THANKSGIVING BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!

Happy Almost Thanksgiving!

November is traditionally the month of thankfulness and gratitude. I also challenge you to make it a month of forgiveness for yourself and others.

The Road to Gratitude

I remember November 2007 very well, the year we had to say goodbye to JT. I was in a psychic development group, and the facilitator challenged us to keep a gratitude journal for the entire month.

As she told us the instructions on how to do this, I felt the anger well up inside of me. How in the F^&# was I supposed to be grateful for anything when I had to bury my son eight months prior?

I was determined to do whatever I had to, though, to talk to my son again, so I agreed to do this stupid exercise. I began this mediumship training only a month prior, and at this point still had to rely on others for messages from him. Oh, what I would give to hear my precious JT again.

I began with the small things..."I'm grateful for my husband" was an entry. My children. My car. My friends. My home. Amazingly, I was able to find something for which I was grateful every day! I surprised myself at my depth of introspection. I surprised myself even more when I felt the anger melt away, and I began to smile more. But wait! I wasn't supposed to be smiling. I had just buried my child. How could I be smiling? Guilt replaced joy, and an inner struggle began. Wasn't I disrespecting my son by moving toward being happy again? How could I do this?

One night, I heard a whisper in my ear, "But I want you to be happy again, Mom."
At first, I passed it off as my imagination. After all, I was hearing voices in my head from others' loved ones by this time, but who was this? It couldn't be my son. "Mom, it's me! JT. Listen to me. You have to stop this guilt. We have so much to do together and you need to be able to hear me clearly. Forgive yourself!"

What? Forgive myself? How in the world do I do that? I was supposed to protect you, keep you safe, nurture you until you were old enough to fly on your own. I failed. And now, I am feeling joy when my life should be filled with nothing but pain. I don't deserve joy.

Again I heard, "Forgive yourself!" Over and over again, I heard these words. Okay, okay! I will try.

For the sake of my son and my desire to reconnect with him, I began the arduous journey of self-forgiveness. It did not happen overnight, but I did finally forgive myself, not only for JT's passing, but for feeling joyful again. My first book, A Bridge to Healing: J.T.'s Story - A Mother's Grief Journey and Return to Hope, is the result of this work. I would not have been able to write it if I hadn't listened to that voice in my head, "Forgive yourself!"

Holding myself in that anger and guilt kept me from having the clear connection with my son.

What is your un-forgiveness holding from you?

Joyfulness? Happiness? Freedom? Connectedness?

Don't let it stop you anymore. Forgiving yourself for whatever you feel you have done or not done will give you all of these things. You deserve happiness, joyfulness, abundance, connectedness, and more. It does not matter what you think you did, it is time to take one step toward forgiveness.

Here are some resources I found to help. Choose what feels right for you.

http://www.thepowerofforgiveness.com/pdf/Forgiving_oneself.pdf

http://www.louisehay.com/exercise-revenge-and-forgivness/

http://www.celestialhealing.net/emotionalheal2.htm

http://www.gateways-to-inner-peace.com/how-to-forgive.html


If I can help in any way, please contact me!

Have a blessed, forgiving November!

Letters from Heaven: Communicating with Loved Ones Who Have Passed

How incredible would it be to receive a letter from your loved one in Heaven? Imagine getting answers to those questions you have wanted to ask them. But how?

J.T. has developed a new program called Letters from Heaven: Communicating with Loved Ones Who Have Passed. It is a special workshop where you will get the opportunity to write a letter to your loved one, and have them answer it!

Based upon the concept of automatic writing, we use meditation and intention to set the environment so you can get answers to your questions, and "hear" from them about how they are doing now, what they are doing now, and how much they love you!

This month, you have two opportunities to learn this technique - November 18th online, and November 29th in Greeley, CO. Here are the details for both.

Via Phone and Internet:
When: Thursday, November 19, 2015, 5pm Mountain (4pm Pacific, 6pm Central, 7pm Eastern)
Duration: 1- 1/2 hours
Where: Wherever you are! This an online workshop, so an internet connection is all that is required.
Cost: $25
Pre-registration is required! Only 6 spots available, so register now!
Click here for more information and to register!

Greeley, CO Workshop:
When: Sunday, November 29th, 12pm to 2pm
Duration: 2 hours
Where: Creative Center for Spiritual Living, 1113 8th St., Greeley, CO
Cost: $25 Pre-registration price, $30 at the door
Click here for more information and to register!


Gallery Readings - Holiday Edition!
Join me for a very special Connecting to the Other Side Gallery Readings on Tuesday, December 8th at Bas Bleu Theatre in Fort Collins.

Readers and healers will be available before and after the event!
When: Tuesday, December 8th 6:30pm - 8:30pm - Doors open at 5:30pm
Readings from 5:30pm to 6:30pm, and 8:30pm - 9pm
Where: Bas Bleu Theatre, 401 Pine Street, Fort Collins
Cost: $25 per ticket
$5 from every ticket will be donated to Harrington Arts Alliance in Loveland, CO
 
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