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Meher Baba, Eruch Jessawala and Don Stevens
at the Longchamps restaurant, in New York City ( July 1956)

 

Weekly Reflections No. 25
from Meher Baba Books
(Los Angeles, California)
Greetings from Los Angeles, and happy May Day to All;

It is Friday, May First. Today is the International workings Day, and we unite in His Love locally and internationally. It is time for us to meet again in our appointment with Meher Baba. This mini-circular is now celebrating its 25-weeks Birthday. Meher Baba was born on 25th day of the month (February). So this is a good number. We offer all of our deeds, words and thoughts to Beloved Baba, aiming to please Him. Thanks to you readers for your support and kind words. In response to requests from readers, here now are links to all of the earlier Weekly Reflections issues to date:

#1 Debut! [Nov. 14, 2014]  #2 Four Solutions  #3 Pearls  #4 Surrender  #5 Grace

 

#6 Mehera  #7 Divine Love  #8 The New Humanity [Jan. 2, 2015]  #9 Baba's Divinity

 

#10 Suffering  #11 Forgiveness  #12 Amartithi  #13 Remembrance

 

#14 Pearls of His Remembrance  #15 Baba's 121st Birthday! #16 Baba's Birthday (cont'd)

 

#17 The Ways of the Avatar  #18 Lover & Beloved  #19 Prayers of the Heart

 

#20 Obedience (Part 1) #21 Obedience (Part 2)  #22 Work (Part 1)

 

#23 Work (Part 2) [April 17, 2015]    #24 Happiness (Part 1)


 
This week's theme is "Meher Baba and Happiness part (2)". We would like to offer this issue as a tribute to Meher Baba's close American disciple, Don Stevens. 
Don left this world on April 26, 2011. 
Don's lifelong unswerving focus, service and whole-hearted dedication comprise a tribute to his Beloved Baba, and an example to all His lovers now and to come.
 
On the theme of Happiness, It is Baba's order for all His lovers and followers to not worry and be Happy in His Love. Remembering Him as the only True Reality, and the One in the many, makes it easier to stay happy. All else with its illusory sense do not matter, but we attend to our responsibilities as it is His wish.  

  

As of last week, we started reflecting on the topic of "Women In the West and their Roles." Filis Frederick, who was one of the principal founders of our Los Angeles Meher Baba Center, wrote a great account on this interesting topic, which we will draw from. This week we start with the life of Princess Norina Matchabelli.

 

We hope you enjoy these small occasions for reflecting on the divinity of Beloved Baba's words and life. Happy first day of May. Be Happy first and make it last.  
   
In His Love and Service, 
Meher Baba Books 
~~
Remembering Don Stevens   
~~

      Meher Baba with Don ( Pendu & Bhau in background ) - Glow mag. Feb.2003, p17


Don E. Stevens

January 14, 1919 - April 26, 2011

Don E. Stevens was born January 14, 1919 in Nevada. The youngest of three brothers, Don and his family moved to California when Don was four years old. In 1940 he graduated from Johns Hopkins University as a research chemist. His degree led him to work for oil companies such as Aramco and Standard Oil throughout his professional life.
 
In 1940, Don became a mureed (student) of Murshida Rabia Martin in the Sufi Order, San Francisco; Murshida Martin later became devoted to Meher Baba, sharing this devotion with her students. In 1952, Don met Baba in person. His life was changed forever. Amid travels, Don  met with Baba in India and the US and maintained a close relationship with Him, taking every opportunity to be in Baba's presence. Since 1952 onward, Don worked incessantly on various literary projects and with groups of young people interested in Baba. Perhaps Don's greatest contribution to Baba was his service, at Baba's request, as co-editor of God Speaks. Don also worked on a revised edition of Baba's Discourses. Don has authored a variety of books including Listen, Humanity, as well as Meher Baba's Gift of Intuition, and others. In later years, he worked tirelessly with people around the world who were translating God Speaks into many different languages.
 
Don was based in the UK and France for the last several decades of his life. After a fall several months ago, his health declined. His devoted caretakers, Rachel and Jan, took great care in the final months. Don Stevens, beloved disciple of Meher Baba, returned to Baba on April 26, 2011.

