A Message from the Executive Director                    February 2016, Shvat 5776
Dear Friends,

February marks Jewish Disability Awareness and Inclusion Month (JDAIM). It is the first year that the word "Inclusion" has been part of the name. This marks a shift from learning and discussing how to include people with disabilities in the Jewish community to taking action. You can read more about this shift in an op-ed piece that I wrote that was featured on JNS: Jewish and Israel News (see below).  

This month, we are featuring articles written by staff, parents, teens and students. Highlights include a feature article in the New Boston Post and a guest blog, written by a teen who explains why she uses a pen name when she writes about her disability.

There are many local events going on around Boston in honor of JDAIM. Visit our JDAIM events and resource page for a list of events open to the public this month. I hope that you will join me in participating in events, sharing articles and finding other ways to make inclusion for everyone a reality.    
     
Sincerely,

Arlene
Arlene Remz,  
Executive Director 
 
PS - To learn more about JDAIM efforts around the country, check out the official Jewish Disability Awareness and Inclusion page on Facebook or look for #JDAIM16 on Facebook and Twitter.   
 
 
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Inclusion in Jewish education is about optionsOp-ed
By Arlene Remz, Executive Director

Each February, we mark Jewish Disability Awareness Month. This year, the decision was made to add "inclusion" to the equation, and it is now called Jewish Disability Awareness and Inclusion Month (JDAIM). This addition may seem insignificant, but actually marks a movement toward action.
 
Building awareness around an issue means that people come together to learn about and discuss it. It doesn't imply next steps for taking action. "Inclusion" is a much bolder statement, calling on Jewish organizations to take action and include people with disabilities.
 
But what does inclusion mean? By definition, it means "the action or state of including or of being included within a group or structure." If we apply this to the context of people with disabilities in the Jewish community, the definition still leaves space for wide interpretation for implementation.
 
Gateways, grapples with this challenge on a daily basis. As Greater Boston's regional agency for Jewish students with special learning needs, we are cognizant that inclusion has to be about choice. Because every family and every student has their own priorities, we as a community have to ensure that quality educational programming and the capacity to meet the needs of students with a range of abilities is available across multiple settings.
 
This means that we partner with Jewish day schools so that they are able to support students with special learning needs so they can flourish. Schools are able to include students in their structure by providing onsite speech and language therapy, occupational therapy and specialized learning support during the school day. Gateways provides professional development and consultation to the staff so that they are able to successfully support students with diverse learning needs in the class. With funding from the Ruderman Family Foundation, we bring disability awareness programs like Understanding Our Differences© to all students so that they can better understand and accept classmates - and all people - with differences.
 
This also means that families who choose to send their children to Jewish preschools and community Hebrew schools have options for inclusion, as well. We partner with local congregations and community supplementary programs to provide professional development, Communities of Practice and training of teen madrichim (teen classroom aides) to enable programs to expand their capacity and include students with a wide range of needs.
 
As another choice, we offer programs specifically for students with disabilities, including a Sunday Program and a B'nei Mitzvah Program. This may seem counterintuitive to the idea of inclusion, but inclusion should be about choice. For some students, the optimal way to be included in Jewish education is to participate in a program that is designed specifically for students with disabilities.
 
From a personal perspective, image three students, Jacob, Emma and Avi, all of whom are in 3 rd grade and have similar learning needs. For Jacob's family, the top priority is that he be physically included in the same congregational school as his siblings, even if the educational structure and curriculum supports that are in place are not ideal.
 
Emma's family is less concerned with participation in a congregational school, and instead choose to send her to the Gateways Sunday program, which has the curriculum, supports, teachers, and teen volunteers in place that will enable her to maximally access a Jewish education.
 
Meanwhile it is very important to Avi's family that he attend Jewish day school like his siblings. Avi needs additional supports from both the school and Gateways to be successful and his family is committed to those supports because it is important to them that he be successful in the day school.
 
