate Treasurer; following year Treasurer)

NOMINATING COMMITTEE
Our bylaws require the congregation to elect three members to the Nominating Committee. Allison Andersen was elected for a 2-year term last year and will continue to serve for the upcoming year. There are two positions open on the Nominating Committee, but only one identified candidate.  Nominations from the floor will be required to fill the third position.
Maureen Maliszewski  (second 2-year term)
Vacancy

Nominees

TERESA JORDAN
Born in the Cumberland Mountains of southeastern Kentucky, I am a daughter of Appalachia where both sides of my family had lived for generations. When I was a young child, our family moved to Ohio. But my mountain connection was retained with frequent trips to my grandparent's home near Pineville, Kentucky. Mountain living is in my DNA - one of the many reasons I so much love living in Durango, Colorado.

My academic training includes a B.A. in Sociology and Anthropology from Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio; a M.A. in Anthropology from Arizona State University; and teacher training from the University of New Mexico, Adams State College, and Fort Lewis College.

During my professional working career, I have been a health educator, a museum curator, and a teacher. In retirement, I indulge a life-long interest in art by papercrafting: making greeting cards and scrapbooks. I enjoy a small, part-time business teaching papercrafting to others and selling papercraft supplies as a Stampin' Up! demonstrator.

We moved to Durango from Gallup, New Mexico in 1991. My husband had a career as a medical technologist with the Indian Health Service and worked at the Zuni Indian Hospital in Zuni, New Mexico and the Southern Ute Health Clinic in Ignacio, Colorado. As an anthropologist, I consider it a privilege to have had the opportunity to live in and around Native American communities much of my adult life and deepen my understanding of the Southwestern Cultural Area.

John Schiffel, my husband of thirty-eight years, and I have a son and daughter-in-law who live in Durango, and John has a daughter who now lives in Portland, Oregon with her husband and daughter (our 11 year-old granddaughter).

In 2000, I was captivated by a PBS-TV series by Bill Moyers on death and dying. Other Moyers programs had introduced me to Unitarian Universalism through interviews with UU minster Forrest Church. So when I saw a small ad in the Durango Herald for a speaker from the Hemlock Society at the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Durango, I felt comfortable attending that Sunday service in the Smiley Building. I was warmly welcomed by members of the congregation, several whom I already knew from working with the La Plata County Democratic Party and the Durango Branch of the American Association of University Women.

After that initial visit, my husband and I began attending services more frequently, depending on our interest in the Sunday speakers. When the current UUFD property came available, we contributed to the fundraising and helped with the renovation and move. I became active with the Hospitality Committee and served as co-chair for a couple of years. I signed the membership book in 2010 when I was asked to serve a term as Vice President of the Board of Trustees. I served this past year as President of your Board of Trustees.

I am seeking a second, one-year term as President to fill a vacancy since our current Vice-President needed to resign because of increasing obligations in his busy professional life. As President I will provide continuity on the board; allowing our incoming Vice-President a year of board experience before his term as President. I appreciate your vote at the UUFD Annual Congregational Meeting on Sunday, May 22, 2016.

TOM MILLER
Tom and his wife Bonnie have been involved members of UUFD since they moved to Durango in 2012 to join their daughter, Shanan, son-in-law, Doug, and their children Alex, Jax and Ava.  Tom is retired from a long career as a Management Psychologist. His primary activities included assisting companies in the selection and development of their senior executives and coaching them and their teams to be more effective leaders. At UUFD Tom helped develop the Focus Group process that led to the decision to move from lay-led to professional ministry. He then was chosen to be a member of the Ministerial Task Force, which was charged with building the process for defining the parameters and goals of the position and ultimately selecting our first minister, Rev. Katie.  He was involved, as well, with designing and conducting the Cottage Meetings that led to the decision to call Rev. Katie as our settled minister. He has been coordinator for the Worship Associate group, a member of the Communications and Music Committees, and is currently a Sound Assistant and member of the choir. In UUFD he has found a spiritual home, many friends, and looks forward to working on the important growth issues we face in the broader role of Board member. 

K REDFORD
The first time I entered a Unitarian church was in 1971 -- in New Jersey.  I was still experiencing culture shock from our move east and certainly had never experienced anything like the service, the sermon, or open discussions that were held each Sunday.  My husband, Eb, and I both graduated from New Mexico State with degrees in mathematics  (we actually met in a math class our junior year).  After college in Las Cruces,  Eb took a job with Bell Labs and we headed east in 1967.  Five years later, we had two children and were in the early stages of remodeling our first home.  It was an old house in a small community that was settled in 1609 -- the remodel was not quite complete when we finally moved full time  into our dream home in Durango in 2003.  I had originally agreed to move east of the Mississippi River for 5 years. 
 
The 35 years we spent in New Jersey were busy with raising our two children, enlarging our house, and our careers.  Eb and I took different paths -- he got his masters in computer science and I got mine in education.  After our youngest started first grade, I started teaching math.  I was very fortunate to end up in a small private school with students from an amazing diversity of cultures.  It was not usual for me to teach arithmetic to sixth graders and pre-calculus to seniors in one day. 