Don will be remembered as a shining example of devoted love and service to his Beloved. Don's dedication (for some 60 years) to "Preserving Baba's Word" was astonishing. His wholehearted dedication to sharing Baba through his writing is his greatest legacy, and will surely serve as a source of much inspiration to Baba lovers in the future.

   

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Celebration of Don's Full Life of Service to Baba at
Avatar Meher Baba Center in L.A. (Meherabode), in 2009



Banner on entrance door to surprise Don

Group with Don
                         

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don celebrating with us

Dear Don:

 

We will always remember your very loving devotion and surrenderence to our Beloved Baba. You are a great inspiration to us all. Much love to you from us all. Thank you for all the loving kindness that you have shown to us throughout the years. We at the Los Angeles Avatar Meher Baba Center will always remember you. 

 

In Beloved Baba,

 

Love -- Always!  

  

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~~
Meher Baba on Happiness (part 2)   
~~


Seven Messages For Sahavas
   
Baba had been dictating other brief messages [in Bombay] at this time, seven of which he ordered to be translated into five languages, painted on boards and displayed at Meherabad during the sahavas. The messages were:

One:
Be angry with none but your weakness.
Hate none but your lustful self.
Be greedy to own more and more wealth of tolerance and justice.
Let your temptation be to tempt me with your love in order to receive my grace.
Wage war against your desires and Godhood will be your victory.

Two:
Real happiness lies in making others happy.
The real desire is that which leads you to become Perfect in order to make others Perfect.
The real aim is that which aims to make others become God by first attaining Godhood yourself.
 
Three:

Real living is dying for God.
Live less for yourself and more for others.
One must die to one's own self to be able to live in all other selves. One who dies for God lives forever.

Four:
Love others as you would love yourself and all that is yours.Fortunate are they whose love is tested by misfortune.Love demands that the lover sacrifice for the Beloved.

Five:
Seek not to possess anything, but to surrender everything. Serve others with the understanding that in them you are serving me. Be resigned completely to my will, and my will, will be yours.
Let nothing shake your faith in me and all your bindings will be shaken off.

Six:
Desire for nothing except desirelessness.
Hope for nothing except to rise above all hopes.
Want nothing and you will have everything.

Seven:
This period of sahavas is the period of my suffering and helplessness. My glorification will follow my humiliation.  

 

Meher Baba, 1958

(Lord Meher, first edition: Vol. 2,  pp. 439-440; online p. 4237)

 

 







Man is inescapably caught up in the flow of time and is under the pressing burden of the past which impels him now one way, now another. The past leaves its effect in the different spheres of existence and persists as a determinant factor which has to be
reckoned with in the present.

Of all the accumulations of the past, those with the most far reaching influence are the memories and habits that get settled in the mind as a by-product of the experiences to which it has been subjected.
The mind persists throughout life and also after death, on earth and in the states of heaven and hell, as well as in the endless succession of reincarnations. It is a never-failing companion of the individual soul and can never be annulled except in the state of liberation or realization.

 ~ Meher Baba

from Life at its Best (1957)


 



Remain in a Good Mood

 
I may scold you as much as I like, but if your conscience tells you that you have done your best, then don't lose your temper nor be depressed, however much I criticize and taunt you. These prickly words have some great motive behind them.

 

Henceforth, swallow your thoughts and suffer everything quietly. You should not be annoyed, but remain in a good mood and be cheerful, despite your reeling brain. Your very wrath shows that you still lack something in carrying out my wish!

 

However I may taunt, hurt or harass you, bear it all like a stone and be conscious that you are serving me. That is what is desired.

  

  Meher Baba 

    from Lord Meher, 1st edition, Vol. 4, p. 1330 

 
 

 

Mani Irani, Meher Baba, Mehera Irani. (MSI collection) 

 

These are the Real Tests

 
Be brave! Don't feel dejected or despondent with difficulties and inconveniences. Face it all - that's manliness, that's heroism.

 

I don't like things to go smoothly or easily. There is no credit in doing things easily. One must get resistance, difficulties and pass through awkward situations. These are real tests and bring out the best and worst in men.

The more the opposition from maya, the more you should resist and face it with fierce determination. Don't feel anxious. Do your best.

 

Meher Baba 

 

Lord Meher , 1st edition, Vol. 6 & 7, p. 2303



Imperishable Sweetness

Meher Baba

 
The perennial spring of imperishable sweetness is within everyone. Yet, if man does not release that spring by removing the ego-blockade, he inevitably suffers in innumerable ways.