Each family has their own definition of what inclusion means for them and their family; it is our responsibility to honor that and to help make it possible.
 
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about 1 in 6 children in the U.S. had a developmental disability in 2006-2008, ranging from mild disabilities to serious developmental disabilities. Currently, about 1 in 68 children has been identified with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD) alone.
 
Imagine the impact this has on our Jewish community. We need to find ways to incorporate all these children into the fabric of our community - and this starts with options in Jewish education. Jewish communities should think about this when creating programming for people with disabilities. By offering a rich ecosystem of opportunities, we make inclusion in the Jewish community possible for as many families as possible - and we do it on their terms. Choice - that is what inclusion should be about. - Re-posted from JNS 

Meet Gateways' Students Student

During the month of February, we will be sharing snippets from students in our Sunday Program on social media. We asked them questions about themselves and their feelings about Judaism. Here are two excerpts:

 

Bullies and Allies - A PanelPanel
To kick off Jewish Disability Awareness and Inclusion Month, we hosted a panel of adults with disabilities at Maimonides school, funded by the Ruderman Family Foundation. Panelists talked with middle school students about their own experiences in middle school. They shared examples of when they were teased, when people advocated for them and what the students could do to be allies to people with disabilities. Feedback that we received from the students after the panel included:

"I really learned not to judge people before I know who they are.  Like Tova, someone could look completely normal but still have severe disabilities."

"I think it's amazing that you face these challenges everyday and don't let it beat you down."

"There was a quote that you [Gary Alpert] said that really got to me. You stated " When you make fun of a person, you're also making fun of ×”. And that got to me because I used to judge people in my mind, (not out loud) and I really felt like "Hey, what are you doing, you are really judging ×” when you think that". So thank you so much for helping me realize that, and also for making us aware of our differences with one another."
Teen Being a Teen Volunteer
 
By Shira Wald, Teen Volunteer
 
Throughout my three years volunteering at the Gateways Sunday Program, I have learned from my students equally as much as my students have learned from me. Each year, I have had the opportunity to work with a new student and gained new insights and experiences from each one.

Starting my first year at Gateways, I was very nervous. I had no idea what to expect from the Sunday Program other than the bits of information I had picked up from my two older sisters who were also volunteers. On my first day in the classroom, I felt a little awkward, not knowing if my student would feel comfortable with me. I just hoped that my student would not notice that I was not yet totally confident. Luckily I soon discovered that my student was very patient with me as I learned how the schedule at Gateways worked. My student discovered that I was equally patient with him when he wanted to take a break and go for a walk. We both worked together to make each other feel comfortable.

As time went on, we were able to move past just feeling comfortable. We began discussing our plans, weekends, and pets. I especially loved seeing pictures of his cat from week to week. I also always made sure to have pictures of my two dogs readily available in case the topic of dogs came up, which it almost always did. Each week became more seamless than the one before as we learned more and more about each other.

This year, I am having just as positive an experience with the young girl I work with each week, and I especially enjoy all the laughs we share. Once, we made edible dreidels out of marshmallows, but somehow the marshmallows seems to end up everywhere but our stomachs, and all we could do was laugh. But perhaps even more exciting than the friendship I share with my student is the connection that everyone in the classroom shares. This past week at Gateways, one of the young girls in the classroom in which I volunteer went over to a young boy and asked him for one of his apple slices. Without hesitation, he opened his bag of apple slices and asked which piece she wanted.

This small gesture showed what Gateways is all about. Everyone - students, volunteers, and parents - all work together to create a warm, caring environment. People are ready and willing to share, not just apple slices, but conversations, time, and energy. People are willing to put in something of themselves. Everyone is able to take something out - knowledge and friendship from those around them. - Re-posted from The Jewish Week's New Normal  
#OpenTheGates Gates

In case you missed it, be sure to watch our video, highlighting 10 years of Gateways
and its impact on three families. #OpenTheGates