There was little time to volunteer, or attend church services on a regular basis.  But over the years, I taught some RE classes, and chaperoned  the trips that were part of the Liberal Religious Youth (LRY) program when my children were in their early teens (their one required year of church attendance).  I particularly enjoyed the visits to services at other denominations and the year-end trip to Boston to UUA headquarters.  I was the bookkeeper for a short while, and served on the board of the day-care center located in our building not long before we moved.
 
We had a definite list of "musts" when we started planning for our retirement:  a small town with a 4-year college in the western mountains, an NPR station, and a Unitarian church.  When we bought our lot in Falls Creek Ranch in 1989, the Unitarian House sign was located on 3rd Avenue.  By the time we finally moved to Durango, it was gone.  After some searching, I found Room 16 in the Smiley Building, and I was at home.  By the time UUFD moved to our current building, I was in the second year of my 2-year term as president of the board.  It was a crazy, busy and exciting time -- and it still is!   After several years as co-chair of the hospitality committee, and several more as chair of the membership committee, I am looking forward to serving on the board of trustees once again as associate treasurer.   I am so grateful to be part of this amazing town and this beloved community.
MARK YOUR CALENDAR!

Budget Question-and-Answer Session
Sunday, May 1, noon, Santuary Hall

Bylaws Question-and-Answer Sessions
Sunday, May 1, 9:00 a.m. Bowman Hall
Sunday, May 17, 9:00 a.m. &  noon, Bowman Hall


Social Responsibility and Justice update  
Coordinators:  Charlie Clements, Bonnie Miller, Betty Schwartz-Bozeman
 
On a rainy and cool Saturday morning 50 UUFD members and friends joined in the CROP Walk for Hunger, raising $5,526 to contribute to reducing the problem of hunger in our world.
In April we continued to see our fellowship's commitment to the work of social justice expressed in action.  On a rainy and cool Saturday morning, 50 UUFD members and friends joined in the CROP Walk for Hunger, raising $5,526 to contribute to reducing the problem of hunger in our world.  Seventy-five percent of those dollars will be distributed internationally and 25% locally to our selected recipient, the Grub Hub.  The Grub Hub newly opened at Fort Lewis College this year to provide food support to struggling college students.  We will also donate funds collected through our Share the Plate in May and June to CROP Walk and to Grub Hub.  Many thanks to those who participated in CROP Walk and those who donated funds to sponsor walkers.  A special thank you to Dennis Aronson, who coordinated the program, and to folks who staffed the tables: Margie Padgett, Burt Coleman, and John Lyons.  This is a great example of standing on the side of love in our world...we look forward to CROP Walk for Hunger as an annual UUFD event.
 
Also in April, individuals continued to pick up copies of the book Just Mercy from the Social Responsibility and Justice table in preparation for a discussion led by John Schwob and Donna Nelson on April 30.  This book reveals issues of prejudice in our justice system and its impact on individuals, families and communities. It's a compelling and instructive read where you easily get connected with the characters whose stories are told.  Our Faith Formation and Social Justice program collaborated to create this learning and reflecting opportunity.  If you haven't yet picked up a copy, there are still a few left, so stop by the SRJ table on Sundays. 
 
On May 12 at 7:00 p.m. at UUFD, we are sponsoring a presentation and discussion by Barbara Balaguer, former Chair for the Four Corners Alliance for Diversity.  Barbara will speak and have an interactive discussion on ways progress and change have been made regarding LGBTQ basic human rights on a global and local level. We will have an opportunity to understand the process of developing perspective and how it affects change and can bring a positive impact to the many challenges that continue to exist in our hetero-normative society. 
 
Coming up June 11-12, UUFD for the first time is participating in the Love out Loud service weekend started by First United Methodist Church.  Christ the King Lutheran and River Church are also participating in this community focused support project. Currently, LoL is still looking for projects such as yard work, household cleanup, minor repairs/maintenance, sorting and organizing, landscaping, painting, minor remodeling etc., that would benefit social service agencies, schools, and other nonprofit organizations.  If you know of such needs that will make a positive impact on our community, please stop by the SRJ table and let us know, or contact one of the SRJ Coordinators. Our own Caring Committee is already working on building snack packages for the Rainbow Youth Center hangout.  Can you come up with other ideas? 
 
After our wonderful Earth Day service on April 24, there was some interest expressed in UUFD in exploring how we could become a Green Sanctuary.  If this appeals to you, please contact Charlie, Bonnie or Betty to let us know.  If there is sufficient interest and someone who is willing to lead this study/action effort, we will help a group get going.  You can learn more about Green Sanctuary on the UUA website: http://www.uua.org/environment/sanctuary.
 
UPCOMING EVENTS:
 
May 12: 7:00 p.m. LGBTQ presentation by Barbara Balaguer at UUFD
June 11-12:  Love out Loud service projects
June 22-26:  Durango Pride Festival





Faith Formation News 
Spring into Faith Formation

In this time of winter opening to the change of spring, how may we too, release old growth and open to the space of possibility? We need not plan for the change of the seasons; they happen without our intervention. Perhaps we might trust in the potential that lies in our authentic being. That which is connected to all life in each moment, the only moment that has been or will ever become. Like the seasons, each present moment is ever changing. Can we let go and allow the flow? The pouring of joys and sorrows into our cup. These too are visitors on our heart. Can we tap into the intelligence available to each of us in this moment? 