 

All that lives is striving for happiness; yet a thousand and one pains and fears attend upon every pleasure which man seeks though the ignorance of exclusiveness.

 

All over the world, man buries himself in egoism and multicolored attachments to the false, depriving himself of the intrinsic and self-sustained happiness that does not wane. He seeks happiness through the perishing and transitional, and invites upon himself the sufferings of closed consciousness.

 

One must contact the ocean of unfading bliss within, and be free of the limiting duality of "I" and "you", to unveil the perennial spring of imperishable sweetness which is within each and all.

 

Meher Baba, Life At Its Best (1957), pp. 39-40


                                                
~ Don't Worry -- Be Happy ~




~~ How about Listening to ' Don't Worry Be Happy' song by Bobby McFerrin ~~

                    Avatar Meher Baba is manifesting. What a Joy! Hooray! 
 

Bobby McFerrin - Don't Worry Be Happy
Bobby McFerrin - Don't Worry Be Happy


 
Filis Frederick (Courtesy of Meher Baba Travels)

Heroines of the Path:

Princess Norina Matchabelli

 

By Filis Frederick

  

 . . .  As I described above, I first "saw" Norina inwardly and felt a strong inner connection with her. She was born Norina Gilli, in Florence, Italy, in 1880. Her family was in business there. When just a young girl, she developed a severe case of TB and was sent to Switzerland to recover. On a home leave -- supposedly her last -- she was resting in her family's garden where Max Reinhardt, the famous stage director, Englebert Humperdinck, the composer and Karl Vollmoeller, the author of Das Mirakel [The Miracle], were discussing the difficulty of finding a woman to play the mime role of the Madonna in the stage play. It was Karl, Norina told me, who looked over at her and said, "Max, there is a Madonna."  

 

Mr. Reinhardt had been looking for two years. He did not want a professional actress, but someone with an authentic spiritual aura. Norina certainly had the right classic Renaissance beauty. Later she was called "one of the six great beauties of Europe."


 

The miracle of The Miracle was that this frail untrained girl went to London, under the stage name of Maria Carmi, endured the trying climate and exhausting rehearsals to become the hit of the play when it opened in 1912. She was not only healed of the TB, others were healed through her. The play had a long run and toured Europe. It was revived in 1924 to tour America. Norina played the role of the Madonna over 1,000 times. On the American tour she alternated nightly, not too amicably, with Lady Diana Manners, another international beauty. (It was after this tour she left the stage and for a short while opened an acting school in New York City, concentrating on mime.) 


Norina Matchabelli as Maria Carmi in Das Mirakel, 1912

On the first run of the play, she had married the author of The Miracle, Karl Vollmoeller. She took up a career in silent Italian films, many of them comedies. I saw one in which she played a neglected bride; the husband was played by an Italian comedian from whom it was said Charlie Chaplin copied some of his famous mannerisms -- the duck walk, top hat, cane. One critic called her acting "intense, sensitive, carefully measured, especially in Sperduti Nel Budo and Teresa Raquin." During the war, because her husband was German, she had to leave Italy and return to Germany where she made several films. Later she divorced Vollmoeller; and in 1917 married a Russian émigré, Prince Georges Matchabelli, who, before the Revolution, had been ambassador to Italy. For generations his had been the ruling family of the province of Georgia. It was a real love match.

 

 

Norina Matchabelli, 1932 -- From Elizabeth Chapin Patterson Photo Archives. 

   

In 1924 they moved to America where together they founded the well-known perfume business. The Prince was an amateur chemist and had an amazing ability, Norina told me, to smell an "astral" perfume, then duplicate it chemically. I well recall the exquisite scent, Ave Maria, he dedicated to her. It was she who designed the bottle after the Matchabelli crown. The firm was very successful.

 

But there were inner stirrings in Norina, and a longing for the spiritual life was beginning to make itself felt. She also was developing some alarming kinetic and psychic abilities. Claude Bragdon, the architect and pupil of Ouspensky, helped her a great deal at this time. Then, through her friend, Elizabeth Patterson, she heard of Shri Meher Baba who was shortly to arrive in America.