Like the first bulbs bursting through the mulch in our gardens trusting the earth, may we burst through our mental walls, perceived fears and restrictive shame triggers to find the sun of our true nature. That nature is love. That nature is worthiness. 

I am grateful for the change in which our faith community currently resides. Now, an admitted person of spontaneity and creativity averse to rigid routine, this is my wheelhouse. The expansive possibilities are energizing. The opportunities for involvement are growing. The relationships are strengthening. The mission to provide a home for liberal religion is reaching beyond our walls. Tension too is present. Through the lens of compassion, we can recognize each others and our own, basic human needs to arrive at compassionate conflict resolution. 

In love and faith we open our doors and our hearts to all that exists in our world.

Lisa McCorry


PREMIER DURANGO SCREENING

In this 2016 Academy Award Nominee for best documentary, a survivor of the 1965 Indonesian genocide confronts his brother's killer.  Join us for this premier screening, message from the director, discussion, snacks and cash bar. 

Proceeds benefit Thrive! Living Wage Coalition.
 
Sunday May 22,  4:30 - 8 PM
Animas City Theatre, 128 E. College Dr.  Durango
Tickets: $25. Available at Animas City Theatre (ACT) beginning May 1  or by calling 970-903-0957
 
Thanks to ACT, Cuckoos and Serious Delights for their support.
 
The Look of Silence will continue at ACT through May 26. For details visit http://www.animascitytheatre.com/  



Recital Series
2015-16 and 2016-17
 
Many thanks once again to all those who assisted with the 2015-16 Recital Series.  The following are some of the members and their contributions:
 
  • Ron Garst-Brochures, posters, programs and finances
  • Lynn Griffith and Teresa Jordan-Publicity
  • Bernardine Cox, Judy Hayes and Ann Smith-Coordinators of receptions
  • Tricia Bayless-Page turning
 
Many helped with the wonderful receptions regarding set-up, clean-up, decorations, food and beverages.  Those whom I know about are:  Lois Carpenter, Bernardine Cox, Sue Eberhart, Susan Francis, Barbara Hawn, Teresa Jordan, K Redford, Aline Schwob, Ann Smith, Marta Snow and Janice Taylor.  I apologize to any others who did not get included on this list.
 
Financial contributions were also gratefully received from the following:  Ron Garst, Don and Judy Hayes, John and Aline Schwob, Lois and Ken Carpenter, Anita Cohen, Ann and Graham Smith, Sharon and Don Gordon, Tricia Bayless, Dwight and Katherine Burgess, Connie Jacobs, Susan Koonce and John Lyons, Teresa Jordan, Eb and K Redford.
 
Earlier than ever, the Recital Series for 2016-17 has been finalized.  The dates and artists are as follows:
 
Sept. 23, 2016:  Southwest Piano Trio with Kay Newnam, violin, Joanna de Keyser, cello, and Marilyn Garst, piano (rescheduled from cancelled recital this month)

Nov. 4, 2016:  Nicolò Spera, Italian guitarist from the University of Colorado

Feb. 3, 2017:  Quadrivium, vocal quartet with Kerry Ginger, mezzo-soprano, Charissa Chiaravalloti, mezzo-soprano, Eric Gustafson, tenor, and bass from Phoenix

April 28, 2017:  Marilyn Garst, piano, with assistance from Bonnie Mangold, cello

-Marilyn Garst


Equal Exchange launches climate justice initiative

Equal Exchange, whose fairly traded products are offered every Sunday at UU, regularly hears about the negative effect that climate change is having on its farmer partners, from abnormally heavy rains to unseasonably warmer temperatures. The Climate Justice Initiative encourages global divestment from harmful fossil fuels and investment in small-scale organic agriculture. Learn more about this movement  here.

Congratulations to UUFD on receiving another LPEA energy rebate reward. Here, Board President Teresa Jordan and Rev. Katie "glow" in the moment.


Pause for Poetry

Guests are welcome at the monthly Poetry Circle: our next session is May 9, 6- 8 pm , in Bowman Hall. Light refreshments are served. Come to share your own offerings or your favorites. For details, please email  durangofolk@frontier.net .

Prayers of Petition 
 
My mother used
To steer me away from
Prayers of petition,
The supplications,
The "gimme" prayers,
You know like
Give me this day
My daily bread and
The red bicycle
Down at Mr. Trittipoo's
Hardware store with 
The big fat tires and
The bell that rings
With the pull of your thumb
Amen
 
My mother's admonitions
Have stuck with me
All these years.
But from time to time,
I slip in a few petitions
Like for the starving and suffering
Children around the world
Whose images swirl 
Around me like
That red bicycle
I never got            
 
My prayers are less
Self-centered now.
My mother would give me those
 
 
(Ralph Blanchard)