 

But Norina scoffed at the idea of a spiritual Master and refused at first to meet Him. She said to Jean Adriel, "How can you worship at the feet of any man, even though he calls himself a 'Master'? Women like ourselves who have had such deep inner experiences need no man to show us the way to God." When Jean told Norina of the phenomenon of tears people shed on meeting Baba, she said, "Well, when your 'Master' arrives, I must meet him. I, too, would like to weep!"

 

As soon as Baba's boat touched American shores, she did begin to weep, uncontrollably. Finally, she gave in and drove with her friend Elizabeth to Harmon on the Hudson. Her surrender was immediate and complete. Apparently Baba gave her some exalted inner experiences and a glimpse of past lives with Him. She told me He had said to her, "You have been My mother twice and My father once." She used to say later He told her she had been Joseph, the father of Jesus. He asked her if she would obey Him and she answered Yes, unhesitatingly. He asked her to stand at the bottom of the stairs and ask each one who came down from meeting Him for a monetary contribution. She obeyed 100%. One man gave his last bit - his bus fare back to New York, tied in a kerchief. Another man, head of a Theosophy group, refused indignantly. Baba later pointed out how the poor man gave his all and the so-called spiritual leader refused. (Of course Baba had the first man repaid generously at once). It was Norina's first lesson in obedience, probably a difficult one for a well-known princess. Since Baba does not ordinarily ask for money, it was perhaps a test devised for her benefit.

 

 

 1931 Harmon : ( L-R ) Anita de Caro, Elizabeth Patterson, Princess Norina Matchabelli and Malcolm Schloss. Courtesy of Beloved  Archives

 

Now her life began to change. The Prince also met Baba, but could not accept Him in the same way. Baba told him that just before he died, he would experience who Baba is. And this came to pass. He had a beautiful experience of Baba as the Christ just before he passed away (1935). He and Norina had been divorced in 1933, after sixteen years of marriage. Their worlds had grown apart.

 

Later the perfume corporation was sold, and I believe she spontaneously gave her share to Baba.** Her life revolved around Him more and more and she participated in the Master's many trips to the West. She went to India with the very first group of women in 1933 and also endured the publicity blast. Great capital was made of her title of Princess actually she had asked Baba if she could give it up, but Baba had said it would be useful in His work.

 

 

Norina sold the Matchabelli Perfume company to Saul Ganz for $US 250,000 in 1936

 

 

Next week we will continue this unfolding of the life of Princess Norina Matchabelli

from The Awakener Magazine, Volume 20, Number 2 


Editor's Note: Norina's maiden name was Norina Gilli, later her stage name was Maria Carmi.

Born : March 3rd.,1880 - Florence, Italy

Died : June 15th., 1957 (aged 77) - Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, U.S.A.  

Married : 1) Karl Vollmöller -     1904 - 1916

             2) Prince Georges V. Matchabelli - 1916 - 1933

 

~~ Prayer Corner ~~

 

   

 

An Inspired Baba Prayer for Nepal

 

Oh, Beloved Baba, You are everywhere!  

You are also in Nepal!

You are the Creator of Earthquakes and  

in the form of the Nepali people You are faced with pain.  

We are feeling Your pain and sad to know all about this.  

Beloved Baba, please accept our prayers offered at Your feet.  

Oh, My Beloved have Mercy on Yourself!

 

Avatar Meher Baba Ki Jai!



~~  Beloved God Prayer For Nepal ~~

Beloved God,
help us all to love You more and more
and more and more
and still yet more,
until we become worthy of union with You;
and help us all
to hold fast to Baba's daaman

till the very end.

 

Avatar Meher Baba Ki Jai!  

 

 

 

Editor's note: Beloved God Prayer is the name of a prayer composed by Meher Baba on August 25, 1959. The prayer refers to Meher Baba's daaman, which means "hem of a garment" in Urdu. Baba often gave the figure of a mother telling a child to hold the hem of her garment while they walked together through the marketplace. He said that his disciples should always hold fast to his daaman in the same way.

 *****
  Video Corner 

One of Don's best talks, on the topic of Free Will.
  
MEHER BABA'S DON STEVENS - FREE WILL
MEHER BABA'S DON STEVENS - FREE WILL
     
See you at our next appointment, next week.
Keep Happy in His Love.
Jai Baba

 


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